Wednesday Random thoughts

[wildflower810]

I had smores tonight. They were amazing.

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[ladytiffany24]

Currently watching my Cavs annihilate the Raptors.

And drinking wine.

[wannabmama]

May 25, 2016 20:23:26 GMT -5 icedtea said:

May 25, 2016 20:00:18 GMT -5 wannabmama said:

I hate it must when I'm in a great mood and then I run smack dab into his shit mood. It's impossible to ignore him in a bad mood, he's a master sulker.

What has him in a tizzy?

He's had some bad shakes in life and sometimes they just get to him. Mostly work and money stress at the moment, but it always cascades. And he becomes so focused on his feeling that he's not successful that it basically paralyzes him. Of course I'd love if we had more money, happy careers etc., but I'm also happy to just sit in the yard and play with the dogs or read a book, go for a walk...simple pleasures. He goes on the walk and sees a nice house or car and gets depressed that he can't have it. And currently he's on that side of his mind...he's good at not taking it out on me or even really being mad (usually) but it's just tough bc there's nothing to say to help him he just has to shake it off on his own...eventually.

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May 25, 2016 20:54:03 GMT -5 wannabmama said:

May 25, 2016 20:23:26 GMT -5 icedtea said:

What has him in a tizzy?

He's had some bad shakes in life and sometimes they just get to him. Mostly work and money stress at the moment, but it always cascades. And he becomes so focused on his feeling that he's not successful that it basically paralyzes him. Of course I'd love if we had more money, happy careers etc., but I'm also happy to just sit in the yard and play with the dogs or read a book, go for a walk...simple pleasures. He goes on the walk and sees a nice house or car and gets depressed that he can't have it. And currently he's on that side of his mind...he's good at not taking it out on me or even really being mad (usually) but it's just tough bc there's nothing to say to help him he just has to shake it off on his own...eventually.

He sounds just like MH. Probably for many of the same reasons.

[teraiin]

May 25, 2016 19:07:21 GMT -5 onesweetworld said:

Puppy hasn't eaten since Monday night and I can't get him to take his pills. he is snuggling on my lap right now.

Nooo poor puppy hope he feels better and gets his appetite back soon!

[teraiin]

May 25, 2016 20:00:18 GMT -5 wannabmama said:

May 25, 2016 19:49:06 GMT -5 icedtea said:

wannabmama, tell H the internet told him to act right.

I hate it must when I'm in a great mood and then I run smack dab into his shit mood. It's impossible to ignore him in a bad mood, he's a master sulker.

Ugh this always happens with MH and I too. Sometimes I feel like he can sense when I'm in an awesome mood not really but it feels like it!

[wannabmama]

May 25, 2016 21:27:09 GMT -5 @wallflwr926 said:

May 25, 2016 20:54:03 GMT -5 wannabmama said:

He's had some bad shakes in life and sometimes they just get to him. Mostly work and money stress at the moment, but it always cascades. And he becomes so focused on his feeling that he's not successful that it basically paralyzes him. Of course I'd love if we had more money, happy careers etc., but I'm also happy to just sit in the yard and play with the dogs or read a book, go for a walk...simple pleasures. He goes on the walk and sees a nice house or car and gets depressed that he can't have it. And currently he's on that side of his mind...he's good at not taking it out on me or even really being mad (usually) but it's just tough bc there's nothing to say to help him he just has to shake it off on his own...eventually.

He sounds just like MH. Probably for many of the same reasons.

It's tough. I want to help him but some stuff is just "shit happens" and his past can't be changed. He's a little more glass empty, in general, too.
Good news...he shook it off, decided he was hungry (I ate earlier) and wanted to go grab something. I went with him and had wine. Win!

[wannabmama]

May 25, 2016 21:39:06 GMT -5 teraiin said:

May 25, 2016 20:00:18 GMT -5 wannabmama said:

I hate it must when I'm in a great mood and then I run smack dab into his shit mood. It's impossible to ignore him in a bad mood, he's a master sulker.

Ugh this always happens with MH and I too. Sometimes I feel like he can sense when I'm in an awesome mood not really but it feels like it!

Seriously!!! I feel the same way. Friday and today I've literally been on top of the world...come home and *bam*
Buzzkill

[ohinvrtedworld]

I am so proud of H for cleaning up our house before his friends come over to play N64 (yes, it is late lol). Usually he just has them arrive to a disgusting house thinking that they won't care.

I CARE, H.

He got it though

[onesweetworld]

May 25, 2016 21:38:06 GMT -5 teraiin said:

May 25, 2016 19:07:21 GMT -5 onesweetworld said:

Puppy hasn't eaten since Monday night and I can't get him to take his pills. he is snuggling on my lap right now.

Nooo poor puppy hope he feels better and gets his appetite back soon!

Thanks girl. I posted on Facebook but he got the bad out (stained the shit out of my carpet) and I got a pain pill and antibiotic in. I thought I got two in but I found one in a wad of bread. He ate 3 slices of bread, beef broth and some apple sauce. I'm just worried he is going to start licking his wound since he feels better. So I'm wide awake, staring at him.

[teraiin]

May 26, 2016 0:07:44 GMT -5 onesweetworld said:

May 25, 2016 21:38:06 GMT -5 teraiin said:

Nooo poor puppy hope he feels better and gets his appetite back soon!

Thanks girl. I posted on Facebook but he got the bad out (stained the shit out of my carpet) and I got a pain pill and antibiotic in. I thought I got two in but I found one in a wad of bread. He ate 3 slices of bread, beef broth and some apple sauce. I'm just worried he is going to start licking his wound since he feels better. So I'm wide awake, staring at him.

Well better out than in! Glad that seemed to help. I totally don't blame you, I think I'd be sitting up staring too if it were my dog.
Hopefully he doesn't lick his wound so you can relax some. Although I realize the chances of that are probably slim...

[icedtea]

wannabmama, I'm glad the night got better! Your H sounds a lot like how my dad's been most of my life—complete with the dueling desire to respond with sympathy, and "shit happens!" He's gotten a lot better over the years.

onesweetworld, hope he's feeling better