Post by angelasashes on Feb 8, 2015 11:07:48 GMT -5
So conflicted, y'all. I think I've read every opinion there is about revealing the baby's name before birth, and mostly it seems like the best idea to wait until after to do the big reveal. There are SO many good reasons not to tell, and I've been in this camp...kinda. We're set on our name, and so many people ask (rude?!). Most of the time DH and I don't tell the name, but there are some good friends of mine who I knew wouldn't say anything unsupportive, so I told them and was not sorry. DH isn't thrilled I told people...and doesn't know I also told my sister! *cue guilt* My parents are in town this weekend and his are local, and he really wants us to tell them all the name today. I told him we could, partly because I do feel bad that others know and our own parents don't. The problem is...
My MIL is super nosy and overwhelms me on the daily. She more than anyone has been all up in my grill about the baby's name, and she's the one person I feel like I might regret it if she knew. She'd likely be the type to announce it all over FB, wear it out by thinking up her own obnoxious nicknames, expressing lots of opinions about it, etc. I'm afraid she'll end up being so obnoxious that it'll change how I feel about our name. TBH, I'm a brat and also kinda liked having having something she couldn't bully out of me.
Am I the one who's being a big baby, here? At the end of the day, this shouldn't be a decision about her. DH has agreed that if his mom gets outta control about the name, he'll deal with it directly and immediately. I do want people to know our name, I just don't want MIL wrecking it! Words of wisdom, anyone?
FYI: name is Jackson Everett. You all knew before MIL, anyway.![;)](//storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/wink.png)
My MIL is super nosy and overwhelms me on the daily. She more than anyone has been all up in my grill about the baby's name, and she's the one person I feel like I might regret it if she knew. She'd likely be the type to announce it all over FB, wear it out by thinking up her own obnoxious nicknames, expressing lots of opinions about it, etc. I'm afraid she'll end up being so obnoxious that it'll change how I feel about our name. TBH, I'm a brat and also kinda liked having having something she couldn't bully out of me.
Am I the one who's being a big baby, here? At the end of the day, this shouldn't be a decision about her. DH has agreed that if his mom gets outta control about the name, he'll deal with it directly and immediately. I do want people to know our name, I just don't want MIL wrecking it! Words of wisdom, anyone?
FYI: name is Jackson Everett. You all knew before MIL, anyway.
![;)](http://storage.proboards.com/forum/images/smiley/wink.png)