Weekly check in 6/14

[GOmamab15]

just realized this weeks check in was missing from my life.

you know the drill:

state of your ute/how old is your outside baby?

whats up? RRRT?

[GOmamab15]

I'll be 39w on Thursday, starting to entertain the idea that I could have a baby next week. For so long I was trying to prevent labor from happening too early and now I guess I could put some effort into spurring it on, even though probably nothing I can really do. I have been having spicy foods the last couple days and sitting on my exercise ball, plan to go for a long walk and maybe even DTD later. I've been so hormonal this week, not sure if I'm ready for baby blues if I'm already kinda feeling it. Not knowing how legit these BH/inconsistent contractions are is not helping.

All the cute baby pics on here are giving me the feels. I'm so happy for all the new mamas and expanding families, I'm looking forward to my turn.

In conclusion, Post more outside baby pics for inspiration! There is a very cute reason that all this pregnancy nonsense is worth it!

[txmommy14]

2.5 weeks! Doing well overall. She's pretty content and easy so far. Still sleep deprived but my mom is here until Friday and I'm going to cry big crocodile tears when she flies home. Scared of managing my toddler at the same time by myself. Breastfeeding is going much better. Here are my most recent random pics!






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[birdhut]

39 weeks tomorrow! Last OB appointment is Monday woo hoo! I believe I have an induction scheduled for next Friday if she isn't here by then but I never heard back from the nurse.
Ready to meet our girl for sure!!

[greysonsmom]

One week old tomorrow! She is just so sweet! DS is still adjusting, he mostly pretends she doesn't exist. Makes me sad that my big baby is having a hard time with this big brother thing. I know he will come around.

Playing dress up with girls is so much fun!

[Flair Underwood]

5 days old (even though I haven't changed my sig yet). DS is great - mellow, beautiful. DD is... Pushing. I'm losing my cool with her and tonight DH told me I was done with her for the night. He was right to tell me to walk away, but still - ouch. I'm having a hard time adjusting my priorities especially when I know that her issues are delaying my much needed sleep. Feeling like a total POS mom over here.

[greysonsmom]

Flair Underwood I'm sorry, you are a great mom. Adjusting to two is hard!

[pbandj714]

A haiku:

I am fucking huge.
Can't labor start already?
I need a cold beer.

That pretty much sums it up. I'm 37w5d. Induction is scheduled for Monday. I see MFM for a growth scan tomorrow and then OB on Thursday. So uncomfortable and ready to not be pregnant!

[pbandj714]

Hugs Flair Underwood. I'm sure the adjustment is tough for both of you. Just know you're a good mom! It will get better.

[sandandsea]

40+1 and counting. Induction will happen the 22/23 if I don't go before then on my own. 3cm and 70% effaced with random contractions and no labor in sight.
I'm huge and uncomfortable and can't sleep. Every time I stand I have to pee and I've had loose stools for a week.
Baby was measuring 7lbs 5 oz a month ago so I'm scared.

[soultrane]

C will be 3 weeks tomorrow! He's mostly great but has been dealing with gas so I'm trying to figure out what to cut from my diet.

He's also been a big mamas boy this week. He isnt happy unless he's on me, but refused to go in the carrier the other day, so my poor arms are getting a workout. At least it's a cute workout!!

G is an amazing big brother and has been a big help. It's also so sweet to see him talking to the baby and trying to help soothe him when he's upset.

My current cuddle bug. 

[manybellsdown]

40w2d. Apparently I'm 2cm but the cynical part of me thinks my doc threw me a bone because I found today's check pretty painful.

I'm ready now. I wasn't for a while, but I really am now.

I'm ready to meet him and to get one step closer to this...

[manybellsdown]

pbandj714, your haiku is inspired.

Flair Underwood, hugs. You are a great mom. We all need breaks sometimes.

[mymilkshake]

40 weeks 2 days. I have an u/s scheduled for Thursday to check on baby boys status. He was measuring 8.5 last week apparently. Induction set for Sunday am if nothing happens before hand. I was a "tight 1cm" they said on Monday. I'd say at least that's something but that's what I was the week before!!!

[amiet79]

41 weeks 3 days. I'm so over being pregnant and I've been an emotional mess. Induction is set for Friday the 17th. Not sure what time yet. I'll find out on Thursday. I really don't want to be induced, but I've given up hope of going into labor on my own.
I had a horrible doctor appointment last Thursday where I saw a resident. I was a total bitch to him, but he knew nothing and kept getting my dates wrong. I left the appointment in tears. Everything is fine now, but he was trying to schedule my induction for Monday the 20th. I would've been 42 +2. My doctor and I discussed me being induced on Friday before that appointment. When I got home DH phoned my doctor and settled everything. I wish I would've spoke up and asked to see my doctor, but my social anxiety makes my head foggy and I can't think clearly.
I love seeing all of the babies and I can't wait for my little guy to be here!

[amiet79]

Flair Underwood, I had a hard time with DS, when DD was born. I think back and I feel like crying about how horrible I was to him. It's so hard to deal with a toddler and a newborn. I was alone with them a lot and I was dealing with some family stuff and I just couldn't handle it. Sometimes, you just have to walk away. The good thing is that it doesn't last forever and DS still loves me and he tells me so every day.
You are a good mother! ((Hugs))

[Kevinmac]

I'm 38 weeks today, and I need this baby to hold off for a little bit longer. Once my baking is done (which will be Saturday or Sunday) I will be ready. I feel good overall, just some swelling in my ankles when I've been on my feet a lot. I have an appointment on Thursday and again on Monday. I haven't felt any contractions or Braxton Hicks that I know of.

[titania]

Hugs Flair Underwood!

E hit one month on Sunday (what?!?) and is really starting to be more alert and aware. It is so awesome to see! We are doing lots of tummy time and she has been a rockstar with picking her head up. Sleeping is hit or miss with a few good nights mixed in with bad ones, but I feel like we are making progress! I am feeling good, a bit emotional and sensitive, but I think that is to be expected given the lack of sleep. I have my postpartum check-up on Friday, so I finally get my pump. Yay! It will be nice that DH will be able to help with some feedings!

I can't wait to meet more outside babies!

[woodengirl07]

I can't believe Miss C is a whole month old now! It's kinda nuts! She's up to 7lbs 10oz and 20in, which means we have graduated to newborn size clothes! The preemie stuff is too small. I keep buying clothes for her since they are so cute and she doesn't have too many newborn outfits. Once she is in the 0-3 size, she'll have tons of things.

We are still learning a lot in how to live this new lifestyle for sure. I love this little booger so much, but man am I exhausted! DH really needs to learn to step up a bit, we're working on it.

Anyway- here are some pics from our 1 month shoot!

[txmommy14]

Jun 14, 2016 21:37:17 GMT -5 amiet79 said:

Flair Underwood, I had a hard time with DS, when DD was born. I think back and I feel like crying about how horrible I was to him. It's so hard to deal with a toddler and a newborn. I was alone with them a lot and I was dealing with some family stuff and I just couldn't handle it. Sometimes, you just have to walk away. The good thing is that it doesn't last forever and DS still loves me and he tells me so every day.
You are a good mother! ((Hugs))

This is so encouraging to read. Thank you!! I needed to hear this, too!

[Flair Underwood]

Thanks, guys. I keep trying to remember that DD's life is the one that already exists. She has a routine and a schedule and feelings and things she's used to. DS grows around it.

I have to remember that with every single thing "this too shall pass" - each challenge is temporary.

Ugh.

[packerfan4life]

DD is 4 days old (in 1 hr). Things are going so well. I won some sort of hormonal jackpot and feel amazing and really hope these hormones don't wear off any time soon. We had our first outing yesterday to the pediatrician office and she's at 93% of birth weight, but my milk is in, she's feeding great and stools have transitioned so no worries. Afterwards we went to the park so DD1 could run around and get some energy out. I feel like a rock star because I was able to nurse in public using the ring sling and not show off too much boob (I think). DD1 is doing so much better than expected. She loves her little sister so much and is so sweet with her (for the most part). She's had some increase in tantrums/fussiness but nothing major.
DD2 is taking after big sis and refuses to be set down to sleep. Luckily H is a teacher and off for the summer so we're taking shifts getting our baby snuggles on. Luckily DD1 has only beeen waking up about once per night.

[birdhut]

Jun 14, 2016 20:02:45 GMT -5 Flair Underwood said:

5 days old (even though I haven't changed my sig yet). DS is great - mellow, beautiful. DD is... Pushing. I'm losing my cool with her and tonight DH told me I was done with her for the night. He was right to tell me to walk away, but still - ouch. I'm having a hard time adjusting my priorities especially when I know that her issues are delaying my much needed sleep. Feeling like a total POS mom over here.

You are not a POS mom! It's frustrating when you know they can behave better and they are choosing not to. My baby isn't here yet but I have been struggling with DDs attitude this week as well. I know she's not sleeping well and is so grumpy lately. I just don't do crying over everything well unless you're sick. I'm thinking maybe teeth but either way she just looses it over any little thing. It's hard to keep patience when you know they don't always act that way and you haven't had a lot of sleep! Hoping things get better soon!

[mladerri]

packerfan4life glad you're feeling great and getting to enjoy dd. I feel the same way. With ds I was crying at least daily if not more at this point. I keep thinking when is the sadness going to start, but i feel great and I'm going to enjoy it while it lasts. I can sympathize with anyone who is experiencing any blues. I think getting outside once a day really helps. Also letting dh know your feelings and ways they can help will really make a difference. I was so mad at dh every day and resented him so much. one night I sat there breastfeeding bawling my eyes out how mad that I was the one doing everything and it seemed I was the only one making sacrifices. He didn't know until I told him and then I cried more because he didn't make a change. We've definitely grown since then and I think dh's participation this time has helped with my emotions tremendously.

[chriskoo]

39 + 3 today, and I'm totally antsy to meet baby. I have a doc appt this afternoon, hopefully she will be able to do a membrane sweep. Last week it wasn't an option because i was still completely closed.

I'm really hoping baby comes soon, partly bc I have GD so I'm worried about an extra big baby. Last ultrasound two weeks ago said the baby was a bit over 7 lbs, apparently 70th percentile for weight. I know those measurements can be off but I still keep thinking that the longer it stays in the bigger it's getting and labour will be that much tougher.