Post by junebug060609 on Feb 8, 2015 21:38:06 GMT -5
DS has been a handful this week. I'm hoping it's related to his developing a new skill (opening doors). On the one hand, "Yay for a new skill!" On the other, "OMFG, do you HAVE to practice this new skill at 3am the other night...or right now at bedtime?" Part of me wonders if it's the typical 2/3 thing of pushing boundaries, just with an ASD twist.
I was up until 4am the other night keeping him contained in his room and (relatively) quiet so that he wouldn't wake up his little sister (he still managed to wake her up once)...and then she woke up for the day at 6am. I know lack of sleeping isn't uncommon with ASD...and I'm praying that isn't the case with DS. I don't like how short tempered I am when I'm that tired and both kids deserve a better mommy than that
Anyhow, in addition to the pushing the new trick, which I understand...new stuff is fun! There's been an uptick in his stimming. The flapping his ears is pretty much constant, and it sounds like it hurts...kinda turns them red sometimes and has scratched one of them once (fingernail). Do you think this (the change and uptick in stimming) is just coincidence? Maybe tied in to an increase in bandwith that I'd assume goes with a new skill like the door thing (he's also started doing a few signs more regularly, has started trying to draw circles, gotten better at copying and following directions and gotten more resourceful when it comes to getting places he shouldn't be...like climbing over the couch to get to the other side of a child fence). He's also started this leg shaking thing today that's basically like what someone wired on caffeine might do. Not sure what's up with that, though I do suspect he might've been overtired. DH was with him while I put DD to bed, and when I came out DS had gone from barely showing signs of sleepiness to manicly overtired.
In addition to him doing this this week DD has also been cutting a tooth and decided to start walking yesterday. Nobody is sleeping well, and me least of all. Seriously feeling like I'm in way over head both in terms of stuff with DS, and also in terms of DH being at sea for most of the summer (aka I'll be solo with these two hooligans pretty much all summer...I'm barely handling it now when DH is home most nights...how the hell will I manage it with DS not in school?). I know the answer is to just do it, and I will, but I'm not looking forward to the difficult days (am looking forward to the fun times though).
Sorry for the vent. I guess I figure not only will you guys have good insight, but many of you have also probably felt this way at times.