Intro. Lots of warnings (loss of a child, living child, etc.

[happyin14]

Hey guys! Can I join? I used to be very active in TB and PB when we all migrated. Was active in O14, Infant/Child Loss, PGAL and PAL.


Here's my story: (again, some triggers)


I am 36 and DH is 37. Ds1 was born in November of 2010 and died in August of 2013. It was sudden and rough... DS2 was born in October of 2014 and he's a champ. Keeping us busy.

We want a sibling and have been TTC since last September. I had some losses in between DS1 and DS2. This time, a m/c at 8 weeks on Dec 28. And no positives since. To make matters worse, my cycle is all over the place. I was always a perfect 28 day cycle and now I'm anywhere from 35 days to 14.... I'm currently 13DPO but sitting out this cycle by choice.

I have a dr appt on Friday to check hormone levels and such. And I'm just feeling really down about it all. So thought I could come here and participate with like-minded folks.

[wannabmama]

Hi and welcome! I'm so sorry for your losses and the rough road you've been traveling. We are a small group here but very supportive and really wonderful. I hope your dr appt goes well and your stay here is short and sweet!

[caer]

Hi happyin14! I'm so very sorry for the loss of your sweet boy. I'm sorry for your other losses as well. As wannabmama said, we're a small but very friendly and supportive group. Wishing you the best of luck here.

[twohopes]

Hi, I am so very sorry for your many losses. I too have a few pregnancy losses, and an Oct. 14 rainbow miracle. Now trying for a sibling. I hope we can swap stories and provide support along the way.

[hooligans4]

I'm sorry for your losses.
Welcome to our group.

[jlincoln]

Welcome!! We are also trying for a sibling and have had a recent loss. I'm sorry for your losses and I hope you aren't here long.

[hoosiermama76]

Welcome! I'm so sorry for your losses.

[cali]

Welcome. I'm so sorry for your losses.

[monika]

I am extremely sorry to hear about your loss. This must have been so difficult for you. However, my advice to you would be to not lose hope. I know MC can be very hard to cope with but stay strong. I would suggest that you make sure that the doctor you visit is operating at a high success rate. It is very important that the clinic knows what they are doing. People usually don't take this seriously, however, this is very important. When I changed my clinic and visited one which was operating at a success rate things changed drastically for me. The clinic from the very get-go treated me in the best way possible. When I first emailed them they replied within 48 hours which amazed me. After this every step that was taken I was prioritized by them. My first visit went amazing as well with them, I hope things go well in the future as well. Good luck to you. Just let me know if you need any help. Sending baby dust your way.

[hindee]

I am sorry to hear about your losses. I can understand that this must be very hard for you. Secondary infertility can be emotionally draining. However, don't lose hope. I would suggest that you opt for a specialist. Get your tests done. This will help in determining what might be the cause of this. Good luck to you.

[saraqueen]

Welcome to the forum. I am so sorry for your loss. I know the time is hard but it will pass. You are in the right place now don't worry. Here you will find a lot of similar stories and that will help you fight it. Stay blessed!

[myraward]

Hi! I feel so bad for you. You have been through a lot. I m glad that you are still not giving up. You have come to the right place for support. People here are so nice that they will make you forget about everything. Stay blessed!

[jennifer123]

Hey, I hope you are well. I can understand how hard this must be for you. I am really sorry to read about your loss. I can understand how hard that must be for you. However, stay strong and positve. Make sure to visit the right doctor. Someone who is more experienced and knows how to carry the process. This is really important and shouldn't be taken into consideration. I am sure they won't be anything serious. However, I do understand that secondary infertility can be really difficult to comprehend. It is good that you're getting these tests done. They will really answer many questions for you. good luck to you. Senidng baby dust your way.

[hally]

You've had such a tough time. I'm really sorry, hun. It must have been difficult pushing yourself through all this. I'm really proud of you that you've managed it well so far. I know, it's difficult to remain hopeful, but that's exactly what you have to do. Don't give up hope, you can still do this!

[dakota]

I'm really sorry to hear about your losses. It sounds like a really tough journey. However, it's good to see you hanging in there. You're quite brave if you've managed it so far. You should not give up. It could still happen! I want to wish you the best of luck on your journey. I hope you hear some amazing news, soon!

[hannaah]

Welcome to the forum, honey. Make yourself comfortable, okay? There's nothing to worry about. I can understand your situation. TTC is generally tough. Your age is quite fine, to be honest. You're doing everything right, honey. You only need a bit of luck. It's really important to stay in constant contact with your doctor. They are really helpful. It gives you an idea of what's right and wrong. So, best of luck to you, honey! You can get through this, I'm sure. Keep us posted on how the next cycle goes. I'd love to be of any kind of help. You can do this!