::hugs:: daisy818. Couples counseling was such a lifesaver for me and DH. I hope you're still going. Obviously I don't know your relationship, but our issue was that we were really bad with communicating with each other. I feel like we might need an intermediary forever lol.
::hugs:: daisy818. Couples counseling was such a lifesaver for me and DH. I hope you're still going. Obviously I don't know your relationship, but our issue was that we were really bad with communicating with each other. I feel like we might need an intermediary forever lol.
Thanks! Yeah, most of it boils down to communication/understanding the other person's needs for us, although it initially manifested itself in some other problems. We are still going to therapy about twice a month. I really do think it has saved us already even though we still have bumps like today, and DH even says that he knows we're even stronger because of what we've gone through. I honestly think every couple could use some occasional therapy - it really has improved how we understand each other!
Dear coworker, you have been in your job for 6 months. You do not deserve a senior position just because you have been with the company 19 years. The person who was in that role before you was here for 25 in the same role for like 15.
I miss my boss and he's only been gone 2 hours. The flood gates to my desk open when he is gone.
Post by housecarder on Feb 9, 2015 17:00:21 GMT -5
My bitch is that one of the doctors rear-ended me as I was leaving the hospital from clinicals. It was minor damage but now I have to keep telling myself that my lower back pain is from CD2 and def not the accident. Might be doing pickle juice shots soon.
I think I am going to have a heart attack. The fucking payroll at my old job said that a recent audit shows that I was overpaid by over $3000 and now they want that money back. I can't stop crying and shaking. This is the last thing we need right now.
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Creepy internet hugs to Unknown, daisy818 and icequeen. And anyone else who needs them, of course.
My bitch is at PowerPoint. Seriously gave me a heart attack this morning when I opened a slide show and all my slides had disappeared. Apparently it classified them as "layout" slides instead of regular slides. Who knows. Took me a half hour to figure that out.
Also, I need all of you who are bitching about snow to please send some to me. We haven't gotten any this year and I'm sad.
I think I am going to have a heart attack. The fucking payroll at my old job said that a recent audit shows that I was overpaid by over $3000 and now they want that money back. I can't stop crying and shaking. This is the last thing we need right now.
That's just bullshit and I really hope you don't have to pay the money back, since it wasn't your fault and I'm assuming you didn't know.
Post by teenybenoit on Feb 9, 2015 18:36:35 GMT -5
We are missing 3 people from a company of 20 which means some of us are doing a few peoples jobs. I hate that my boss then feels the need to randomly shout stuff out at me from his office and then get pissed when I have no idea what he is talking about because I have 17 other things on the go at that very moment...grrrr...thank the lawd this day is ova!!!!!!
I think I am going to have a heart attack. The fucking payroll at my old job said that a recent audit shows that I was overpaid by over $3000 and now they want that money back. I can't stop crying and shaking. This is the last thing we need right now.
Oh hell no. They had better not make you pay that back, that's ridiculous. I worked in accounting and made mistakes so massive before that someone underpaid the reinstatement to get out of foreclosure by over $1,000, but since it was my fault that I billed them wrong, they weren't responsible for that $1,000 and I just got a huge write-off. Which sucked, but got them off the hook for sure.
FX that they get their crap together and not expect you to pay that back.
ETA: hugs for daisy818. That's so hard and I'm sorry.
I think I am going to have a heart attack. The fucking payroll at my old job said that a recent audit shows that I was overpaid by over $3000 and now they want that money back. I can't stop crying and shaking. This is the last thing we need right now.
Fuck that noise. That was their mistake and you don't even work there anymore. NOPE! Unless they requested the money be returned within hours of when they paid it, they are dumb as hell to expect to get it back.
I think I am going to have a heart attack. The fucking payroll at my old job said that a recent audit shows that I was overpaid by over $3000 and now they want that money back. I can't stop crying and shaking. This is the last thing we need right now.
icequeen I'm not sure they can do that. Especially if it was their mistake. Did they ask for the money before now? Sounds like bullshit, and OH well to them, they are SOL. Maybe they'll pay better attention when they do their payroll now.
icequeen I'm not sure they can do that. Especially if it was their mistake. Did they ask for the money before now? Sounds like bullshit, and OH well to them, they are SOL. Maybe they'll pay better attention when they do their payroll now.
This happened to me a while back and I was overpaid by a $1000. I ended up having to pay it back. They at least let me spread the payments out over a few months so I didn't have to pay it back all at once. I hope that is not the case for icequeen.
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They said there was a change of forms and that they paid me for 2 months that I was out. True, my leave was submitted late, but when I spoke to HR about it, they just said "Don't worry about that, we'll figure it out on our own end". The FUCK they did. And I don't have access to my work email anymore so I can prove that they fucked up. Plus, they already sent me my W2 and reported that amount themselves to the IRS so what can they do now? And to top it off, back in September I ended up shelling out $500 of my own money to pay for lost money in our funds, which was not even my fault. This was actually illegal, according to my lawyer. OMFG I am so fucking done for today.
icequeen I'm not sure they can do that. Especially if it was their mistake. Did they ask for the money before now? Sounds like bullshit, and OH well to them, they are SOL. Maybe they'll pay better attention when they do their payroll now.
This happened to me a while back and I was overpaid by a $1000. I ended up having to pay it back. They at least let me spread the payments out over a few months so I didn't have to pay it back all at once. I hope that is not the case for icequeen.
Yes, I am expecting this will happen to me too. I have to call and ask how we are going to set it up. I might just have DH call because I just know I'm going to have a breakdown over the phone.
This happened to me a while back and I was overpaid by a $1000. I ended up having to pay it back. They at least let me spread the payments out over a few months so I didn't have to pay it back all at once. I hope that is not the case for icequeen.
Yes, I am expecting this will happen to me too. I have to call and ask how we are going to set it up. I might just have DH call because I just know I'm going to have a breakdown over the phone.
I am so sorry. That is a lot of money to have to pay back when you weren't expecting to. That might be a good idea for you DH to handle. See if you can come up with a plan where they take less out of your check each pay period until it adds up to $3000. It maybe smart to get it in writing of what the agreement is.
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They said there was a change of forms and that they paid me for 2 months that I was out. True, my leave was submitted late, but when I spoke to HR about it, they just said "Don't worry about that, we'll figure it out on our own end". The FUCK they did. And I don't have access to my work email anymore so I can prove that they fucked up. Plus, they already sent me my W2 and reported that amount themselves to the IRS so what can they do now? And to top it off, back in September I ended up shelling out $500 of my own money to pay for lost money in our funds, which was not even my fault. This was actually illegal, according to my lawyer. OMFG I am so fucking done for today.
Sorry everyone, I am really losing it.
I would be contacting your lawyer ASAP. Do whatever you can to try and find a paper trail/evidence that this is their mess up. Get everything in writing from here on out, try to get written proof that it was their error
Yeah I agree. I would not pay that shit back without a fight. It was their mistake, its been reported on your W2 already, you don't even work there anymore...Definitely check with someone before you set up a payment plan or anything.
Thanks, everyone. I am definitely not going to lay down and let them walk all over me for the umpteenth time. This has gotten way out of hand and they are all crooked. Thank you for letting me vent.
Post by wowcheezits on Feb 9, 2015 21:07:35 GMT -5
I messed up dinner tonight and therefore wasted a bunch of ingredients. DH and I ended up eating something else to get the taste out FWIW my toddler liked it and ate lots.
I would be contacting your lawyer ASAP. Do whatever you can to try and find a paper trail/evidence that this is their mess up. Get everything in writing from here on out, try to get written proof that it was their error
Yeah I agree. I would not pay that shit back without a fight. It was their mistake, its been reported on your W2 already, you don't even work there anymore...Definitely check with someone before you set up a payment plan or anything.
W2's can and should be revised in the event of an error. It sucks, but that's also why you should check your pay to make sure you are not being over or under paid. Both can lead to major headaches. And yes, she absolutely owes it back. It was not earned. It's not hers.
Payroll people are human and most aren't out to fuck everyone over. You guys are actually managing to make our union guys that threaten to go to the hall over 1 hour being off look reasonable.
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