Post by mrskblack11 on Jul 19, 2016 15:06:46 GMT -5
I seriously can't believe I am being accused of having another account. Yea I am being defensive. I don't even go here anymore. I came on a few days ago and deleted all my pictures because I heard through the grape vine that all were out on witch hunts.
Not that it matters, because I don't even go here anymore...but NariaDreaming,bibliothecary,theophania,wordsy, is there a way to prove I am not attached to this other account these ladies think I am?
I totally forgot about our June Jackalopes Badge! It's so cute.
mrskblack11 So who belongs to this grapevine that you heard about this "witch hunt" through? You're not on the FB group right? Are there IRL groups of friends on this board that I wasn't aware of?
budders, this is a very naive question but can admins check PMs and Tapatalk chats between members?
ummm. That's kind of an invasion of privacy. I would hope the admin are not able to do that, not because I have anything to hide, but because that is really really wrong.
Nope. We cannot access private messages of other members.
5 years TTC 2 c/p's 2 failed IUIs/1 cancelled IVF 1 failed IVF 1 failed FET BFP 12/1/15. We said goodbye to Tiny 1/4/16 Fresh cycle #3 2/16 8R/7M/5F BFP 5/12/16 We said goodbye to flutter on 5/27 and poprock on 5/28 BFP 8/30/16 We said goodbye to Samuel 10/3 (Trisomy 16) Moving on to Donor Embryos BFP 12/20/16 We said goodbye to Turtle 12/30
I seriously can't believe I am being accused of having another account. Yea I am being defensive. I don't even go here anymore. I came on a few days ago and deleted all my pictures because I heard through the grape vine that all were out on witch hunts.
Not that it matters, because I don't even go here anymore...but NariaDreaming ,bibliothecary ,theophania ,wordsy , is there a way to prove I am not attached to this other account these ladies think I am?
The only "witch hunt" we are on is to try to find out how our private board was hacked by a former reg of June 15 who was never given the password. So I'm not sure who your "grapevine" entails but maybe tell them to fuck off.
ETA if you no longer "go here" why the fuck do you care if I think you have another account? I didn't accuse you of being malicious with the AE. I just said you had one.
Well I assumed it was malicious. It stings a little when the people who helped get you through your pregnancy accuse you of being something you are not. I thought y'all knew me better than that, but I haven't gone here in months so I guess I shouldn't expect more from people I don't know anymore.
Yea and the grapevine doesn't go here anymore because y'all are apparently crazy. So don't you worry about that.
Post by periwinkledaydreams on Jul 19, 2016 15:29:35 GMT -5
We're crazy for wanting to know who's trolling us? I have absolutely no idea who was responsible for the breach in the private board, or who the reappearing troll beetlejuice/max is, but I def don't think its crazy to want to know/want it to stop.
Post by periwinkledaydreams on Jul 19, 2016 15:39:34 GMT -5
Maxblack appeared randomly months ago, like the beginning of the year, and just started posting gifs that were so obviously pot stirring.. and then vanished until now. I just cannot for the life of me imagine JBC has the time or whatever to be bothered with doing that kind of weird shit. Then again I mean it would surprise me to find out it was ANY of the people we've gotten to know, but its obviously somebody, so...
I don't know why I'm bothering to post this. This is SO DUMB.
5 years TTC 2 c/p's 2 failed IUIs/1 cancelled IVF 1 failed IVF 1 failed FET BFP 12/1/15. We said goodbye to Tiny 1/4/16 Fresh cycle #3 2/16 8R/7M/5F BFP 5/12/16 We said goodbye to flutter on 5/27 and poprock on 5/28 BFP 8/30/16 We said goodbye to Samuel 10/3 (Trisomy 16) Moving on to Donor Embryos BFP 12/20/16 We said goodbye to Turtle 12/30
5 years TTC 2 c/p's 2 failed IUIs/1 cancelled IVF 1 failed IVF 1 failed FET BFP 12/1/15. We said goodbye to Tiny 1/4/16 Fresh cycle #3 2/16 8R/7M/5F BFP 5/12/16 We said goodbye to flutter on 5/27 and poprock on 5/28 BFP 8/30/16 We said goodbye to Samuel 10/3 (Trisomy 16) Moving on to Donor Embryos BFP 12/20/16 We said goodbye to Turtle 12/30
Post by mrskblack11 on Jul 19, 2016 16:04:15 GMT -5
I would like to say that I am more upset than I should be over being accused of trolling the board. I am thankful of my time here and have made many friends along the way who I will continue to keep in touch with. I am highly disappointed what June '15 has turned into. The only reason I stuck around for as long as I did was because of the great ladies on the PGAL board.
I hope you feel like asshats for accusing an innocent person.
Post by periwinkledaydreams on Jul 19, 2016 16:10:40 GMT -5
June 15 hasnt "turned into" anything, to be fair. Not everyone here accused you, or made assumptions, and you're like "bye bitches" as though we were all in agreement. I wish the people who did jump to conclusions as though they were fact were quick to apologize, and I'd be offended if I were you too. But I'm not trying to be offended that you called us all bitches and conclude that this place has rotted into something awful when in fact the vast majority of what happens here is positive. ETA @mrsblack11 if it wasn't obvious.
Post by mrsdee1982 on Jul 19, 2016 16:13:49 GMT -5
I gotta say, it's more than a bit odd that after all this time you would create an AE just to come in here and shit all over the board. Like, for reals, don't you have better things to be doing with your time? You had the chance to be an actual member of our community and then YOU freaked out about something trivial and bounced. So why come back at all?
Kristykristyleelee and @jemomma, if we re open the private board, will you be sending the password to all who met your 'requirements'? Or people will PM you for now? How would that work?
Is anyone still concerned how hbananahammock got the password to the private board?
Post by periwinkledaydreams on Jul 19, 2016 18:21:00 GMT -5
I guess now is a good a time as any to bring up that I'm really sad and can't stop thinking about that ombradellarosa was called into question last week and then referred to just as ODR while people conversed about wether or not she was trusted to be in the private board, etc. I'm not wanting to put words in anyone's mouth and since I came into that whole issue and conversation a day or two after it even started, amd then the private board was shut down, I really don't know exactly what was said. What I do know is that ombradellarosa was caused to feel ostracized from our community, for one reason or another. I think that the jumping to specific suspicion regarding individual members before any concrete and conclusive information is found is likely to breed these feelings. I don't want anyone to feel uncomfortable here for no good reason. And I don't think going off the board for a few months because of legitimate life circumstances and then coming back when things IRL settle down is cause for suspicion.
Like I said, I don't know exactly what was said. But I do know that someone who has been part of this community for as far as I can remember left here feeling talked about and unwanted, and I have a lot of feels about that.
I guess now is a good a time as any to bring up that I'm really sad and can't stop thinking about that ombradellarosa was called into question last week and then referred to just as ODR while people conversed about wether or not she was trusted to be in the private board, etc. I'm not wanting to put words in anyone's mouth and since I came into that whole issue and conversation a day or two after it even started, amd then the private board was shut down, I really don't know exactly what was said. What I do know is that ombradellarosa was caused to feel ostracized from our community, for one reason or another. I think that the jumping to specific suspicion regarding individual members before any concrete and conclusive information is found is likely to breed these feelings. I don't want anyone to feel uncomfortable here for no good reason. And I don't think going off the board for a few months because of legitimate life circumstances and then coming back when things IRL settle down is cause for suspicion.
Like I said, I don't know exactly what was said. But I do know that someone who has been part of this community for as far as I can remember left here feeling talked about and unwanted, and I have a lot of feels about that.
Nothing was suspected of her. It was stated that I did not feel comfortable with her accessing the private board because she is not and has not been an active participant in this board. I do not understand why she needed to be privy to what was shared in the private board when she could find the support she needed in the public board.
Jesus Christ.
I'm not mad, I'm upset that feelings were hurt in the process.
That is exactly how it feels. I think that accusing people based on suspicion does nothing but breed paranoia. It doesn't do much good to say you weren't trying to hurt someone's feelings if you do the same things over and over and it keeps hurting people's feelings.
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