Post by theseaword on Aug 11, 2016 11:30:45 GMT -5
I have very poor fine motor skills. I can't open my seltzer. I put it in the kitchen with a note promising a $1 prize to anyone who can open it and return it to me.
Kinda hard to keep track of what you are talking about when its vague posting eh?
I don't think I was being vague for those that were involved at all.
Eh it was a 120 page thread stickied for the whole site so there was a lot of people not involved watching the interaction and scratching heads about the vagueness of it all. I'm here every day but couldn't quite catch up.
But while you say you release stuff and let it go, you also mention you do screen shots, have sticky notes, spreadsheets and keep accounting of who love tit posts for or against you. and taking note of that shit clouds your impressions of people's posts a bit. It has to.
So maybe someone else doing similar due to how their friends were treated is just par for the course eh? All of our interactions have consequences. Some people hold grudges and that isn't necessarily a bad thing.
Sometimes you have to keep people at arms length or categorized in your head a bit so when they poke you or talk to you "too honestly" that it doesn't hurt. Or it gets to you and you have to pull back to safer places (like the planner thread of safety).
Yes, Amy G. This is why I posted that in that thread. It was my confession that I was holding onto some shit. I called myself pettyAF. I admitted to being salty about some shit.
I said screenshots and lists - I never said spreadsheets or sticky notes - I said it as a joke. As several people here before me have said.
What's funny is since you brought it up - the reason why I commented about the people who love tit posts against me cause I found it odd like where did these people come from? They were not people who were "in the thread" that day there seemed to be a common theme. A couple of names familiar but do not interact and only seem to come around for these kind of special events. So it stood out to me. But now I know.
Some people just read the big threads and love tit as their only participation. Love tits don't really mean shit lol.
I don't think I was being vague for those that were involved at all.
Eh it was a 120 page thread stickied for the whole site so there was a lot of people not involved watching the interaction and scratching heads about the vagueness of it all. I'm here every day but couldn't quite catch up.
I am not talking about the sitewide thread, you are.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
Yes, Amy G. This is why I posted that in that thread. It was my confession that I was holding onto some shit. I called myself pettyAF. I admitted to being salty about some shit.
I said screenshots and lists - I never said spreadsheets or sticky notes - I said it as a joke. As several people here before me have said.
What's funny is since you brought it up - the reason why I commented about the people who love tit posts against me cause I found it odd like where did these people come from? They were not people who were "in the thread" that day there seemed to be a common theme. A couple of names familiar but do not interact and only seem to come around for these kind of special events. So it stood out to me. But now I know.
Some people just read the big threads and love tit as their only participation. Love tits don't really mean shit lol.
Again you are not talking about, what I am talking about.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
This is what I plan to do. I'm taking the rest of the day off and am going to attempt to get my shit together.
I've never had to advocate for myself in such a manner so this will be fun.
Here's the formula: listen to Short Skirt, Long Jacket, Pussy Control, and Respect on repeat. Even if it's a phone conversation, but particularly if it's an in person meeting look your absolute best and exude complete confidence. Practice your opening line out loud more than once. You got this.
I agree with this, and would also write down a list of potential objections/arguments you might get back, and craft your responses to them. You might even have a practice role-play of the conversation with someone if it will make you feel more confident going in.
Feel free to Borrow my own personal self-pump-up mantra: "I've earned the right to be here, I have valuable things to bring to the table, and I'm the best looking motherfucker in this room*"
*that last one isn't always true but often it is and then it's like "bonus!"
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"I can't fathom a reason that you'd lie. But people also inject cement and superglue in their asses, so sometimes I'm just at a loss about people's decision-making abilities."-rocksforludo
"I can't fathom a reason that you'd lie. But people also inject cement and superglue in their asses, so sometimes I'm just at a loss about people's decision-making abilities."-rocksforludo
Hey there Shiny! I'm mostly in the celebrity blinds thread these days. It's the best place to discuss the important issues and occasionally see pictures of severed genitalia in jars.
My MIL and I are just too different. I think it drives her crazy that her son married someone who is not at all like her.
Twins! My H has actually said, "you realize Sterling is NOTHING like you, right?" She cried.
I have to admit that my first reaction is that would really upset me too. It would feel fairly personal. You hear so many people say they found a partner the total opposite of their parent specifically because they couldn't stand that parent.
I'm scurred to get a wax because I'm afraid it'll hurt but mostly I'm embarrassed for anyone to see me because I hate the way I look sans clothes.
trust and believe that no matter what you look like, they won't notice or care. They legit look at harry poontang all day, errryday as a career choice.
Also, you can keep your shirt on unless your pubes are growing all the way up to your navel. In that case, just lift up your shirt.
I don't think I was being vague for those that were involved at all.
Eh it was a 120 page thread stickied for the whole site so there was a lot of people not involved watching the interaction and scratching heads about the vagueness of it all. I'm here every day but couldn't quite catch up.
You say "eh" a lot. Just thought I'd bring that to your attention. YW.
Are we still confessing? My MIL just texted me and it warmed my heart. We have a great relationship. That being said, I am so afraid to be a future MIL to someone. I hear so many stories of people hating their ILs and how they eat crackers and what not. I'm sure some of it is them truly being awful, but a lot of times it feels like petty bullshit. I would be so hurt if my kids cut me out of their lives or my grandchildren's lives because of a spouse that doesn't see eye-to-eye with me.
Agreed. I think rules for being an awesome MIL are:
1. Don't talk about your child's sex life.
2. That's about it.
Rule #2 for being an awesome mil: Don't tell your daughter in law that you're son could do SO much better than he did by marrying said daughter.
Did you get your hair done? I believe you were going with my inspo picture but I haven't gotten mine done yet. Curious to see how it worked out. I'm supposed to go tomorrow but will likely have to move my appointment yet again.
Did you get your hair done? I believe you were going with my inspo picture but I haven't gotten mine done yet. Curious to see how it worked out. I'm supposed to go tomorrow but will likely have to move my appointment yet again.
Like.. I know people get Brazillians all the time...but I still am too nervous to call someplace and be like...hey-can you wax me bare? Also I don't know what the process is. Do they tell you to undress like at the Dr?
you call and ask for a Brazilian. better yet, book it online. Brazilian means all the hair will be gone, no explanation needed.
You'll take off your pants and underwear and lay on a table on your back. They'll come back in the room and tell you how to position your legs and such.
I put off going to the Gyno until I was 26. While I really want to be waxed, having to spread eagle and have my VULVA spread wide open sounds like a seventh circle of hell.
"I can't fathom a reason that you'd lie. But people also inject cement and superglue in their asses, so sometimes I'm just at a loss about people's decision-making abilities."-rocksforludo
you call and ask for a Brazilian. better yet, book it online. Brazilian means all the hair will be gone, no explanation needed.
You'll take off your pants and underwear and lay on a table on your back. They'll come back in the room and tell you how to position your legs and such.
I put off going to the Gyno until I was 26. While I really want to be waxed, having to spread eagle and have my VULVA spread wide open sounds like a seventh circle of hell.
I put off going to the Gyno until I was 26. While I really want to be waxed, having to spread eagle and have my VULVA spread wide open sounds like a seventh circle of hell.
You never went to the gyno until you were 26?
*whispers* No. I really couldn't get past having someone in my vagina so I just pretended like it wasn't a thing. I know it's bad..
I did lol a little at "I blocked lots of people from here so don't take it personally".
Like, yes, obviously that is exactly how that should work.
To explain, which I realize is unnecessary but whatever I'm bored, after realizing that someone was taking my posts from the singles board elsewhere I realized I don't know who to trust. And not that that is on any sort of level with shit getting taken from personal social media, I just felt uneasy about how many people here follow me on ig. It's not personal because I have no fucking clue who did it, therefore I did block people I still enjoy and am not accusing anyone in particular. It was purely for privacy reasons.
Anyways, I realize I came off snarkier than I intended so I felt I should elaborate.
Dear heavenly mother of dildos, Goddess to all below. Please let our friend Jap emerge from her sexual adventures shard free. May the glass of her dildo only be ribbed for her pleasure. May you be kind with temperature changes and the laws of nature. Amen. In the pussy.
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