VBAC vs. Planned C-section.. :(
Aug 16, 2016 17:22:31 GMT -5
Post by missi on Aug 16, 2016 17:22:31 GMT -5
I am so frustrated and emotional about this.
For the background.. my first two (14 and 13) were both vaginal births. They went fine.. both were induced because they weren't making appearances voluntarily, so pitocin. No issues other than my own reaction to the epidural (major itchiness to a uncontrollable situation with the second).
My twins were an urgent c-section. Obviously, they couldn't come vaginally at 26w3d, so when my doctor could feel twin A's toes during an exam, we got my husband to the hospital and they were born that morning. It is a large scar, but it is horizontal and it healed well.
My doctor (who did the c-section 2-1/2 years ago) says that I am a prime candidate for a VBAC and TOLAC. She didn't even mention the fact that I am 40. After reading the paperwork you have to sign off on (greater than 1% chance, so assuming that means 1-2% chance in all women of uterine rupture / if that does occur, then greater than 50% chance of brain damage or death in child) my husband was all for the c-section. My mil, who is a L&D nurse with Kaiser in northern California, is determined I get another c-section.
~I~ do not want anything to do with another c-section. It was hell on earth to heal from in comparison to a vaginal birth. On top of that, I have this gut feeling that is is completely the wrong choice this time. I spent last night frustrated, upset, and crying from exhaustion and frustration. I honestly am so anti-repeat c-section that I am not even sure I would have been all about trying one more time for a boy if I knew I was going to have to choose that.
~is so emotional over this~ I know we have a lot of months yet to decide.. maybe this will all sort itself out in the mean time?
For the background.. my first two (14 and 13) were both vaginal births. They went fine.. both were induced because they weren't making appearances voluntarily, so pitocin. No issues other than my own reaction to the epidural (major itchiness to a uncontrollable situation with the second).
My twins were an urgent c-section. Obviously, they couldn't come vaginally at 26w3d, so when my doctor could feel twin A's toes during an exam, we got my husband to the hospital and they were born that morning. It is a large scar, but it is horizontal and it healed well.
My doctor (who did the c-section 2-1/2 years ago) says that I am a prime candidate for a VBAC and TOLAC. She didn't even mention the fact that I am 40. After reading the paperwork you have to sign off on (greater than 1% chance, so assuming that means 1-2% chance in all women of uterine rupture / if that does occur, then greater than 50% chance of brain damage or death in child) my husband was all for the c-section. My mil, who is a L&D nurse with Kaiser in northern California, is determined I get another c-section.
~I~ do not want anything to do with another c-section. It was hell on earth to heal from in comparison to a vaginal birth. On top of that, I have this gut feeling that is is completely the wrong choice this time. I spent last night frustrated, upset, and crying from exhaustion and frustration. I honestly am so anti-repeat c-section that I am not even sure I would have been all about trying one more time for a boy if I knew I was going to have to choose that.
~is so emotional over this~ I know we have a lot of months yet to decide.. maybe this will all sort itself out in the mean time?