Best non-hormonal BC options

[kleigh926]

I was on the pill for several years before I got pregnant with DD. In between pregnancies I used the mini-pill. Now I'm back on the pill again, but a low-estrogen one. I'm not loving it. I've had mouth ulcers continuously since starting it, and I've read that can be a side effect of hormonal BC. I also don't like the effect that the pill has on my libido (basically, I have none). I'd like to try a non-hormonal option. I'm leaning towards the diaphragm. I don't mind using condoms but DH doesn't like them. Sounds like the sponge and cervical cap aren't very effective for women who have already had babies. I thought about Paragard but I've heard horror stories about IUD's (including from some ladies on here). NFP/condoms during fertile times would unfortunately never work for me because of my PCOS giving me wacky, unpredictable cycles. 

I know we had some BC threads over on TD but half the responses are probably gone now because of deleted accounts. Does anyone have experience or know anything about the diaphragm or other methods? 

[ally2011]

Ask trichie5, she is the expert on BC, right trichie5?

You might try the lambskin condoms.....they are very different than latex and your DH might be ok w/ them b/c they are supposed to be the most natural feeling. They are more expensive than latex, but unless you are doing the deed every day this might not be an issue

[fishes]

Diaphragm + FAM has worked well for us. Basically all of FAM that I do is chart my temps and we use the diaphragm any time I'm not completely sure I've ovulated. If I'm sure I have and am in the luteal phase then I'll go without.