I was billed a specialist copay to see our RE. I don't understand this consult fee.
Stupid high medical costs.
It's just the cost of an appointment without a copay or any kind of insurance. So, like, a normal doctor's appointment is, what $150? And then insurance takes it down to either no cost to you, or a small copay. Like $10, or whatever.
It's called a consult, just because you don't typically do anything on the first appointment. It's all paperwork and medical history and plans.
{OPP mentioned}My best friend just told me she's pregnant. I had sort of suspected, but she didn't want to tell me and seem insensitive. I'm super, super happy for her (she's had two early losses), but still have that crappy feeling in my stomach. I hate feeling like that.
I'm sorry. I just went through this exact situation and my best friend has a beautiful two month old little girl. I posted here about it frequently. Even though I was incredibly happy for her, it was still hard for me at times. I cried the first time I saw her when she started showing. I cried before her baby shower. When she gave birth I visited her in the hospital. I walked into the room, saw her and the baby, and burst into tears. Everyone in the room knew why so I excused myself to the bathroom, cleaned myself up, and came out and held that gorgeous baby. I also celebrated every moment with her, helped her through the hard times, helped her decorate the nursery, etc.
It's ok to feel ALL the feelings. It's normal and if she is your best friend, hopefully you are able to tell her when things are hard and you need a minute. I'm sure she will understand(especially if she is also a loss mama).
Post by akraus2015 on Sept 1, 2016 12:18:10 GMT -5
doodler and pinkcat , hugs for the tough week you have ahead of you. We’re here if you need to talk! ironbaby , how’s the waiting going?? I’m not going crazy quite yet, but I did break down and have two glasses of wine on Tuesday. :/ What is Crinone? jlincoln , I’m so sorry about the CP. Big hugs! kayladawn91 , how did the SHG go?? Just saw your other post….run to find a new doctor!!! jayhawk84 , it’s so hard to separate your feelings of sadness for your own situation and happiness for someone else’s. I struggle with that a lot. My H doesn’t seem to understand that just because its hard for me to see other people pregnant doesn’t mean I’d wish any of this mess on my worst enemy… Rama …$65 for a trigger shot?! Mine was $145…I need to shop around, apparently!! eameselephant , sorry to see you here, but welcome. This is a very supportive group. icedtea , big hugs. I have a very close friend who I suspect is pregnant…she’s been avoiding me and I think that’s why. I’m trying to brace myself for the announcement.
How are you doing? I’m okay, trying not to let the waiting game make me crazy.
Status (TTA, TTC, Benched): TTC, 5dpiui
Diagnosis (if applicable): MTHFR, Unrelated RPL, Secondary IF
Updates/questions: Not much to update…going in on Saturday to check progesterone levels. I’m secretly hoping they’re super high and that I released 2 or 3 eggs. Want my chances of success to be good!!!
Debbie downer (a place to vent): Nothing much. I suspect one of my best friends is pregnant. She’s been avoiding me, and I know they’ve been trying, but I’m trying not to jump to conclusions. She’s a teacher and school just started, which is also a very good reason to be off the grid lately.
QOTW: What is your favorite fall activity? APPLE PICKING!!!
Post by kayladawn91 on Sept 1, 2016 12:36:47 GMT -5
akraus2015 she said everything looked good. The fluid went through my tubes fine and I have "beautiful ovaries".
Eta but it was painful. She told me she was going to give up on me if I didn't keep my hips down. I couldn't relax but it was probably because she was borderline yelling at me.
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