I am really sorry so many of you have gone through this. The ultrasound tech told me her sister just lost her baby at 18 weeks. It seems to happen so much more than it is talked about.
Thank you for talking to me. I would really be lost without you fabulous women.
This is true. For some reason no one talks about it, keeps hushed voices, I guess not to make someone feel bad or uncomfortable? I don't know.
I know Larry happened. Please do not try to convince me otherwise. Please don't talk to me about coffee. I don't drink it. I don't caffeine. When I state my opinion, that is me chiming in on a topic. This is not me saying you suck at life if you do or feel differently. If I want to say that, I will. If I want to speak on you, I will.
I am really sorry so many of you have gone through this. The ultrasound tech told me her sister just lost her baby at 18 weeks. It seems to happen so much more than it is talked about.
Thank you for talking to me. I would really be lost without you fabulous women.
It's a horrible shitty huge global club that you never want to be apart of. But you are always glad there are others who understand and who have been there. As shitty as that sounds. You are right, in life of loss isn't talked about like it is here. It's 1 in 4. That's a huge heartbreaking percentage. We are all here for you. Being a loss mom is something that changed the very fiber of who I am. My heart hurts for you Cher.
I hope you can get some rest and that the procedure goes as smoothly as possible. Take all the drugs they offer. And then some.
Oh, cher. I am so so sorry for your loss. I hope everything goes smoothly and you are able to start the healing process in whichever way you feel appropriate. Loss is a horrible club to be a part of, but this community is unrivaled in its support. We are all here for you. Your family is in my thoughts.
Post by dc2london on Sept 21, 2016 13:29:37 GMT -5
I am so truly sorry, cher. Whatever you want or need to do, feel, eat, etc is the right thing for you. Just let yourself be and give yourself room and permission to grieve however feels right.
Trolling Beyonce is my fave because she could shit on the floor like that Flavor of Love girl and people would WK her. "That floor should be honored Queen Bey shit on it. I wish she would shit on me." - @arielmermaid
I don't know if this is common, but my milk came in a few days after my D&E
I just wanted to mention it because nobody warned me about that and it was such an unexpected mind fuck.
Yes! It's a nice punch in the face a few days later. I'd grab a couple of sports bras. Probably double up. Make sure they are tight. Hopefully this isn't something you have to worry about.
Post by SeaBreeze on Sept 21, 2016 13:34:56 GMT -5
It is devastating to read how many of you have walked the path Cher is travelling right now. But it's also really beautiful to see the advice, support, words of wisdom, kindness and love being shared here. This is an incredible and strong group of women. Many hearts are with you Cherhorowitz.
Post by erinshelley21 on Sept 21, 2016 13:41:28 GMT -5
I am so so sorry that you have to go through this. It isn't fair and it is horrible. Deal with it however you need to. I'm glad you have family around so that you and your H can take the time that you need.
Post by seadragon2013 on Sept 21, 2016 13:44:38 GMT -5
I just want to give you a big hug right now, Cher. Please lean on your family, friends, and tcf community as much as you need to in the coming weeks. ❤️❤️❤️
Yea I was so confused. I didn't event think about it and had never been through that before. I was like why are my boobs enormous. Milk didn't even register with me. It didn't last long I wore the sports bras until things calmed down.
Post by readyornot on Sept 21, 2016 13:55:47 GMT -5
Cher I keep creeping your profile to check up on you. I just want to give you the biggest non creepy momma bear hug ever. I make inappropriate jokes to deal with hard situations all the time so I don't think that's weird at all. I know YH & your people will take good care of you, but please know your in my T&Ps also
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