Post by sunfrogger88 on Sept 27, 2016 17:44:37 GMT -5
(Trigger warning - loss mentioned)
Hi ladies, an N15er crashing the party over here. Fika is an IRL close friend of mine and it is with a very broken heart that I am posting the below on her behalf. She wishes you all a happy healthy rest of your pregnancies and thanks you so much for the support you have provided to her these last 6 months.
I am happy to share any notes/words of condolence you might have for her when she is ready to read them. Please feel free to PM me if you'd like.
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With heavy and broken hearts, we came home with empty arms today after losing our precious baby girl, Kristina Jane, after an early emergency delivery on Saturday, September 24th. Please keep our family in your thoughts and prayers as we process this impossible loss and start healing.
In remembrance of her, please wear purple this Friday, September 30th. Purple is the color we chose to decorate her room, and the unofficial color of the awareness ribbon for isoimmunization, which took her from us far, far too early. On October 15th, Miscarriage and Infant Loss day, please light a candle for her.
Thank you for your thoughts and prayers as we handle the most difficult loss of our lives.
Married DH 09/21/13 BCP 08/08-02/12, 01/13-08/14 Paragard 02/16-? TTC#1 August '14 1st BFP 3/9/15! EDD: 11/17/15 Emma Rose born 11/26/15 (Thanksgiving!)
Post by legalbeagle on Sept 27, 2016 18:05:33 GMT -5
sunfrogger88, thank you for posting this message. Her presence has been missed and I've been wondering what is going on and how she is doing. Please let her know that I am so sorry for her loss. I will be wearing purple this Friday and thinking about her, her daughter and family. I hope that she is surrounded by supportive friends and family during this time.
Post by littlelion on Sept 27, 2016 18:37:37 GMT -5
sunfrogger88 thank you for letting us know. Please giver fikafairy a great big hug from us and give her our condolences. I'll definitely honor & remember her daughter this Friday and 10/15.
Thank you for the info, sunfrogger88. I am heartbroken for Fika and her family.
Echoing what PP have said - when you see her, please tell her that we are so sorry for the loss of Kristina and that we are thinking of them all. I will be wearing my purple on Friday as well.
Post by mrswillie on Sept 27, 2016 19:58:11 GMT -5
Thank for for posting this message sunfrogger88 and for being a wonderful IRL friend to fika. I am so heartbroken for her and her family. Please let her know that we will keep her in our thoughts and prayers. I will definitely be doing these to remember sweet baby Kristina.
MC Sept '10, MC Dec '10, DS born 2012 Clomid + TI = BFP #1 March '13, MC April '13 Gonal F + trigger + IUI #1 = BFP #2 10/21/13, MC 10/31/13 Gonal F + trigger + IUI #2 = BFP #3 1/16/14, ectopic w/ heartbeat & rt salpingectomy 1/29/14 IVF #1 - ER 5/9/14 transfer cx'd due to high P4 FET #1 - 6/26/14 transferred 1 AA blast BFP!! EDD 3/11/15 Beta #1 13dp5dt - 1548 Beta #2 15dp5dt - 2748 Beta #3 18dp5dt - 7586
After almost three years of TTC, IVF #1 = Menopur + Follistim + other stuff. Retrieved 14, 12 mature, 7 fertilized, only 1 (6AA) made it to day 5 blast. BFP! DD born 12-10-2016
Post by WineNChocolate on Sept 28, 2016 6:38:20 GMT -5
sunfrogger88, first off thank you for letting us know. But most importantly please pass our sincerest condolences. There is not the right combination of words to express how my heart wrenchs and pains for her loss. I pray with time and support of their loved ones that there will be some type of solace in their hearts for this unfortunate event. I will make sure to wear purple this Friday in showing my support for FikaFairy. No mother should have to bury their child, may she rest with angels and always watch over her mother and father.
Thank you for letting us know! This is such heartbreaking news and I'm so so sorry for their loss. Please let her know how much her December girls are thinking of her, so many ((hugs)).
There truly are no words... My heart is broken for Fika and her family; please pass on my sincere condolences. I will keep them in my thoughts & prayers.
Post by sunfrogger88 on Sept 28, 2016 8:14:51 GMT -5
Thank you ladies. I will see her on Friday at Kristina's memorial service and she will certainly get extra hugs from all of you. Thank you so much for keeping them in your prayers. Nobody deserves to feel this kind of pain.
Married DH 09/21/13 BCP 08/08-02/12, 01/13-08/14 Paragard 02/16-? TTC#1 August '14 1st BFP 3/9/15! EDD: 11/17/15 Emma Rose born 11/26/15 (Thanksgiving!)
sunfrogger88, It has already been said, but please send Fika our best and let her know how sorry we are for her loss. I will keep her family and friends in my thoughts and prayers as they go through this unimaginable time. I cannot fathom their pain.
Post by kaydee0402 on Sept 28, 2016 10:12:33 GMT -5
sunfrogger88, thank you passing this on. Like most, I don't know what to say, so please let Fika know I am keeping her, her family and sweet Kristina in my prayers. I will make sure to wear purple on Friday.
IVF+ICSI March 2016 (6R/5M/5F - 3 embryos on ice) 4/7/16: first ever BFP! EDD: 12/17/16 DS Arrived via C-Section 12/19/16! FET #1 June 2019 - 1 embryo didn't survive thaw & the one that did didn't stick around. BFN FET #2 September 2019 - last embryo didn't survive thaw.
thank you for letting us know sunfrogger88. I am thinking of her and her family during this heartbreaking time. I will definitely wear purple this Friday and will be thinking of her little one on the 15th. Please send her our best and all of our hugs.
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