My brother is coming today and staying with us for the weekend. We'll see at what point we start to drive each other crazy haha, we just have very different mindsets and at a certain point we both just need space from each other even though short term we enjoy spending time together. DS loves his uncle though and my brother is so high energy that they have an absolute blast together.
you guise - the sex dreams need to stop. it's like every night.
This is a bad thing?!
It's mostly bad because it's not always with my H and when awake I absolutely do not feel like having sex. And then I feel guilty on both accounts.... 😜
Post by daisylola11 on Oct 28, 2016 9:51:42 GMT -5
Wanted to take DS to the library since it's raining a ton but I don't feel like putting real pants on and packing us up... plus we have a fall festival later today so he'll get out at some point today.
It's mostly bad because it's not always with my H and when awake I absolutely do not feel like having sex. And then I feel guilty on both accounts.... 😜
+1 to all of this. Apparently I'm only into it in my sleep when I'm KU.
I'm at work. I do medical malpractice defense, and represent a group of OB's. Honestly, I'm having trouble drafting what I need to draft today bc the Mom was at the same gestation as me right now when things started going south. And the baby was born at 23 weeks. (And survived- which is interesting from a viability standpoint...why do they say 24...) My doctors think I am insane bc I ask the most specific questions at my appointments, but OMG, this is not the job you want while pregnant.
***end trigger***
Other than that, I'm happy to be in jeans. My maternity size is 2 sizes smaller than my normal size in non-pregnant pants. And still big.
I was considering going around the corner for an ultrasound at one of those ultrasound places today to make sure the baby is the right size bc losing weight is bugging me, but my husband said not to. So I'll wait. It's hard when there is an ultrasound place in my VISON from my office window.
Sorry, I'm nuts today. In other news, I'm pumped it's Fri-yay. We've got some Halloween parties this weekend, so that's fun.
Anybody have weekend plans I can live vicariously through?!
going to order the babies cribs & dresser tomorrow. zoo boo and pumpkin carving.
We've got 2 Halloween parties tomorrow. Both are costume optional, so I will not be in a costume. Tonight we're watching the World Series, and Sunday, I'm taking my nephew to a pumpkin patch. He's 17 months and this is the CUTEST age.
going to order the babies cribs & dresser tomorrow. zoo boo and pumpkin carving.
We've got 2 Halloween parties tomorrow. Both are costume optional, so I will not be in a costume. Tonight we're watching the World Series, and Sunday, I'm taking my nephew to a pumpkin patch. He's 17 months and this is the CUTEST age.
we have a Halloween party tonight too. I forgot to add that. am making a fiesta ranch dip and I want to eat the whole bowl by myself.
Post by erinshelley21 on Oct 28, 2016 11:46:14 GMT -5
I'm done with work today. We are heading down south in a little bit to take ds to paw patrol live in the morning. I need to put laundry away and pack first.
Not sure what is on the agenda for the rest of the weekend. Hopefully some shopping for baby girl!
I am so over work. I have so much to do but don't want to do any of it. Tomorrow we are going to probably do food shopping and find MH new work shoes. Maybe make some cupcakes in the AM? Not sure! Sunday we will be doing trick or treating at a mall, lunch, hopefully a nap, and then watching the great pumpkin when nap and football are over! Maybe the great pumpkin on Saturday!
Post by ladytiffany24 on Oct 28, 2016 12:19:21 GMT -5
After work, we're going out for wings then we'll be watching the World Series later. Not sure about tomorrow but it'll either be the zoo or going to some sort of park because MIL wants to look at more fall leaves (just look out the window woman!). More baseball tomorrow night. Sunday will probably be mostly lazy with some laundry thrown in, some football and then moooreeee baseball. GO TRIBE!
Im here! Lots of emotions right now. I finally broke down last night. My anxiety is at an all-time high and I don't even know what to do. I'm pretty sure it's hormonal, but I sobbed for an hour. I can't tell you the last time I actually enjoyed myself doing thins that typically would make me happy: coaching, running, going places with the kids. All of those things bring the worst out in me and I fight to find my happiness. :/
I'm not sure what can be done at this point - I've never had clinical anxiety before. Hopefully this weekend goes well. H is out of town.
Post by moutonrouge on Oct 28, 2016 12:52:14 GMT -5
I think we're having a pretty boring weekend. We need to carve our pumpkin, and I have a fitness class tomorrow. We have also have some shopping we should do. Monday some friends invited themselves over to hand out candy, which I'm not thrilled about on a variety of levels.
It's mostly bad because it's not always with my H and when awake I absolutely do not feel like having sex. And then I feel guilty on both accounts.... 😜
It's mostly bad because it's not always with my H and when awake I absolutely do not feel like having sex. And then I feel guilty on both accounts.... 😜
We are the same person.
I told him last night that I miss wanting to have sex. but absolutely do not touch me right now. hopefully by April I'll be feeling normal again.
Post by moutonrouge on Oct 28, 2016 13:12:21 GMT -5
I'm so sorry muskiefan - I have had a couple of instances this past month where I feel a little sad/upset and it resulted in uncontrolled sobbing. the hormone-fueled emotions are really tough - I find it hard to take my feelings seriously, and that sometimes makes it worse (e.g., I start crying because of X and now I'm crying more because I'm mad at myself for being silly and crying over X).
I also have anxiety in general and while pregnant it has interfered with my daily life in some new ways. I go to therapy, which has been helpful. But I've found pre-pregnancy I could recognize when I was getting anxious and work my way out of it, and now I don't see it until after the anxiety decreases and I get upset at myself for being so worried.
A friend has found an online therapist group that's helpful, if you think talking it through would help but you're not sure if you have time to go to therapy in an office. There are also lots of good breathing exercises you can try when you recognize anxiety, or things like mindful walking (trying to clear away extraneous thoughts and focusing on each step and your breath and the things around you).
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