I worked late so dh picked leo up. He said he walked in and saw the teacher grabbing leo roughly and sitting him down. He told her not to touch him that way and she said "he keeps climbing on the table, I told your wife about this, etc" And dh told her again that didn't give her the right to grab him that way. To which she apologized. He called me and told me. So I called the director to tell her to find out what happened, write a report, review the video cameras etc so we can discuss this morning. I was slammed at work yesterday. I walked out at 9:30 & first thing I did was have a good cry in the car. I feel so bad that this happened to my baby and that's he at DC so long. That's the guilt part.
This morning I talked to the director, no real answer. I know the teacher who did it is not his regular one, it's the after 5 pm one. I told them until I get an answer, I won't be comfortable having him with that teacher. I'm emotional as it is and not knowing what happened is making me question the DC.
My bp was high this morning at the ob visit. I ended up crying to the dr about this. She was very nice and hopefully bp is just high cause of the stress. [\spoiler]
Post by ourcrazynavylife on Nov 11, 2016 11:22:27 GMT -5
Ugh littlelion I'm sorry momma. That's the worst. It's bad enough that we have to feel guilty about sending them to daycare without something like that happening. I hope you get everything straightened out.
Took lo swimming this morning. I think I'm going to get him one of those puddle jumper life jackets. He wants to be more independent in the pool and that'll definitely help. Got some afternoon delight in with dh during naptime. One of the perks of having him home today. We have family pictures tomorrow and I should probably figure out what we're all wearing. Procrastination at its finest.
littlelion I'm sorry that happened to you and Leo. I hope you can get some answers. That's not right. ourcrazynavylife yay for having YH home for a long weekend!
Haha @ashantic trying to pick out outfits is the worst. We have pictures next Saturday. I haven't even thought about it yet
Ehhhh you've got a week. Lol
I think I decided on a Jean shirt dress + leggings and boots for me, a plaid button up and jeans for lo and a coordinating henley and jeans for dh. Maybe I'll find some cute new leggings at the LLR party at my yoga studio tonight.
littlelion I'm so sorry that happened to you and to Leo. It isn't right and I understand completely how you feel, but please remember it is not your fault! That lady is the one with a problem and it sounds like you are handling the situation and putting your foot down just as you should. ((Hugs)) Leo is lucky to have you as his mama.
I got sent home from work today by my doctor's office after I called them about some awful pain I was having in the lower right side of my abdomen.
I am feeling way better now after soaking in the tub and am resting while DS plays with the nanny downstairs. Thank God for her because I am not sure I could handle his crazy energy right now!
Even better is that DH left work early and is on his way home to come be with me, so that is comforting in the event it starts up again. Cross your fingers for me that it doesn't and that I can get some sleep tonight! I'm perfectly happy for this baby to stay put at least another week.
Post by laceysbryan on Nov 11, 2016 23:39:07 GMT -5
littlelion Hugs mama. That's an awful situation to be in. Fx you can get some answers soon and the director doesn't blow you off. I'd be pissed if it was me, but add very very hormonal and KUed and I'd lose my shit.
littlelion I am so sorry that happened to your family. I hope you figure out what is going on soon. ashlantic Those sound like cute outfits. Hope the pictures turn out well. dashook Feel better soon. It's always scary feeling those pains without explanation. ourcrazynavylife Hope you figured out dinner plans.
Post by laceysbryan on Nov 11, 2016 23:44:00 GMT -5
So I'm still here but things have been insane lately. My semester has reached peak craziness and my misery at work is also at an all time high. Still no word from nursing school on acceptance or rejection, but I'm fully expecting rejection. I wish they could see my in progress grades bc I'm kicking ass, but I'm paying the price in stress and lack of sleep. I've also had a tension headache everyday this week. Blaming the stress and lack of sleep but it reminds me of first tri with LO. I'm 99% sure I'm not pregnant (timing and all) - I think I'm just neglecting/exhausting myself. I will probably collapse over Christmas break.
We passed on the house and decided to rent an apt until next spring. The sellers were terrible, just morally reprehensible. We asked them for pest mitigation, they said no. They said they were fixing the sewer, and suddenly decided not to at the last minute. They signed a contract to allow radon tests, then breached it. They obviously covered up evidence of moisture damage in the basement and crawl space with black spray paint. I told DH I felt we were buying the house from a shrewd business man. I was comfortable having to fix some things, I understand it's inevitable. I hate dealing with people who have no morals or conscience. DH said his gut told him to walk away, so we did. Hope there's something better in a few months. After LO had a long nap (woke up at 5 pm), we went out to dinner, just the three of us. The food was so good, I ate way too much. After, we went to an indoor water park. LO had so much fun. She was visibly shivering, but didn't want to stop going down the small water slide. So cute.
laceysbryan Hopefully, it's not a rejection and they're trying to figure a really cool way to say you're in. Don't forget to take care of yourself every now and then. Hopefully, you fit in a massage soon.
laceysbryan, sounds like you are on overdrive! I hope you can find some time to yourself this weekend, maybe take a long bath or get a massage. You deserve it at the pace you've been going!
raven, it sounds like you guys made the right decision on the house. I'm a big believer in always following your gut. I know you'll eventually find something that's perfect for you, and that also doesn't require you to look past a bunch of shady crap.
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