I see my doc on wed. I know their first question will be when was my last period. It was oct 11th. If I tell her that, she'll say I'm 7 weeks... then she'll get all concerned when she does an ultrasound. I don't think she'll want to hear I tracked my cycle and I know I'm only 5. It's my 1st real cycle after my loss.. my body was still regulating. Last pregnancy I was going to adjust my last period date by a couple days when I told them. But I guess I shouldn't 'adjust' it this much, huh? Lol 😉
I see my doc on wed. I know their first question will be when was my last period. It was oct 11th. If I tell her that, she'll say I'm 7 weeks... then she'll get all concerned when she does an ultrasound. I don't think she'll want to hear I tracked my cycle and I know I'm only 5. It's my 1st real cycle after my loss.. my body was still regulating. Last pregnancy I was going to adjust my last period date by a couple days when I told them. But I guess I shouldn't 'adjust' it this much, huh? Lol 😉
Not at all bad. They should know not everyone works off of a 28 day cycle and you know your body best, especially if you've been tracking!
I'm telling my boss before our Christmas party on Saturday. She's only been my boss for a few weeks now and works from her home in Utah. I barely know her. I like what I know and she has two kids but still... scary.
Good luck!
I'm debating whether I just want to tell people at work in a few weeks, or just wait and see how long it takes them to notice & say something. I work at a fairly laid back doctors office and it might be fun to see people teeter the line of is she? Isn't she? Should I ask?
Still several weeks away from needing to worry about this tho...
I don't know how/ when I'm going to tell work either. It always gives me anxiety.
Post by toadandbuggie on Nov 29, 2016 6:19:24 GMT -5
Re: coffee. I switched to half caf this time but I still enjoy a mug every morning. With DS I drank full caf in the morning. I might switch back because of this fatigue.
When we showed DS the ultrasound pics and said "look, mommy has a baby in her belly!" He went up and kissed them. It was so sweet. I hope he's just as welcoming with an outside baby!
ETA: I only switched to 1/2 caf so I could have two cups without feeling guilty, not that I think having full caf is too much or bad. But I'm barely finishing one now.
I'm telling my boss before our Christmas party on Saturday. She's only been my boss for a few weeks now and works from her home in Utah. I barely know her. I like what I know and she has two kids but still... scary.
Good luck!
I'm debating whether I just want to tell people at work in a few weeks, or just wait and see how long it takes them to notice & say something. I work at a fairly laid back doctors office and it might be fun to see people teeter the line of is she? Isn't she? Should I ask?
Still several weeks away from needing to worry about this tho...
I really don't want to be the subject of rumors. Not very many people know me well so I could see people talking about me but never saying anything directly.
Also, I hear this Christmas party is a shit show. Last year there was a fight and someone puking under a table. It will be obvious that I'm not drinking...
I'm debating whether I just want to tell people at work in a few weeks, or just wait and see how long it takes them to notice & say something. I work at a fairly laid back doctors office and it might be fun to see people teeter the line of is she? Isn't she? Should I ask?
Still several weeks away from needing to worry about this tho...
I really don't want to be the subject of rumors. Not very many people know me well so I could see people talking about me but never saying anything directly.
Also, I hear this Christmas party is a shit show. Last year there was a fight and someone puking under a table. It will be obvious that I'm not drinking...
Ugh, this is why I may skip my company Christmas party. It'll be obvious that I'm not drinking. Plus, it's on a Monday evening... I'm on vacation right before that and fly back Sunday evening and have to figure out how to get my dog home Monday from the vet. I'm exhausted just thinking about it! I'll do whatever departmental group outing that we do, and just use the excuse of having to drive home.
Plus, I'm not even close to ready to tell work. I've only been back for about 5 months after being gone for several years. I feel like a "new" employee. I also don't want to be passed over on increased job responsibilities and travel opportunities. So, I'll hide it as long as I can.
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Post by AmazingTulip on Nov 29, 2016 10:09:18 GMT -5
We had a work party right after I found out I was pregnant. I fake drank cans of beer all night. I figured that was the one thing no one could see inside!
Post by mrscatfarmer13 on Nov 29, 2016 11:02:01 GMT -5
rosey06 I would let them know exactly what you told us. Every doctor is different, but IME they like it when you know what is going on with your body. I would try to be breezy when you tell your dr though.
I'm a dummy and didn't prepare to have enough of my medications throughout the holidays. And I was able to place my order today, but won't be able to pick up until tomorrow. I'm at a low grade freak out that I'm messing everything up.
I had to almost scrape the PIO out of the bottle this morning to get just enough. Luckily I called yesterday and the refill should be here tonight, but damn me for not calling Friday. I'm sure you didn't mess anything up but hugs!
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I'm a dummy and didn't prepare to have enough of my medications throughout the holidays. And I was able to place my order today, but won't be able to pick up until tomorrow. I'm at a low grade freak out that I'm messing everything up.
I had to almost scrape the PIO out of the bottle this morning to get just enough. Luckily I called yesterday and the refill should be here tonight, but damn me for not calling Friday. I'm sure you didn't mess anything up but hugs!
Thanks JustJudy! My specialty Pharmacy was closed Thursday to Sunday! I really needed to plan ahead and did not.
How long will you be on pio? I took my last shot last night. My bum is very thankful. 😆
I see my doc on wed. I know their first question will be when was my last period. It was oct 11th. If I tell her that, she'll say I'm 7 weeks... then she'll get all concerned when she does an ultrasound. I don't think she'll want to hear I tracked my cycle and I know I'm only 5. It's my 1st real cycle after my loss.. my body was still regulating. Last pregnancy I was going to adjust my last period date by a couple days when I told them. But I guess I shouldn't 'adjust' it this much, huh? Lol 😉
I would absolutely tell them that you chart, and show them your chart. My last pregnancy I had my IUI on CD12, but my OB always went by my LMP. This one I O'd later, but again just different by a few days. That is what the dating US is for. Usually OBs are used to women not knowing exactly when they O'd. I'm guessing if it is tracking that far off, she will listen to you about an adjusted EDD. Good luck!
TTC #1 starting July 2013, RE last 2014 First Angel baby lost July 11, 2014 IUI #1 with injections successful: EDD 11/24/15 Rainbow baby DD born 11/14/15 TTC#2 October 2016 Second Angel baby lost Jan 5, 2017
I'm debating whether I just want to tell people at work in a few weeks, or just wait and see how long it takes them to notice & say something. I work at a fairly laid back doctors office and it might be fun to see people teeter the line of is she? Isn't she? Should I ask?
Still several weeks away from needing to worry about this tho...
I really don't want to be the subject of rumors. Not very many people know me well so I could see people talking about me but never saying anything directly.
Also, I hear this Christmas party is a shit show. Last year there was a fight and someone puking under a table. It will be obvious that I'm not drinking...
I'm actually really relieved that there isn't word of a holiday party this year at my company. I don't want to have to pretend to drink. I will not be telling my boss until 2nd tri....unless they find me puking or something! Lol
TTC #1 starting July 2013, RE last 2014 First Angel baby lost July 11, 2014 IUI #1 with injections successful: EDD 11/24/15 Rainbow baby DD born 11/14/15 TTC#2 October 2016 Second Angel baby lost Jan 5, 2017
I see my doc on wed. I know their first question will be when was my last period. It was oct 11th. If I tell her that, she'll say I'm 7 weeks... then she'll get all concerned when she does an ultrasound. I don't think she'll want to hear I tracked my cycle and I know I'm only 5. It's my 1st real cycle after my loss.. my body was still regulating. Last pregnancy I was going to adjust my last period date by a couple days when I told them. But I guess I shouldn't 'adjust' it this much, huh? Lol 😉
I would absolutely tell them that you chart, and show them your chart. My last pregnancy I had my IUI on CD12, but my OB always went by my LMP. This one I O'd later, but again just different by a few days. That is what the dating US is for. Usually OBs are used to women not knowing exactly when they O'd. I'm guessing if it is tracking that far off, she will listen to you about an adjusted EDD. Good luck!
Thanks ladies!
I actually tried showing her my charts with my son.. didn't even glance at them lol. I love her but she's an interesting one.
I'm just gonna go in and break it down to her. Hey if she doesn't schedule me for an ultrasound for the recent loss, maybe she'll give me one as a dating ultrasound if she doesn't believe my O date 😉
Thanks JustJudy ! My specialty Pharmacy was closed Thursday to Sunday! I really needed to plan ahead and did not.
How long will you be on pio? I took my last shot last night. My bum is very thankful. 😆
I can't believe they are taking you off of PIO already. I don't mind the pio, but I am so over the suppositories. What other progesterone support are you on?Â
I was surprised as well, but honestly that last 2 weeks have been hard on me.
I'm on progesterone pills; 1 4x a day and suppositories 1 2x a day. Also 4 estrogen patches; switching out twice a week and 2 estradiol pills 3x a day.
Will they keep you on everything until 9 weeks? They always said I'd ween off of some throughout.
I would absolutely tell them that you chart, and show them your chart. My last pregnancy I had my IUI on CD12, but my OB always went by my LMP. This one I O'd later, but again just different by a few days. That is what the dating US is for. Usually OBs are used to women not knowing exactly when they O'd. I'm guessing if it is tracking that far off, she will listen to you about an adjusted EDD. Good luck!
Thanks ladies!
I actually tried showing her my charts with my son.. didn't even glance at them lol. I love her but she's an interesting one.
I'm just gonna go in and break it down to her. Hey if she doesn't schedule me for an ultrasound for the recent loss, maybe she'll give me one as a dating ultrasound if she doesn't believe my O date 😉
lol mine wouldn't look at my charts when I was getting referred to my RE. Like they really don't believe that some women want to know what their body is doing.
I hope you get an US and I hope she is sensitive to the possibility of a late O and she doesn't brush it off as measuring too small and alarm you.
TTC #1 starting July 2013, RE last 2014 First Angel baby lost July 11, 2014 IUI #1 with injections successful: EDD 11/24/15 Rainbow baby DD born 11/14/15 TTC#2 October 2016 Second Angel baby lost Jan 5, 2017
I had to almost scrape the PIO out of the bottle this morning to get just enough. Luckily I called yesterday and the refill should be here tonight, but damn me for not calling Friday. I'm sure you didn't mess anything up but hugs!
Thanks JustJudy ! My specialty Pharmacy was closed Thursday to Sunday! I really needed to plan ahead and did not.
How long will you be on pio? I took my last shot last night. My bum is very thankful. 😆
My backside is so tender, we're running out of "good" spots to use Though, I'm mostly numb back there so the actual shots themselves don't hurt too bad, it's throughout the day that sucks. My doc is old school so we will likely continue until at least 10 weeks, but I'm hoping I'll get to drop down from shots 2x/day to just 1x/day at some point. My last progesterone number was 96 so the shots are working!
Me: 31 Wife: 30. Legally married 2008, thanks CA! TTC #1 since 11/14 using donor sperm. IUIs Jan-Aug 2015 BFN Sept & OCT 2015 added Femara. BFN Saw RE December 2015. IUI with Clomid & Trigger Jan 2016 BFN IUI #13 with Follistim April 2016 BFFN IVF #1 July 2016. 14R, 10F, 6 Day 5 embryos. 4 PGS normal embabies!
I had my 1st ultrasound today, and it didn't go well. It's either too early to see anything (which would mean I got a bfp at 7dpo), or my pregnancy ended around 6 weeks. We couldn't see a fetal pole or a yolk sac. It just looked empty. And apparently I have a SCH.
We drew betas, and I have another u/s on the 7th. I'm trying to be optimistic, but I don't think it's very likely I got pregnant that late when I had a positive test that early.
I'm waiting on a call back from my OB because I forgot to ask if I needed the rhogam shot. I'm terrified I'm already sensitized since I never knew I was bleeding.
MrsRC-33, MrRC-37. TTC#1 since 2/13. DX: T2 diet controlled diabetic, removed multiple fibroids blocking tubes, via robotic myomectomy, hysteroscopy and D&C on 5/15. CD3 b/w normal. HSG normal after surgery. On the bench April-June 2015. NTNP indefinitely. Loss mentioned.
I would absolutely tell them that you chart, and show them your chart. My last pregnancy I had my IUI on CD12, but my OB always went by my LMP. This one I O'd later, but again just different by a few days. That is what the dating US is for. Usually OBs are used to women not knowing exactly when they O'd. I'm guessing if it is tracking that far off, she will listen to you about an adjusted EDD. Good luck!
Thanks ladies!
I actually tried showing her my charts with my son.. didn't even glance at them lol. I love her but she's an interesting one.
I'm just gonna go in and break it down to her. Hey if she doesn't schedule me for an ultrasound for the recent loss, maybe she'll give me one as a dating ultrasound if she doesn't believe my O date 😉
Or just be like I'm not sure when my LMP was, can I have a dating US if you don't think she'll listen/believe you O'd late if you tell her LMP and O date.
I'm so sorry notelsie, hoping for good news for you. For a SCH is it you that's bleeding? Sensitization would be if it's the babies blood, I don't know about your situation but during delivery there's only about a 20% chance of sensitization if not treated and you can have the shot up to 3 days later at least (when DS was born the nurses had to argue with the lab to check his blood type because I'm rh negative)
I had my first appointment with the midwife group. I got to see the little bean on the ultrasound and listen to its heartbeat. It was a relief.
The nausea and fatigue are killing me, though. I want to go back in time a month ago and kick myself about feeling smug because I didn't feel any symptoms...YET. Jeeze louise. I had to get a prescription for disclegis, and even though I'm not vomiting anymore, its not calming the nausea at all. I have zero appetite, and all I want to do is lay in bed.
I requested limited duty at work, so I'm going to have to face the reality that I'll have to let my coworkers know I'm pregnant sooner than planned. They are nosy gossips, so they'll definitely guess anyway since I'm not in uniform anymore. I just can't be out on the street now, not with this level of morning sickness.
TTC #1 starting July 2013, RE last 2014 First Angel baby lost July 11, 2014 IUI #1 with injections successful: EDD 11/24/15 Rainbow baby DD born 11/14/15 TTC#2 October 2016 Second Angel baby lost Jan 5, 2017
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