I was in a really big hurry this morning trying to get everything I needed for the day. I remembered the Christmas gifts that need to be shipped and my library stuff that is due but left without my lunch.
So of course H took it to work with him (~1 mile from my office) so now I get to go see him at lunch instead of getting something unhealthy.
Today started well (not). I had to stop and return something at a store on the way to work. I realized when I got to the store that they didn't open until 9, so I waited in my car until 9 and then went to the door of the store. It was locked. So I stood there until 9:10 knocking on the door until the apparently only employee comes driving into the parking lot, music blaring, and she finally lets me in. And then tells me there were long lines at the bank... um, ok. Maybe you should have gone to the bank earlier then, so that you wouldn't open your store 10 min late...
Then I get to work and my computer wouldn't turn on. Great. I finally figured out it was a problem with my dock and not my actual computer (laptop). So I can use my computer on my dock if I turn the computer on while disconnected and then connect it but keep the laptop open. If I close it, it stops working again. So I guess, the problem is kind of solved, but I wasted about 30 minutes this morning figuring it out, and I already got to work 20 min late thanks to lazy store employee. Oops.
Good thing my manager is out of town this week at a conference.
Annnddd. Now I'm crying. It's the episode Lilly&Marshall decide TTC. And Lilly tells Marshall she is afraid she might not get pregnant and let him down. Oof, I'm being sensitive.
Post by kellybenelly83 on Dec 12, 2016 13:25:57 GMT -5
It's quiet here today! We woke up to massive snow today. So I'm not walking dogs, even though they desperately need it. I have been stress cleaning all day. I have an interview tomorrow and I can't control all my tension. So now my house is spotless.....
Married 10/10/10! TTC Baby #1 since April 2014 BFP Oct 16 - EP terminated Nov 6 2014 Off the Bench January 2015! BFP #2 June 1 2015 - EDD Feb 12 2016! Baby Boy born 15th February 2016!
With this big headache with my ex-boss I am supposed to have a court date today apparently. I had contacted my lawyers office but they said the justice support person/DA is the person who handles this (who I've had to meet with and send documents to). My lawyer also said as long as the DA had everything I shouldn't need to be there anyway.
I've sent a couple of the things multiple times after the 1st time she said she never had it. I've met with her once and left a couple messages for her. I don't know if they have everything or not and she never contacted me to state that she needed anything more after this summer when I sent the stuff again. I left a message asking her to contact me because I'm confused on the status since I thought she had everything and we were good but if not please let me know what she was missing.
I just want this done and over with but I feel she is a poor communicator.
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
Also got our biometrics screening results today....apparently my top # of my blood pressure was a little high so I lost a few points...she only took it once and I was making sure everyone was in when they needed to be. But overall still in ideal category-I'll just make sure a couple things are better next year.
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
Post by wannabmama on Dec 12, 2016 13:46:21 GMT -5
I'm working from home bc the workmen are here doing the basement tile...I started working at 6am, I feel so accomplished! (Though I'm losing steam...)
My dogs are sleeping and snuggling on the couch next to me...they never snuggle with each other. It's adorable. But making me want to take a nap, too...
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
Also got our biometrics screening results today....apparently my top # of my blood pressure was a little high so I lost a few points...she only took it once and I was making sure everyone was in when they needed to be. But overall still in ideal category-I'll just make sure a couple things are better next year.
H's work does this too, I love it! I think it is so fun to see how my numbers change from year to year. H's BP is always high because they take it after the cholesterol draw, which is a finger prick for a drip of blood. He hates that and says it raises his BP, wimp
July 2013 started TTC 7/20/2014=BFP; CP confirmed 8/1/2014 Dec 2014: Diagnosis = Unexplained IF 12/24/2014 Medicated TI (clomid)=BFN 1/22/2015: IUI #1 cancelled due to cyst 02/17/2015: IUI #2 cancelled due to another cyst 3/31/2015: IUI with Femera, 1 good follie, great sperm count = CP, my December Rainbow became an Angel
That sounds super annoying butlerfan I hope it all gets straightened out!!
Ugh....I left messages everywhere. I now look myself up and under court record details it has today's date and motion to dismiss and then proposed order motion to dismiss.
I think that means it's all over and done with.
Or does that mean they are dismissing my deferred agreement....I'm soooooo confused. And of course I haven't gotten a call back.
I just want this chapter over with.
edit to add: I take that it is done but someone tell me I'm reading that right.....
Last Edit: Dec 12, 2016 14:37:47 GMT -5 by butlerfan
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
Married 10/10/10! TTC Baby #1 since April 2014 BFP Oct 16 - EP terminated Nov 6 2014 Off the Bench January 2015! BFP #2 June 1 2015 - EDD Feb 12 2016! Baby Boy born 15th February 2016!
That sounds super annoying butlerfan I hope it all gets straightened out!!
Ugh....I left messages everywhere. I now look myself up and under court record details it has today's date and motion to dismiss and then proposed order motion to dismiss.
I think that means it's all over and done with.
Or does that mean they are dismissing my deferred agreement....I'm soooooo confused. And of course I haven't gotten a call back.
I just want this chapter over with.
edit to add: I take that it is done but someone tell me I'm reading that right.....
Im not an attorney, but just a legal secretary, and can't tell you officially without seeing the document, but I would say yes, the case is getting dismissed. Until the order is signed by the judge, it isn't official.
That sounds super annoying butlerfan I hope it all gets straightened out!!
Ugh....I left messages everywhere. I now look myself up and under court record details it has today's date and motion to dismiss and then proposed order motion to dismiss.
I think that means it's all over and done with.
Or does that mean they are dismissing my deferred agreement....I'm soooooo confused. And of course I haven't gotten a call back.
I just want this chapter over with.
edit to add: I take that it is done but someone tell me I'm reading that right.....
Proposed order on the docket just means someone filed a proposed order, not necessarily that the judge entered the Order. You'd have to look at the motion and proposed order to know what specifically is being dismissed (or wait for judge's order to be entered). Here that would take a few days to show up online bc the courts are just learning how to use computers....
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
Ugh....I left messages everywhere. I now look myself up and under court record details it has today's date and motion to dismiss and then proposed order motion to dismiss.
I think that means it's all over and done with.
Or does that mean they are dismissing my deferred agreement....I'm soooooo confused. And of course I haven't gotten a call back.
I just want this chapter over with.
edit to add: I take that it is done but someone tell me I'm reading that right.....
Proposed order on the docket just means someone filed a proposed order, not necessarily that the judge entered the Order. You'd have to look at the motion and proposed order to know what specifically is being dismissed (or wait for judge's order to be entered). Here that would take a few days to show up online bc the courts are just learning how to use computers....
I should have just waited for you to answer. You are in a better position to say than I am.
diamondsndaisies and wannabmama thanks. I'm hoping for a call back that would answer these questions as well but FX that it is getting dismissed. It has the judges name but again that could just be what is proposed is going to happen.
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
Post by wannabmama on Dec 12, 2016 14:59:27 GMT -5
You were right essentially diamondsndaisies (and until I had to figure a lot out without the help of a legal secretary, I knew nothing...my secretaries have always been better than I am at knowing procedural pieces!)
butlerfan usually the proposed order is filed by one of the parties so that it's easy for the judge to just say "allowed" and sign it, but then on the docket "proposed" is removed(once signed)... if there's no opposition to the motion, it will usually be allowed.
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
I'm excited to go on a walk today. It's so nice out. Overcast and in the 40s. Perfect sweatshirt weather. Ridley needs to hurry and wake up. I'm too hyper.
You were right essentially diamondsndaisies (and until I had to figure a lot out without the help of a legal secretary, I knew nothing...my secretaries have always been better than I am at knowing procedural pieces!)
butlerfan usually the proposed order is filed by one of the parties so that it's easy for the judge to just say "allowed" and sign it, but then on the docket "proposed" is removed(once signed)... if there's no opposition to the motion, it will usually be allowed.
Like I said the person who I've had to meet with is a little spacy/disorganized I feel like so who knows. I know the prosecuting attorney thought her client was bullshitting and could not stand him (my ex boss). I've complied with the terms but if she is missing something I don't want that to bite me in the ass.
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
You were right essentially diamondsndaisies (and until I had to figure a lot out without the help of a legal secretary, I knew nothing...my secretaries have always been better than I am at knowing procedural pieces!)
butlerfan usually the proposed order is filed by one of the parties so that it's easy for the judge to just say "allowed" and sign it, but then on the docket "proposed" is removed(once signed)... if there's no opposition to the motion, it will usually be allowed.
Like I said the person who I've had to meet with is a little spacy/disorganized I feel like so who knows. I know the prosecuting attorney thought her client was bullshitting and could not stand him (my ex boss). I've complied with the terms but if she is missing something I don't want that to bite me in the ass.
Well I hope it gets all sorted out and you get answers soon!!
TTC since July 2014. CP March 2015. IVF #1 March 2016, 5R, 3M, 2F with ICSI. Transferred 2 on day 3. CP. Surprise BFP and then CP August 2016 (prep cycle for IVF). IVF #2: zero eggs retrieved IVF #3: 6R, 5M, 5F, 3 (2 8A and 1 11A) transferred, one "B" graded embryo frozen on day 5. BFP (at home 7dp3dt, confirmed 14dp3dt with 1552 beta) and U/S at 5w5d, 2 sacs and 2 yolks!
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