I know I never post but...

[melimo1315]

I had my first appt with my new PCP. She was talking through my medical records and mentioned the results from mass removed from my uterus and placenta during my most recent csection. At my 6 wk follow up they hadn't received results but thought it had just been tissue of some sort. I kinda forgot about since they mentioned calling if it was bad.

Fast forward to today when the new doctor said the results found it to be a twin. I didn't know what to say. I can't believe 13 months later I find this out.

DH was shocked and told me it wasn't my fault it happened and then awkwardly went back to work.

The boys are a mess today and crazy fussy. I really just want to cry.

[whatsit]

Oh wow melimo1315 what a crazy thing to drop on you now!
I'm so sorry for this unexpected loss.

[colinsfebmommy]

What the heck!?!? That is crazy you just found out. I am sorry

[samelly]

Wow.

[melimo1315]

Thanks Ladies. It's a huge mind fuck for me these past few hours. We have been trying for a 3rd baby and then I hear this from a doctor that I had just met 2 minutes ago.

I called the OB and they I was supposed to be scheduled for a 1yr follow up u/s next month. I guess it's to check for tissue regrowth but since they got the results it prob won't happen. I'm waiting for the actual doctor that delivered to call me. Apparently it was in my file to call me about the results but no call came.

[ldubhawksfan]

Wtf how did they not follow up with that sort of result?! I'm so sorry. I can't imagine what you are going through right now.

[littleredfish]

What the...? How in their profession do they A) not call you asap with that and B) just tell you like that, like "oh hey we forgot to mention". Very unprofessional. Not a great way for them to handle that at all. Sorry you're dealing with that.

[sunfrogger88]

Oh my gosh melimo1315. So many hugs.

[melimo1315]

Thank you again for all your kind words. The OB office did the "oh I thought the midwife called" and "oh I thought the OB was calling". I'm not going back to them if I get pregnant again. I also plan to report it to the hospital board.

The one thing I keep replaying is cracking a double yolk egg the morning of my dating u/s and telling my DH the old wive tale of yolks and twins.

[sunfrogger88]

That is just so, so crazy.

[littleowl913]

melimo1315, I'm so sorry for your loss and how unprofessional your doctors have treated this. hugs.

[younglove316]

Oh wow I am so sorry! Also agree with everyone else, a big wtf to how that gets overlooked.

[onyx]

Oh my. First, I am so sorry! That's horrible news, even so far back. Second, I would be calling that doctor with a big WTAF.

[onyx]

Dec 23, 2016 11:55:58 GMT -5 melimo1315 said:

Thank you again for all your kind words. The OB office did the "oh I thought the midwife called" and "oh I thought the OB was calling". I'm not going back to them if I get pregnant again. I also plan to report it to the hospital board.

The one thing I keep replaying is cracking a double yolk egg the morning of my dating u/s and telling my DH the old wive tale of yolks and twins.

Hugs mama.

[Deleted]

Wow, I'm so sorry for the news you got.

[sassypantzz]

What a mind fuck. I am so sorry for your loss and that you are processing this a year after the fact. Send you love.