Lets make it real
Feb 15, 2015 5:50:31 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Feb 15, 2015 5:50:31 GMT -5
Ok so Ill jump in and say. I miss the old board for the openness and lots of opinions and variety. I am open to this one because its a little more intimate, and we can get to know each other better- also I find myself perusing the other threads more often. I NEVER went there- on the other, birth month etc. So if the LGBT thing is dying on the other.. then we need to try to revive the enthusiasm and embrace change. Its important that we have a space somewhere on the vast interwebz to connect and support. Im very happy personally to have a mix allready of different kinds of parents and kiddos in this little group. So Ill step up and try to post more- I really only posted on TTT and parenting, so I dont "know" many of you TTC and TTW and Pregnant... So formerly Winstan1, now Sherminator. SMBC to J who is my 4 yr old son. Hes in Montessori preschool and I work nights- So I like a board to see at all hours...I was randomly checking out some posts on this board, and for some reason read the Dads and Loss thread. Which I would have never seen on the other... so some great thoughts there. Crafts, check, and some other random threads. I was feeling like this board might be more like my neighborhood, and I hope I find a home. I never really "bond" with the other sections that might pertain to me- old moms, smbc I want this lbgt section to reflect the varieties of parents that we are. So, in short, Ima give this here board a shot and see if it can feel like home. I didnt quit for political reasons, or moderator reasons because I never went anywhere else and wasnt really affected. I quit because my people that really shared and nutured that community seemed to freeze up. Im looking forward to meeting some of you that I have not yet, and hope we can "keep it real". I feel like I moved out of town, and here I am and hope that I can make new friends and neighbors.
In my real life, I live in a very lgbt friendly town. One thats extra crunchy. On my street there are at least 4 lesbian families, 1mixed race family from adoption, some hipster baby wearers across the street. As for me and my family... we are a sort of combo. I breastfed and pumped and used formula. We eat mostly organic veggies from our CSA-but are NOT adverse to a playtime at McDonalds replete some of those poisonous nuggets. I totally wrecked the earth with diapers. I dont shovel the sidewalk enough, clean house enough, excersize enough, or clean the fishtank enough. And little man probably catches more screen time than is strictly necessary. I used a unknown donor- but have connections to about 13 sibs of J's. If it can be said that I have a pet peeve, or wish- it would be that coupled lesbian families be more open with their kids about donors- its very personal, and if I were in a couple I might see it a bit differently, but thats my sticky wicket. There are many many couples I know that havent discussed it. From my pov it would be great to be able to say- J all these kids have donors too! Which is true, but I cant, and dont. Most other single moms I know- their kid do have Dads, perhaps not in their lives, but they have them. Thats our nutshell. Looking forward to hanging out here.
In my real life, I live in a very lgbt friendly town. One thats extra crunchy. On my street there are at least 4 lesbian families, 1mixed race family from adoption, some hipster baby wearers across the street. As for me and my family... we are a sort of combo. I breastfed and pumped and used formula. We eat mostly organic veggies from our CSA-but are NOT adverse to a playtime at McDonalds replete some of those poisonous nuggets. I totally wrecked the earth with diapers. I dont shovel the sidewalk enough, clean house enough, excersize enough, or clean the fishtank enough. And little man probably catches more screen time than is strictly necessary. I used a unknown donor- but have connections to about 13 sibs of J's. If it can be said that I have a pet peeve, or wish- it would be that coupled lesbian families be more open with their kids about donors- its very personal, and if I were in a couple I might see it a bit differently, but thats my sticky wicket. There are many many couples I know that havent discussed it. From my pov it would be great to be able to say- J all these kids have donors too! Which is true, but I cant, and dont. Most other single moms I know- their kid do have Dads, perhaps not in their lives, but they have them. Thats our nutshell. Looking forward to hanging out here.