Another Monday....

[ellabee]

Omg judyblume14 that's just ridiculous about the puzzle.

[judyblume14]

Jan 2, 2017 13:03:50 GMT -5 ellabee said:

Omg judyblume14 that's just ridiculous about the puzzle.

I know! And i had nowhere to put the fucking crib mattress, because FIL didn't help put the fucking crib together. But they spent at least 10 fucking hours on that damn puzzle this week.

Also, my phone keeps auto correcting FIL to FAIL. So, simple pleasures will keep me from snapping today.

[judyblume14]

I got my first "are you sure it's not twins?" yesterday.

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My checkup went well, 2cm dilated, up from 1cm last week so that's good I guess! I snuck away to get a pedi so I'm enjoying that now 😊

[thelittleredm]

Jan 2, 2017 13:17:11 GMT -5 judyblume14 said:

I got my first "are you sure it's not twins?" yesterday.

I'm a little jealous that you're only just getting those comments lol

[judyblume14]

Jan 2, 2017 13:39:37 GMT -5 thelittleredm said:

Jan 2, 2017 13:17:11 GMT -5 judyblume14 said:

I got my first "are you sure it's not twins?" yesterday.

I'm a little jealous that you're only just getting those comments lol

Oh, I've gotten plenty of
-You were never this big with DD1!
-Looks like you'll pop before Thanksgiving!
-I guess you just don't have the time to work out this time around

This was simply the first "twin" comment...

[pibblemom]

Jan 2, 2017 13:43:04 GMT -5 judyblume14 said:

Jan 2, 2017 13:39:37 GMT -5 thelittleredm said:

I'm a little jealous that you're only just getting those comments lol

Oh, I've gotten plenty of
-You were never this big with DD1!
-Looks like you'll pop before Thanksgiving!
-I guess you just don't have the time to work out this time around

This was simply the first "twin" comment...

[insert appropriate face palm gif here]

I guess I'm still carrying small. I get the opposite. "Oh, wow you're due sooner than it looks! Are you sure?"

"Yes I'm fucking sure that I am done being pregnant!" I'm carrying small but still measuring perfect which means lungs and stomach have no where to go so I'm constantly hangry, stuffed and out of breath.

[silvermelody]

I'm so angry I could spit nails. The OB's office isn't open today. Funny how they managed to schedule me an appointment! And that the NST clinic didn't say anything when I was there Friday and mentioned it.

I rescheduled for Wednesday but I wasted an hour of my morning. Debating an angry phone call to their complaint department. I love my providers but the bureaucracy sucks

[judyblume14]

silvermelody - I would not be "debating" a complement call. I'd call and bitch. And then call back again. Just so they knew how pissed I was.

Like you, I love my providers... But the front desk staff is awful.

[rinny]

silvermelody Oh man, that is so frustrating. I'd be pissed too! How would they not know??

[ellabee]

Oh silvermelody I'd be so pissed. I'm sorry they didn't have their shit together.

I haven't gotten any twins comments yet but I can just imagine what tomorrow at the office will bring. It'll be my first time in since mid December so I'm sure the size difference will be noticeable.

I did get an "you're all baby!" This weekend, which I wasn't sure was meant to be positive or negative...

[silvermelody]

It's a giant HMO so even if I call and bitch I doubt anything will change. But I might try later anyway.

[heybulldog56]

silvermelody, I would be pissed. Call and complain. That's bullshit.

DS only napped for an hour. I'm glad I decided to lie down during that time but I really wish I could have slept. Oh well. We are hanging out before going back to pick up my car (turns out it needed an alignment as well as new tires).

[pibblemom]

silvermelody, I would call and bitch even if I knew it wouldn't do anything just for the sake of letting someone else hear about all my feels.

ellabee, I take "you're all baby" to mean "you're not as fat as I thought you should be" so it's sort of a compliment.

heybulldog56, sorry you didn't get to sleep during nap time. Fx you can try again?

I just got home from my massage. It was glorious. I fell asleep on the table. I got home expecting H to not have walked the dogs (he never does unless I basically yell at him), but apparently he's full of surprises today and walked them twice 😳 I've been ordered to sleep and relax, so I'm in bed with said dogs, and hoping sleep will come and I won't think of the million things I'm not doing instead.

[otepoti]

pibblemom, GLad your being monitored and finger crossed its all ok.
judyblume14, Sorry your in laws didn't sort the crib, nice to know a puzzle is way more pressing.
silvermelody, I would defiantly complain.
And hugs everyone.

[thelittleredm]

My mom has the day off so she took me out to lunch to Panera. It was glorious. Their spicy Thai salad never gets old. Normally, we split a sandwich and a salad and both of us and usually have something leftover. Not today. I ate my half of the sandwich plus 2/3 of the salad plus the side of chips. I'm still not full. Like, I don't feel like I have to eat but also, I could eat another meal. What the hell is wrong with me?? My stomach is not that big and the last few days, I feel like I've been ravenous every time I start eating.

[otepoti]

While it was nice to see the extended family all this talk of when the baby will decide to arrive is a pain the butt. I'm under no illusions he will come early or close to due date and personally think the 20th ( a small 6 days over). Max was 2 days over and I had a sweep on my due date which may have played a large roll there. This time I don't get seen again until 41 weeks as this is my second rodeo. No I can't ask for one at tomorrows appointment, its too early they won't do it, no I really don't want to be going on to 41+ weeks but he will come when he comes.

Partner is camped up stairs watching youtube AGAIN, after leaving all of the night time routine to me. He got in a sulk because my response to his "do you want some help?" right at the end of bed time routine was answered with "well its up to you, your welcome to help at any point..." But I was mean, so yeah bad Ote! get back on your anti depressants as soon as you've had the baby or I'll leave you...
I'm also mean because I don't want to watch a movie with him or talk to him, I'm tired leave me be.

[thelittleredm]

Proof of tiredness: I was scrolling through FB and was reading someone's post and it went something along the lines of "What is your motto for...blah blah blah." I never got to the end of the post because I kept trying to figure out what motto stood for...like it was an acronym. SMH. I'm done.

[thelittleredm]

otepoti, Love tits for sympathy. H was in such a weird fucking mood all day yesterday. Like, he was being openly obnoxious and saying things that weren't really nice and just generally being really selfish. I brought it up and all he did was shrug and say he didn't know why he was in that mood, just that he was. Didn't apologize, didn't bother changing his behavior, nothing.

[otepoti]

thelittleredm, I feel we need to bash their heads together. Hugs.

[thelittleredm]

Jan 2, 2017 15:25:21 GMT -5 otepoti said:

thelittleredm , I feel we need to bash their heads together. Hugs.

Let's do it.

[thelittleredm]

Ow.

I completely forgot about giving myself a nice sized bruise on my stomach near my belly button (thanks, crib) and I poked baby after it shoved it's butt out at me. Mistake.

[heybulldog56]

lakegirl, that's awesome! I also left a lot of my clothes because who knows what will actually fit/ be regularly used after baby. It is such a wonderful feeling to declutter! I'm glad your h was on board... I may need to bring the hammer down on mine soon. His closet and dresser are out of control.

[thelittleredm]

H has been home all day with DS. I came home and they were napping. That's fine. Look around and nothing got picked up. No laundry was done (of the last couple loads, not like it was a lot) but hey, I'm sure that one basket of unfolded clothes took a lot of effort to bring out to the couch.

[heybulldog56]

That sounds like what would happen if I left Dh and DS alone for the day, thelittleredm. It's so frustrating. My h is currently snoring on the couch. I plan on waking his ass up for bath/bed. Also, I'm pissed at him for getting angry when DS jumped on him. You are sleeping in the fucking family room where the family hangs out to play... seriously? If you don't want to be disturb, go upstairs!!! I tell him this EVERYTIME he passes out on the couch and is woken up by DS. It's really really aggravating.

[thelittleredm]

Agreed heybulldog56. H gets excessively angry about those situations and it's beyond irritating.

H just called asking why I didn't stay at the house. I'm not in the mood to fight so I just said I decided to hang out with my mom since they had been sleeping. Not sure he believes me but whatever.

[meeggaannw]

Sitting in my parents guest room nursing listening to my FIL talk about facebook and trump through the wall. Pretty glad I'm not out the for that.

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carrots I'll be praying for no snow for you!!

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I went through all my clothes in the spring before I got KU. I had so many clothes in the attic from college and out of season stuff I never bothered to pull out, I'm so glad they're gone. Once I'm back in shape I'm going to do it again and be ruthless. I like having fewer options, it makes getting dressed so much easier!

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I just saw the bachelor starts tonight! I'm a new addict to the bachelor series lol.