Can it be bitch about YH day? MH keeps saying he's going to quit smoking. I've been hearing it for years, but if his own daughter isn't enough incentive I don't know what is. He was originally going to stop when I got pregnant, then when I was half baked, now we're 1 month from due date and 1 day after New Years, guess who HAS the gum but won't use it yet. I hate nagging, but it's bothered me more my whole pregnancy because he stinks. I just told him that quitting the day she's born is an awful plan because he's going to have to deal with withdrawal AND a newborn.
Post by thelittleredm on Jan 3, 2017 0:42:50 GMT -5
Well. Got home and nothing was done. Between being exhausted and hurting, I just didn't want to deal with it so I left H and DS immediately (they were napping anyway) and hung out at my brother's house for about an hour. Went back home and nothing was done DS was still in bed instead of getting up, and H was playing video games. I lost it but only on the inside. I emptied and filled the dishwasher and started another load of laundry before H came over and said he'd take over hand dishes for me so I could relax.
Cue red vision of anger.
I blew up at him, he blew up at me, he got pissed and broke one of DS's favorite toys, I yelled, he yelled, I packed an overnight bag for DS and myself and told him if he wanted to pretend I never did anything for him then he could come find us when he realized he was wrong, and at the "end" of it I just left by myself. Ate dinner alone, went to Target, my mom came and found me because H thought I was with her, and we just wandered Target for 1.5hr. It was what I needed to decompress. She was excellent about not bringing H up until we headed home and I mentioned him first. I guess my dad went to my house and talked with him, too. Idk. Things were much quieter when I got home and we each said our piece and things are so much nicer now. Good thing, too, because my contractions started picking up at Target. Of course, they've spaced out again but oh well.
Post by weeklyplanner on Jan 3, 2017 1:56:56 GMT -5
Well, it's 2am here and I've only slept 30 min since going to bed at 10:30pm. FML. I sent DH to the guest room before he even fell asleep because I could tell it was going to be a bad night. I kind of want to go wake him up and just ask for a hug to calm me down, but I want him to sleep. I'm having a lot of anxiety. And it spirals when I start thinking about how exhausted I'll be tomorrow. I think I have to call my dr in the am and have my Zoloft increased. The lowest dose is not cutting it anymore.
Post by thelittleredm on Jan 3, 2017 11:04:20 GMT -5
pibblemom, I honestly think whatever my dad said to him about dealing with preggos at the end of their pregnancies probably had more to do with him calming down than anything I said Lol But I'll take it because Ugh.
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