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Post by scoutradley on Jan 9, 2017 10:31:23 GMT -5
Today is terrible. I have no energy, AF is being a tyrant this month, and I'm waiting to hear bad news. I know I'm going to have bad news, but I'm actually having to wait to find out how bad is bad. My brain is on overload.
I need distraction before my brain overwhelms its self and shuts down.
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scoutradley what sort of bad news if you don't mind me asking?
A close family member has like a preliminary court hearing or something (I'm not familiar with court stuff). The court date is sometime in the next couple months but this is to appoint the family member a public defender and we're hoping to get more solid information about what's happened. It's really bad and I'm very close to this family member so I'm incredibly worried. My husband's truck broke down so he has my van and I'm stuck at home waiting to hear anything and even if I could get out, I don't have a babysitter. Today is by far one of the longest days I can remember.
scoutradley ugh. court stuff can take forever. This was my life from 2013-2016. It was a BS thing but had to jump through hoops and then just bide my time. Now that mine is officially over with I can do whistle blowing and then sit and wait.
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Today is terrible. I have no energy, AF is being a tyrant this month, and I'm waiting to hear bad news. I know I'm going to have bad news, but I'm actually having to wait to find out how bad is bad. My brain is on overload.
I need distraction before my brain overwhelms its self and shuts down.
"Tyrant" is the perfect word to describe my ute this month too! CD 8 and I am STILL cramping and spotting. Can this period be over before the next one starts please? Thx.
July 2013 started TTC 7/20/2014=BFP; CP confirmed 8/1/2014 Dec 2014: Diagnosis = Unexplained IF 12/24/2014 Medicated TI (clomid)=BFN 1/22/2015: IUI #1 cancelled due to cyst 02/17/2015: IUI #2 cancelled due to another cyst 3/31/2015: IUI with Femera, 1 good follie, great sperm count = CP, my December Rainbow became an Angel
scoutradley, I'm much more well-versed in the federal system than state systems, and it sounds like you're dealing with state court, but usually the first hearing after an arrest is just an initial appearance where you are formally told the charges and then appointed counsel. What happens after that depends a lot on whether its a misdemeanor or felony charge and how the prosecutor wants to proceed. (I'm just assuming this is criminal since you don't get appointed an attorney in civil cases.)
scoutradley , I'm much more well-versed in the federal system than state systems, and it sounds like you're dealing with state court, but usually the first hearing after an arrest is just an initial appearance where you are formally told the charges and then appointed counsel. What happens after that depends a lot on whether its a misdemeanor or felony charge and how the prosecutor wants to proceed. (I'm just assuming this is criminal since you don't get appointed an attorney in civil cases.)
And at least in my case it was like a chess match.
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Let's get this going and keep me entertained while at work today.
Randomly has it been super cloudy where you are? I find myself extremely tired without any "reason" when it's cloudy. Clearly I need to move somewhere with better weather right?
Let's get this going and keep me entertained while at work today.
Randomly has it been super cloudy where you are? I find myself extremely tired without any "reason" when it's cloudy. Clearly I need to move somewhere with better weather right?
It's Wisconsin...it has been frigid and cloudy and ugh. And I'm fighting of the last of a cold and took it easy this weekend and slept like a rock all weekend so I thought I would be over this. I mean it makes sense with the weather but I'm sitting at my desk and am doing huge yawns and could just crawl into a corner and take a nap. I feel like it is down to my bones weary tired (if that makes sense).
I may try to rest my eyes over my 30 minute lunch break but don't know if that is smart or not.
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And we have church committee meeting tonight so H is cooking so we can eat before the meeting and then I am going to crash afterwards and be in bed by 7-7:30 tonight....
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Eh. It's a great idea, and I do need some more minimalism in my life, but I couldn't handle going full on Kon Mari; and for sure DNW someone else doing it for me.LOL
He He...isn't that the truth. I mean I want to do that to my in-laws stuff but that's different right since we are living here and their stuff is in our way...lol
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Hell, I need to be in the right frame of mind to declutter. If I'm in the sentimental mood...everything gets held onto. If I'm in the let's get rid of crap mood...much easier. Both H and I need to go through our clothes and get rid of some things we don't wear anymore, doesn't fit, etc. I did a few items between Thanksgiving and Christmas that are never going to fit no matter what. There are a couple things I am holding onto for now that may get pitched later.
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I literally have clothes from when I was probably 16/17. Back then money was so tight that I had to wear the sweaters eve if they didn't give me joy. Somehow that stuck with me and I can't get rid of them even if I've never worn then once in five years. But now that I'm on this track I'm gonna take a bad to goodwill since I'm heading to town anyway. Wheeee!
I have some from middle school like sweatshirts and stuff. I may be finally pitching some of them.
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Stupid question but for dog obedience training class...do both owners need to attend all sessions or is it ok if on a couple weeks only one of us is there?
I mean I can ask the teacher of course but didn't know anyone else's experience.
H is trying to get into some classes that are covered by a grant and the last week of the dog class would be the same day as his class (not sure of his class times yet so may be a moot point) and another week I'm trying to do a girl's weekend and would be gone but H would be there.
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Stupid question but for dog obedience training class...do both owners need to attend all sessions or is it ok if on a couple weeks only one of us is there?
I mean I can ask the teacher of course but didn't know anyone else's experience.
H is trying to get into some classes that are covered by a grant and the last week of the dog class would be the same day as his class (not sure of his class times yet so may be a moot point) and another week I'm trying to do a girl's weekend and would be gone but H would be there.
In our area so long as one owner (preferably the same person each time) it's fine. Maybe it varies depending on the school?
I'm thinking of signing up for Weight Watchers again. I did the same deal last year - if you lose 10 lbs. in the first two months, they refund you those two months (you have to buy a three month package). Last year I lost 10 lbs. in about 5 weeks, and I kept it off for a while, but then I started taking fertility meds and getting depressed and I've now gained it all back
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Stupid question but for dog obedience training class...do both owners need to attend all sessions or is it ok if on a couple weeks only one of us is there?
I mean I can ask the teacher of course but didn't know anyone else's experience.
H is trying to get into some classes that are covered by a grant and the last week of the dog class would be the same day as his class (not sure of his class times yet so may be a moot point) and another week I'm trying to do a girl's weekend and would be gone but H would be there.
I think it's probably okay if only one of you is there some weeks. When we did puppy preschool for our dog, H and I both were there for all classes but some of the other dogs attending the class would have different people there week to week. I think they will probably understand that you guys have other commitments and will let you be flexible.
The humane society where we adopted our dog just posted more dogs available....they have a shih Tzu available...I of course now want a second dog. LOL
I looked him up because why not?! He prefers a home without small children so that rules him out for us for sure. And I mean we need Butler to go through obedience training anyway and get used to other dogs first.
So no second dog for us for anytime soon but it's fun to look.
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Regarding Kon Mari, I think it's a great method for some people but probably not for everyone. I had grand plans to Kon Marie my entire house during my time off for the holidays, but I only had time to do my closest. I still was able to clear out a lot of stuff, and it felt good to see all the bags I filled with things to donate or resell. I like the concept of thinking about what sparks joy. I had a lot of shirts that I held on to for years because they were nice quality but I hated wearing them because they were an awkward fit or too itchy or slightly too small, etc. I never got rid of them before because they were still "nice." Realizing that they didn't spark joy for me and thinking that they could spark joy for someone else (by giving them away) helped me clean out a lot of things.
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