A whine (about my current FET)

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Complain away, gf. Cycling is hard.

Try to remember that every pregnancy is different and the way you felt w azeem won't necessarily be the same this time.

So this current pregnancy i didn't cycle for...but man did i think AF was coming. Just majorly crampy. So much so that i was getting excited that AF was on her way so I could call my RE to get my FET schedule.

No experience w positive tests that far out. I never tested until two days before beta (and this time i tested at what i would equate as 3w5d pregnant based on my due date). But you are so not out yet!!

[mrsamyd]

Hugs! You totally aren't out. My beta with J was in the 80s. Working doubling times backwards I probably would have had a squinter on a FRER maybe 2-3 days before my beta.

I'm totally undecided on POAS this time. I was beta or bust with J.

Fx for you!!!

[imoverit]

That's what we're here for. Rooting for you. Still too early.

[richzep]

My only symptom last pregnancy was cramping. Perfectly normal. Don't count yourself out.

[kmc84]

((Hugs)) you are so still in the game! Cramping is definitely normal!

[amandaleigh]

I could be writing this post, @emazeem! I tested with wondfos 4dp5dt and 5dp5dt, and they are bfn. I had a bfp with ds at 7dp3dt.

I feel twinges constantly in my ute and my boobs are sore and to top it off I just feel a cold coming on thanks to DS.

I think the progesterone symptoms are messing with me. And I am so so tired.

Fx this turns around for the both of us.

[leahb12]

It's so hard. My advice is to step away from the sticks. It's still so so early. I've also always heard that FETs can take a little longer to get a positive. My fingers are crossed for you!

[phishgirl]

I have no advice but to let you know that I'm thinking of you! I started getting a suuuuper light line 5dpo. It's early yet!

[mnj05]

I cramped a lot with this pregnancy early on. Staying busy is a good plan and I hope nothing but the best for you!

[stl34]

It is still early! My only pregnancy, I got a negative beta at 9dp2dt, a very faint positive FRER at 12dp2dt (in the evening) and a beta of 29 the next morning.

[chiwifey]

It's really hard not to compare cycles with the one that brought your precious baby but hang in there! I had cramping and spotting this time and had none of that with C. It's not over, friend! Sending big, big hugs!

[karabear4409]

Just to echo what everyone else has already said, it is wayyy too early. I miscarried during our fresh cycle, but I got a BFP at 4dp5dt during that cycle. On our FET, I was so sure I was out when I got a negative that same day. But, I got a faint BFP on 5dp5dt. I also had a ton of cramping on that cycle. I was positive that something was wrong. But, I have a super active 10 month old that says otherwise!

Cycling sucks. Complain and vent all that you need to! We are here for you! I have everything crossed. Fwiw, I think that the cramping is a good sign!

[TJ]

FX for both of you @emazeem and amandaleigh!

[jbdamonm]

The 2ww is AWFUL. Seriously - few things worse. I agree that it's really hard to not compare to the past positive cycles. With my last one I was SURE I was out due to low estrogen. I melted down like never before. I mean I literally couldn't function for two days. Low and behold my beta was 345 - which is just insane......wishing you the same kind of luck

[harperandco]

Vent away. I've only cycled once so I can't really offer any advice. Just want to offer my support to both of you. @emazeem and amandaleigh, FX and lots of sticky baby vibes.

[aurora1181]

Complain away!! I swear I would rather do two more weeks of injections than go through the 2ww. For me it was always the worst part of the whole process. Sending hugs!

[mg0202]

complain away 2ww is hard. Yes, cramping is normal and yes it is too early. Hang in there!