@led I hope you feel better and that the doctor appointment goes well!
AFM, I would like to stay snuggled up in bed, but I have to go to work. Honestly, I need a day off just to clean my house. It's a mess,but when I get home from work I don't feel like cleaning.
I started Clomid today, so I'm hoping that goes well.
We are working on getting H's truck fixed so I have been having to get up early to take him to work and now today I feel stuffy and have a headache/scratchy throat. I hope I'm not getting sick again.
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Also, I have a FFWC to make that will probably get me judged....
So H's brother and sister in law have had a very rocky marriage and divorce has been brought up numerous times including in the last couple months where it looks like it might actually happen (which actually would be a very good thing since she has alienated everyone in the family).
However, supposedly per MIL they are dealing with IF and may want to come talk to us and get support from us since we have gone through it.
Based on history with these two I wouldn't put it past them to be lying and trying to "one-up" us since that has always been the way H's brother is and sister in law isn't any better.
I know this makes me horrible to not believe them but I just don't.
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Also, I have a FFWC to make that will probably get me judged....
So H's brother and sister in law have had a very rocky marriage and divorce has been brought up numerous times including in the last couple months where it looks like it might actually happen (which actually would be a very good thing since she has alienated everyone in the family).
However, supposedly per MIL they are dealing with IF and may want to come talk to us and get support from us since we have gone through it.
Based on history with these two I wouldn't put it past them to be lying and trying to "one-up" us since that has always been the way H's brother is and sister in law isn't any better.
I know this makes me horrible to not believe them but I just don't.
Yeah that makes me cynical with you. If they are really struggling with IF in the midst of other marital turmoil, I kinda think they should talk to a therapist 😕 Not using your emotional energy when they could soon call it quits anyway.
butlerfan I hope you don't get sick again! For me, the flammable part of that is not you...it's them. If their marriage is so bad that they are talking about divorce...why in the world are they TTC?!? A baby isn't going to fix their marriage. I hope they're not IF, but I also hope they aren't making this up just to one up you! Even if they truly are IF, I would tell them to stop TTC and go to marriage counseling. Sorry you have to deal with that!
Saw RE 1/11/17 HSG x 2 - 2nd revealed both tubes open and arcuate uterus Cycle #1-2 Femara 5mg + TI = Cancelled - poor response Cycle #3 - Femara 7.5mg and Dex 0.5mg - another poor response - waiting to see when I O
If their marriage is so bad that they are talking about divorce...why in the world are they TTC?!? A baby isn't going to fix their marriage.
You read my mind. IF can totally become a strain on marriage but if it's a mess already, yikes
This is my belief as well. Hell, when we got diagnosed and it is both of us I still felt like IF is "my fault" and I wasn't good enough/body is betraying me/didn't feel like a woman and thought H should find someone else because of how I felt.
But they have been married 6.5 years and it seems like since they got married they have had issues. If you aren't happy and seem more like roommates then spouses why are you together?!
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And we are under a winter storm watch...maybe it's a warning until 6pm. 3-10 inches of snow we are expected to get. Schools are delayed or cancelled again. At this rate they will be going to school until end of June.
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H's birthday is Friday and we are trying to figure out what we want to do or if we will have kids again. Also H has an all day class on Saturday and Butler's obedience training starts Saturday as well for an hour of the day.
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Post by scoutradley on Jan 25, 2017 13:04:36 GMT -5
Chiropractor app this morning and then lunch with the boys. DS2 is napping and DS1 is actually quiet so I may doze a bit. Got the lovely news that I have a bone spur in my back and my neck is curved the wrong way from a whip lash incident that occurred when I was younger. Although I didn't realize it was actually whiplash until today.
Also question: if I'm charting and we're DTD on and around ovulation, is that not "trying" for a baby? We were talking to some friends last night and H mentions to them that we're going to be "trying soon". I replied that we've actually been trying since Oct. and he said "no we've been NTNP". Uh??? I know we're not religiously DTD every other day and next cycle is the first one we're going to get OPK's and try that out, but I figured charting and actively DTD during fertile times was trying.
Chiropractor app this morning and then lunch with the boys. DS2 is napping and DS1 is actually quiet so I may doze a bit. Got the lovely news that I have a bone spur in my back and my neck is curved the wrong way from a whip lash incident that occurred when I was younger. Although I didn't realize it was actually whiplash until today.
Also question: if I'm charting and we're DTD on and around ovulation, is that not "trying" for a baby? We were talking to some friends last night and H mentions to them that we're going to be "trying soon". I replied that we've actually been trying since Oct. and he said "no we've been NTNP". Uh??? I know we're not religiously DTD every other day and next cycle is the first one we're going to get OPK's and try that out, but I figured charting and actively DTD during fertile times was trying.
Yeahhhhh, I feel like there's a big overlap with NTNP/TTC. It's almost more of your state of mind, maybe? Or tracking ovulation with the purpose of having sex on days in your fertile window vs. not tracking, having sex whenever without avoiding it at a certain time?
It might be you keeping those times in mind and trying, while YH is not keeping track and just enjoying the ride lol. Who knows.
@led feel better! Hope the appt goes well. Did you get the car you wanted yesterday?
We did! It's silver, which I'm not really a fan of, but whatever. I'm just happy to have a car again! Blake took the longest shower ever this morning and went into work late to celebrate. He's been having to leave by 530a to get the bus, so as much as I hate that he went in late, I understand it.
Never mind. dr didn't want to prescribe bc pills and wanted to leave implant in until we're ready to ttc immediately. Sooo nothing new here till DH makes up his mind when the time is right.
So your doctor's appointment didn't really need to happen? Ugh, sorry that it didn't give you a new plan or help you feel like change is on the horizon with TTC.
Chiropractor app this morning and then lunch with the boys. DS2 is napping and DS1 is actually quiet so I may doze a bit. Got the lovely news that I have a bone spur in my back and my neck is curved the wrong way from a whip lash incident that occurred when I was younger. Although I didn't realize it was actually whiplash until today.
Also question: if I'm charting and we're DTD on and around ovulation, is that not "trying" for a baby? We were talking to some friends last night and H mentions to them that we're going to be "trying soon". I replied that we've actually been trying since Oct. and he said "no we've been NTNP". Uh??? I know we're not religiously DTD every other day and next cycle is the first one we're going to get OPK's and try that out, but I figured charting and actively DTD during fertile times was trying.
Yeahhhhh, I feel like there's a big overlap with NTNP/TTC. It's almost more of your state of mind, maybe? Or tracking ovulation with the purpose of having sex on days in your fertile window vs. not tracking, having sex whenever without avoiding it at a certain time?
It might be you keeping those times in mind and trying, while YH is not keeping track and just enjoying the ride lol. Who knows.
I agree with all of this. For people who know nothing about charting, having unprotected sex for a year could still warrant a trip to the RE. I mean maybe they really are 100% missing their window for a year straight, but chances are they'd hit it at some point.
If you're charting and know that you've DTD during your fertile window, even if it wasn't planned out, I'd count it as trying. But whatever.
Post by scoutradley on Jan 25, 2017 14:20:36 GMT -5
ohinvrtedworld that's what confuses me though, because he does ask me when I'm in my fertile window and reminds me (when he thinks that I may have forgotten) that I'm supposed to be ovulating on x day. He also wants to make sure we DTD all during the fertile window. I was fairly confused then when he was saying we're NTNP. Men are so weird.
ajetter it threw me for a bit of a loop I guess because he is the one that is in the throws of baby fever and all. I shouldn't worry about it because he does want a baby so the comment doesn't change anything. Now I'm wondering what constitutes "trying" for him?
Chiropractor app this morning and then lunch with the boys. DS2 is napping and DS1 is actually quiet so I may doze a bit. Got the lovely news that I have a bone spur in my back and my neck is curved the wrong way from a whip lash incident that occurred when I was younger. Although I didn't realize it was actually whiplash until today.
Also question: if I'm charting and we're DTD on and around ovulation, is that not "trying" for a baby? We were talking to some friends last night and H mentions to them that we're going to be "trying soon". I replied that we've actually been trying since Oct. and he said "no we've been NTNP". Uh??? I know we're not religiously DTD every other day and next cycle is the first one we're going to get OPK's and try that out, but I figured charting and actively DTD during fertile times was trying.
Yeah I would definitely call that TTC. Not trying all the things but not NTNP.
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
Just about had all three kids tucked into bed. Then DD2 threw up the entire contents of her stomach. All over me. ALL OVER ME. I seriously want to burn the clothes I was wearing.
Just about had all three kids tucked into bed. Then DD2 threw up the entire contents of her stomach. All over me. ALL OVER ME. I seriously want to burn the clothes I was wearing.
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