Mothers (and in law)
Jan 23, 2015 18:17:33 GMT -5
Post by hurricaine on Jan 23, 2015 18:17:33 GMT -5
Thanks ladies. Part of the issue is my husband isn't 100% sure how he wants to play this out. Aka confront them? Just decline every time they offer? Etc.
I think it's best to have a conversation and be clear and upfront. I just needed to know I'm not insane for these feelings. My husband is having a hard time realizing his mother and father are not young anymore.
Oh and you said that you'd be ok with them babysitting when your kid can walk? I'd just be cautious about committing to that so far in advance (probably at least a year away) because a lot can happen in that time. While hopefully this won't be the case, your ILs health could get worse. Probably best just to say, "for now" and go from there.