TTC #1 since August 2013 DX: Endo November 2014: Hysteroscopy, D&C June - September 2015: Clomid + Novarel + IUI #1-3 January 2017: Laparoscopy - endo removed
TTC #1 since August 2013 DX: Endo November 2014: Hysteroscopy, D&C June - September 2015: Clomid + Novarel + IUI #1-3 January 2017: Laparoscopy - endo removed
I need the visitation schedule figured out because the kids need stability and I need to be able to have bio mom stick to it and not contact me every 5 minutes.
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
Positive is I got a nice note from someone in the class who knows we are foster parents who said the kids seem happy and well behaved and that we are doing a good job so that was nice to hear
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
I need the visitation schedule figured out because the kids need stability and I need to be able to have bio mom stick to it and not contact me every 5 minutes.
That sounds stressful. Shouldn't they have the visitation schedule already figured out since you have them? That seems a little backwards. Hang in there!
TTC #1 since August 2013 DX: Endo November 2014: Hysteroscopy, D&C June - September 2015: Clomid + Novarel + IUI #1-3 January 2017: Laparoscopy - endo removed
I need the visitation schedule figured out because the kids need stability and I need to be able to have bio mom stick to it and not contact me every 5 minutes.
I hope you get it figured out soon. I hated trying to make visitation/respite schedules when I was in social work. Mostly because the bio parents were so damn flaky and would always manage to fuck it up!
Post by TheEleventhHour on Feb 8, 2017 10:29:41 GMT -5
I am just trying to get through today and hoping the roads aren't shitty on the drive home. AF is late but HPT is negative (we are NTNP). So I am just sitting around bloated with a killer headache waiting for the bitch to show her face. This is what I get for not temping!
butlerfan, I hope they get that visitation schedule figured out soon. It must be so hard for the kids to have that uncertainty. And tough on your sanity as you try to make a stable home for them. It sounds like you're doing a great job with a chaotic situation.
I need the visitation schedule figured out because the kids need stability and I need to be able to have bio mom stick to it and not contact me every 5 minutes.
That sounds stressful. Shouldn't they have the visitation schedule already figured out since you have them? That seems a little backwards. Hang in there!
They might and would be communicated to us tomorrow at meeting but bio mom is one that constantly calls/texts so even if she knows the schedule she may be pushing for more.
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
TTC #1 since August 2013 DX: Endo November 2014: Hysteroscopy, D&C June - September 2015: Clomid + Novarel + IUI #1-3 January 2017: Laparoscopy - endo removed
butlerfan , I hope they get that visitation schedule figured out soon. It must be so hard for the kids to have that uncertainty. And tough on your sanity as you try to make a stable home for them. It sounds like you're doing a great job with a chaotic situation.
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
I need the visitation schedule figured out because the kids need stability and I need to be able to have bio mom stick to it and not contact me every 5 minutes.
That sounds really crazy, sorry. I hope it gets straightened out soon.
We're having crazy weather too. Yesterday we were on the porch with no shoes and tonight/early tomorrow we're supposed to get 3-5in of snow. WTH.
In other news (I posted this on WTDS) but I think I have to tell DH he can't take a work trip to Singapore because there's Zika there and we're back to TTC in May. It's not mosquito season but it's still not something I think I want to mess with.
butlerfan , I hope they get that visitation schedule figured out soon. It must be so hard for the kids to have that uncertainty. And tough on your sanity as you try to make a stable home for them. It sounds like you're doing a great job with a chaotic situation.
Sanity?! What's that....lol
Something you'll hopefully get reacquainted with soon! Lol
We're supposed to get up to a foot of snow by tomorrow evening! I love random snow days ❄️
It was 70 here yesterday and we have a chance of snow tonight.
I took full advantage yesterday and wore a dress to work.
Me tooo....are you near me?? Eh? I didn't even wear a coat to work this morning. I brought it in though because I feel like by the time I leave here it's going to be much colder.
I need the visitation schedule figured out because the kids need stability and I need to be able to have bio mom stick to it and not contact me every 5 minutes.
I hope you get it figured out soon. I hated trying to make visitation/respite schedules when I was in social work. Mostly because the bio parents were so damn flaky and would always manage to fuck it up!
He He....I just hope whatever the schedule is...that bio parents will stick to it and not overstep (ha ha...so far they keep overstepping)
Engaged May 2003 Married June 2005 TTC #1 since October 2014 H-1% morph, low motility, low count Me-.1 AMH levels, low AFC, DOR/POI, perimenopause Foster Care journey begins March 2016-licensed 11/7/16 Foster parents to A & J 1/31/17 www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5525ef
It was 70 here yesterday and we have a chance of snow tonight.
I took full advantage yesterday and wore a dress to work.
Me tooo....are you near me?? Eh? I didn't even wear a coat to work this morning. I brought it in though because I feel like by the time I leave here it's going to be much colder.
Me tooo....are you near me?? Eh? I didn't even wear a coat to work this morning. I brought it in though because I feel like by the time I leave here it's going to be much colder.
Post by diamondsndaisies on Feb 8, 2017 12:38:07 GMT -5
I'm moving up in the world. CW and I finally got speakers for our computers today. I can actually listen to music on the internet and such now. Before, we had a radio that only got in 2 stations. Whoohooo!
Ugh, I am not looking forward to any of the work I need to do today. Mostly because I have to deal with the most difficult and combative department on campus.
About a copier.
That they requested.
While their building was still being freaking built.
Post by ohinvrtedworld on Feb 8, 2017 12:56:02 GMT -5
butlerfan ugh I’m so sorry that the bio parents are making it hard to have a routine, that sounds really stressful. I can understand why they might be really intense, but I hope they give you a break from calling all the time and let you and the kids transition well. @led I’m so sorry the little lady is so sick I hope she heals up fast and that you can finally get some rest! kayladawn91 yessss to warm weather up here this weekend! Yay!! I didn’t know that! haha
Post by ohinvrtedworld on Feb 8, 2017 12:57:21 GMT -5
H is out of town all this week on business, so I'm home alone for the first time in years! I am sampling the many frozen entrees at Trader Joe's because #yolo.
In case you wanted to know, the veggie pad thai was so-so, wouldn't buy again. But the vegan tikka masala is really good for my lunch today!
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