Menstrual cup question

[dancingsphinx22]

I'm not sure I'd want to buy a used cup, but maybe someone would.

I tried the Diva cup, and it didn't work for me. I had such high hopes for it, too. That was before I had the baby though, so maybe I should give it another go.

Why didn't you like Sckoon exactly? Was there anything you did like?

[ovenrack]

I have heard of buying used. I'd buy used. I didn't know quite where to look (other than someone on this board was selling one) so I bought a new Diva cup and lucked out.

So helpful, I know.

[kona]

If you look on FB there are some groups that will bst.

[dramaphile]

I know nothing about reselling cups, but I found this site useful for figuring out how cups fit and the different brands:
putacupinit.com/

I have a Diva cup and really like it, but it was kind of luck that it fit me and worked without having to try other brands.

[Stringy]

So my first PP AF showed up today. Joy. thanks for the nursing strike P.

I swore I would try out cups and such when this happened. So besides the link above - how in hell do you go about figuring out which one fits? I guess just trial and error?

Also - cloth pads -...well I'll start a new thread.

[Stringy]

Also do people generally have 2 cups or no?

[brandiewine11]

Stringy - i just used trial and error and got lucky with my first choice. I have a Lunette.

But I've heard great things about the group Cup Love on Facebook. apparently there are lots of files that can help you choose the right one.

I have 2, but only because I lost one in the 2 years I wasn't using it, then found it after I replaced it. I didn't find the need to change sizes PP because c-section. But I only use one per cycle.

[sarenu]

I tried out a Lunette. I based my size off of what sized tampons fit well if that makes sense.

The cup isn't perfect, so I use cloth liners on heavy days.

I use one cup.

It took a little getting used to, but I'm kicking myself for not using it quicker. The only issue is keeping track of when your period will start. I'm not terribly regular so sometimes I was caught off guard.

[ovenrack]

I use one.

[mc13]

Mar 13, 2017 14:54:13 GMT -5 sarenu said:

I tried out a Lunette. I based my size off of what sized tampons fit well if that makes sense.

The cup isn't perfect, so I use cloth liners on heavy days.

I use one cup.

It took a little getting used to, but I'm kicking myself for not using it quicker. The only issue is keeping track of when your period will start. I'm not terribly regular so sometimes I was caught off guard.

Samesies. Lunette cup. Works well but need panty liners on the heavy days.

I've been swearing that my period is coming back any day now. So I'm going to go check out the cloth pad thread so I can be prepared.

[Nik Pal]

Pre M I used the smaller Lunette. Post M I use the bigger Diva cup. I only have one.

[pbandj714]

I lucked out and really like my Lunette. It fits well and I don't need a liner. I just have one.

[rugger]

oh hi, I'm reviving this thread b/c questions.. So I was going to try and get one, but I keep seeing "works well for low cervix" or "best for those with med-high cervix"...ummmm...how the hell do I know how high or low my cervix is??? I have not delivered vaginally, if that makes a difference. And I usually use regular Tampax Pearl tampons. If that makes a difference. Clearly I'm clueless here. Not winning at woman-hood.

[SAK]

Apr 21, 2017 12:31:47 GMT -5 rugger said:

oh hi, I'm reviving this thread b/c questions.. So I was going to try and get one, but I keep seeing "works well for low cervix" or "best for those with med-high cervix"...ummmm...how the hell do I know how high or low my cervix is??? I have not delivered vaginally, if that makes a difference. And I usually use regular Tampax Pearl tampons. If that makes a difference. Clearly I'm clueless here. Not winning at woman-hood.

I know nothing about the height of my cervix. Also no vag births, but I now bleed as though someone is trying to murder me from the inside out. I used to use Tampax pearls before baby #3 though.
I have a Lunette size 2. Cut the stem off and I have no issues.

[sarenu]

Apr 21, 2017 12:40:03 GMT -5 SAK said:

Apr 21, 2017 12:31:47 GMT -5 rugger said:

oh hi, I'm reviving this thread b/c questions.. So I was going to try and get one, but I keep seeing "works well for low cervix" or "best for those with med-high cervix"...ummmm...how the hell do I know how high or low my cervix is??? I have not delivered vaginally, if that makes a difference. And I usually use regular Tampax Pearl tampons. If that makes a difference. Clearly I'm clueless here. Not winning at woman-hood.

I know nothing about the height of my cervix. Also no vag births, but I now bleed as though someone is trying to murder me from the inside out. I used to use Tampax pearls before baby #3 though.
I have a Lunette size 2. Cut the stem off and I have no issues.

I would think the stem length would have more to do with the height of your cervix?

My sister is the same, two c-sections.  She tried the Diva and didn't work.  Tried the Lunette size 2 and it works fine for her.

[dancingsphinx22]

I have tried the diva cup before I had a kid, and it didn't work for me. I think i have a high cervix.

You have to do a little measuring. Search for your cervix, and note how far you have to go before you find it. Typically, up to the first knuckle is low. If you're at the second knuckle, it's high.

I just bought the Lena cup, but haven't tried it yet. I have high hopes. I like the idea of the cup, but the Diva was such a huge let down.

[rugger]

Apr 21, 2017 12:51:52 GMT -5 @ange09 said:

I bought a size 2 Sckoon because I fit into the larger size category (over 30 & I've had 3 vaginal deliveries) but I found out the size 1 fit me so much better.
Lena has amazing customer service. If you order one size and decide that it's not the right fit for you, they'll send you the other size for free.

ooh, really?? That's nice to know! do you have to order from Lena's site? I see they sell them on amazon.  I took the quiz that was linked up above, and fit into the Lena Large based on my answers. But the Lena size chart says size 1 is best for first-time cup users. So I'm torn between the two sizes

[rugger]

Apr 21, 2017 13:05:44 GMT -5 @ange09 said:

Apr 21, 2017 12:58:00 GMT -5 rugger said:

ooh, really?? That's nice to know! do you have to order from Lena's site? I see they sell them on amazon.  I took the quiz that was linked up above, and fit into the Lena Large based on my answers. But the Lena size chart says size 1 is best for first-time cup users. So I'm torn between the two sizes

I'm pretty sure the customer service is the same for both Amazon and the site. I ordered on their site but I wished I used Amazon because I wouldn't have had to pay shipping with prime. I'll pm you a $5 off coupon code they sent me if you want. They said it works both places.
Another thing to consider is if you have a light or heavy flow. Some people want the larger size due to a very heavy flow.

Oh, sure, thanks!

Flow is the other thing..it starts pretty light, then is heavy for a day, maybe two days, then goes back to average/light for the next few days. So only 1-2 heavy days.

[rugger]

THanks @ange09, and everyone else for the responses! I just ordered a Lena to try out

[rugger]

Apr 21, 2017 15:02:55 GMT -5 @ange09 said:

Apr 21, 2017 14:15:40 GMT -5 rugger said:

THanks @ange09 , and everyone else for the responses! I just ordered a Lena to try out

Did the code work?

yep! and thanks to Amazon Prime, it should be here Sat or Sun!

[dancingsphinx22]

I got the Lena and tried it for a day, but it leaked. I don't think it's the cup's fault though. I'm going to give it another try, and hopefully I'll find a trick to make it work with my crooked internal lady bits.

If anyone is wondering, the Lena cup is actually really nice. I like it better than the Diva cup. It folds easily, the stem is soft and flexible (I cut it off though), and it cleans easily. I recommend it.

[Stringy]

I happened to get a Lena too - size one even though I fit the 2 description. Worked pretty well last month - we'll see this month.

PSA PIMP pads are 25% off right now on their website for earth month.

[rugger]

Guys, tell me it gets easier to pull the cup out. I felt like I was never going to get that thing out. No wonder that one case of TSS was caused due to a scratch from trying to remove the cup.
I felt like I was scratching myself too

[ovenrack]

What type did you get, rugger?

[rugger]

Apr 27, 2017 16:55:33 GMT -5 ovenrack said:

What type did you get, rugger?

Lena size 1. No issue inserting. Just felt like I had to put my whole hand up there to remove it

[brandiewine11]

Apr 27, 2017 17:11:19 GMT -5 rugger said:

Apr 27, 2017 16:55:33 GMT -5 ovenrack said:

What type did you get, rugger?

Lena size 1. No issue inserting. Just felt like I had to put my whole hand up there to remove it

Did you break the vacuum seal before pulling it out? You should either be able to pinch the base or insert one finger and push in to do that. Definitely do it in the shower a couple of times to get the feel of it.

[dancingsphinx22]

Apr 27, 2017 17:11:19 GMT -5 rugger said:

Apr 27, 2017 16:55:33 GMT -5 ovenrack said:

What type did you get, rugger?

Lena size 1. No issue inserting. Just felt like I had to put my whole hand up there to remove it

I have the Lena 2 and I had the same problem.

Yesterday I felt like I lost it up in there. Yes, I know that's impossible, but it was gone! It definitely required my whole hand, and I had to "walk" it out, if that makes​ sense.

It was hard to grab onto because I flipped it inside out.

Did you flip yours inside out too?

[rugger]

Apr 27, 2017 17:48:44 GMT -5 dancingsphinx22 said:

Apr 27, 2017 17:11:19 GMT -5 rugger said:

Lena size 1. No issue inserting. Just felt like I had to put my whole hand up there to remove it

I have the Lena 2 and I had the same problem.

Yesterday I felt like I lost it up in there. Yes, I know that's impossible, but it was gone! It definitely required my whole hand, and I had to "walk" it out, if that makes​ sense.

It was hard to grab onto because I flipped it inside out.

Did you flip yours inside out too?

Nope, mine wasn't inside out, but every time I tried to break the seal, it just moved to the side and seemingly out of reach.

I have serious fear of TSS so I'm paranoid that I'm going to scratch my insides and end up with an infection. I can't be the only one, right?

[grumpycakes]

Apr 27, 2017 17:11:19 GMT -5 rugger said:

Apr 27, 2017 16:55:33 GMT -5 ovenrack said:

What type did you get, rugger?

Lena size 1. No issue inserting. Just felt like I had to put my whole hand up there to remove it

Did you try bearing down on it with your pelvic floor muscles? If you bear down, you can get the end of the cup to come closer to your grasp.

[rugger]

Apr 27, 2017 17:55:54 GMT -5 grumpycakes said:

Apr 27, 2017 17:11:19 GMT -5 rugger said:

Lena size 1. No issue inserting. Just felt like I had to put my whole hand up there to remove it

Did you try bearing down on it with your pelvic floor muscles? If you bear down, you can get the end of the cup to come closer to your grasp.

Yeah that definitely helped.

Do you think it'd be easier when it's more full/heavier?