TTMA infants and babysitters
Mar 23, 2017 13:07:07 GMT -5
Post by emilie on Mar 23, 2017 13:07:07 GMT -5
So I know everyone has different thoughts on this one, but I would love to hear your experiences about when you chose to leave your infant with a babysitter for the first time. Did you use family? Sitters recommended by friends? How did it go the first time you went out?
H and I are lucky to live near siblings that we trust - we haven't left DD (3 months) with them yet but I'm sure we will be okay with it soon. However, we are invited to a wedding in a different city in May (DD will be 5 mo old then). At first I thought it would be no big deal for H and I to attend the wedding together for a few hours, and just hire a sitter recommended by our friends in that city to stay in our hotel room with DD. But now I'm having doubts. We would be at the wedding and reception for 3-4 hours max, and the venue and the hotel are 10 min away from each other. What do you think - is it crazy to leave a 5 month old with someone who you don't know personally, but who your good friends trust as a sitter?
Our other options would be for me to come on the trip so I can say hi to our friends but stay behind in the hotel with the baby during the wedding (H is better friends with the couple), or for us to leave DD with family overnight several hours away, but I'm nursing and don't think I am comfortable with that yet. What would you do?
Also - overnights - when did you start taking a night here and there away from your baby?
H and I are lucky to live near siblings that we trust - we haven't left DD (3 months) with them yet but I'm sure we will be okay with it soon. However, we are invited to a wedding in a different city in May (DD will be 5 mo old then). At first I thought it would be no big deal for H and I to attend the wedding together for a few hours, and just hire a sitter recommended by our friends in that city to stay in our hotel room with DD. But now I'm having doubts. We would be at the wedding and reception for 3-4 hours max, and the venue and the hotel are 10 min away from each other. What do you think - is it crazy to leave a 5 month old with someone who you don't know personally, but who your good friends trust as a sitter?
Our other options would be for me to come on the trip so I can say hi to our friends but stay behind in the hotel with the baby during the wedding (H is better friends with the couple), or for us to leave DD with family overnight several hours away, but I'm nursing and don't think I am comfortable with that yet. What would you do?
Also - overnights - when did you start taking a night here and there away from your baby?