ampaints I was just calling to tell my mom about that (she knew already) but I wantes to update her that most of the roads near her work would be closed. So crazy. I couldn't believe it when I first saw it. It's going to be months before it's back up and running.... Or maybe they'll just put a big steel plate over it and call it a day. (I use humor in shitty situations)
Anyone else have a toddler who flips their shit when you get them (already crying) up from their nap? Twenty to thirty minute meltdown everyday. I don't know what he wants or needs.
DD1 did this for a few months around this age. She'd wake up in a funk and nothing would calm her down. I started putting on a Mickey episode because she would zone out and then be fine. But seriously, she's the most chill toddler ever and would wake up screaming and throw herself on the floor kicking and hitting. It was weird.
Yes! It's like full on demon possession. He thrashes so much that I can't physically restrain him.
My mom also gave me a huge lecture about how it's not optimal that w is breastfeeding while I'm on meds (poofed meds) and that I should start giving him whole milk instead. She just kept saying "we know what's optimal and you don't want him exposed to those things" and it's just a fucking bummer to an end of a hard day. Like the guilt I have over being on very safe fucking meds to be stable for my son but also not wean him because he's not ready for that (we're still nursing at least 4 times a day). Yes I know he's getting them but we've made the decision (along with doctors) that this is the best course of action and safe but moments kept repeating 'it's not optimal' done with today.
ampaints I was just calling to tell my mom about that (she knew already) but I wantes to update her that most of the roads near her work would be closed. So crazy. I couldn't believe it when I first saw it. It's going to be months before it's back up and running.... Or maybe they'll just put a big steel plate over it and call it a day. (I use humor in shitty situations)
Legit lol.
This has unexpectedly made me really anxious, sitting on a bridge in traffic already freaks me out, really hoping for not a lot of bridges for our trip.
DD1 did this for a few months around this age. She'd wake up in a funk and nothing would calm her down. I started putting on a Mickey episode because she would zone out and then be fine. But seriously, she's the most chill toddler ever and would wake up screaming and throw herself on the floor kicking and hitting. It was weird.
Yes! It's like full on demon possession. He thrashes so much that I can't physically restrain him.
Hey ampaints! This week has been a rollercoaster. The last 2 days were really stressful work-wise, then H and I had a fight about me letting myself get walked on at work so that sucked. But I actually spoke with my boss today about it. While I don't think anything will change, I feel better now that he knows how I feel and it's not fair to let other people off the hook while I pick up their slack. So today is looking up!
Also, I took tomorrow off work so H and A and I are doing a mini weekend getaway. I'm really looking forward to family time and relaxing. And I hope the temp I hired for tomorrow works out well and I'm not on my phone the whole time.
packmomma I'm a fan of M playing with the older kids because they model things I want him learning. I would give it a try. Also, screw those bitches, W is a doll! Or maybe the energize bunny 😂, but he's the sweetest!
+1fucking screw those bitches And the reason is W couldnt possible be "that kid" because those kids don't have attentive Mommas like you. Kids get bumps and stuff, so he's a bull an a china shop right now its just development and doesnt reflect on you. This too shall pass. I do get upset by other moms for not paying attention at all.
One year ago today M's adoption order was signed by the judge and he officially and legally became ours. My heart feel so full and blessed and I cannot for a second imagine my life without him we are planning to go for dinner to celebrate.
Me: 39 DH: 39 DS1 born Sept 1999 Married Nov 2010 TTC 2010 2011 BFP ended in ectopic RE Aug 2014. Unexplained infertility Sept 2014-Dec 2014 fermera/IUI/TI BFN's
August 16, 2015 baby Boy M is born and our hearts melt!
ampaints I was just calling to tell my mom about that (she knew already) but I wantes to update her that most of the roads near her work would be closed. So crazy. I couldn't believe it when I first saw it. It's going to be months before it's back up and running.... Or maybe they'll just put a big steel plate over it and call it a day. (I use humor in shitty situations)
Legit lol.
This has unexpectedly made me really anxious, sitting on a bridge in traffic already freaks me out, really hoping for not a lot of bridges for our trip.
Just breath. This is not a common occurrence but I totally understand the anxiety.
Today was a triple shot kind of day. Ds started coughing all night out of no where which kept waking me up and dd decided to wake up 3x because 1. She couldn't get her blanket straight, 2. She lost her left sock, and 3. She lost her right sock. Every.hour. from 1-3am.
I hate my H's company. He is miserable and They have SIGNIFICANTLY cut the bonus structure once again. Luckily we didn't budget with the bonus in mind and are using the $ to pay debt. Well, that'll take a lot longer with how low it is. And they are just shitty. He plans on talking to his boss next month about his future there. Then possibly look for another job... new job means it'll push house buying back even more. Fuck
packmomma, I'm not sure anything is optimal when it comes to parenting. We do what we have to do for ourselves and our kids. People will always have opinions- especially when it comes to our body. This time it means safe meds and breastfeeding. You are doing GREAT for W. Period. Full stop.
And h bought a truck last night so now my Saturday morning plan of showering and taking my time doing my hair and makeup before I head into the city at 1 will be rushed because we have to get the check from my bank and pick up the truck.
I forgot about breakfast this morning and sent the last banana with M, so I just ate some of his applesauce and oranges. Hopefully that's enough to tide me over.
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