Post by kmartturtle on Jan 17, 2015 10:18:09 GMT -5
Thanks ladies. I ended up adding a little bit about "how this all started" trying to jog her memory. And I ended it saying when, or if, she's ready to give me a genuine apology she knows where to find me. But that I'm not the only person she owes an apology to.
Good job mart of k. I think that is a very well worded response. The sweetie thing instantly pissed me off too. Fb girl said that to me. I wanted to bite her head off.
Thanks ladies. I ended up adding a little bit about "how this all started" trying to jog her memory. And I ended it saying when, or if, she's ready to give me a genuine apology she knows where to find me. But that I'm not the only person she owes an apology to.
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That was a fantastic response. If you were in my debate class I would have given you an A (and then sent you to the principal for language, because high school).
kmartturtle that response was PERFECT! She's so delusional and close-minded to the possibility that she ever did anything wrong, I doubt the message will get through. Leaving any comments on that board right now is like throwing words at a brick wall of stupid. But, I think you handled it really well.
Post by kmartturtle on Jan 17, 2015 19:52:38 GMT -5
She's hopeless. And now I am considering getting Washington involved. There's definitely "guideline violations."
Fart's response:
It's clear we come from two totally different worlds. What you feel was a harmless joke, I feel was an attack on my intelligence. These types of behaviors warrant a response where I'm from. The way I handle bully's in the real world was simply in that manner. They poked, I barked (Loudly might I add) and they typically left me alone. I learning the people online are safe behind a computer screen and and I can not put fear in them with my large frame. Therefore my harsh remarks only fuel the fire. That is honest to God a lesson I have learned during my experience on the bump.
I get what you are saying about my comments but yet again this shows we are from two different worlds. Things I've said on this forum are figures of speech where I'm from. Phrases like "kill yourself," "find a cliff and jump," and "come for your jugular" should not be taken literally. They roll off your tongue in this world today. No matter what you say I know in your heart of hearts you know that. If that really had an effect on you or some member truly felt suicidal, I GENUINELY apologize. You and I both know that is not the case so cut the bullshit. I feel you just need a reason to let out whatever personal issues you have with people online. Maybe it makes you feel good, but who knows.
I truly feel sorry for you if these ladies are your family. One of the main reason's I am here is because I have not gone completely public about my pregnancy yet. I've only told close family and they are sworn secrecy until 12 weeks. I wish the same for you. I hope your community, friends, and family grow beyond The Bump. So maybe you'll get what your seeking elsewhere. There is a reason for you being "snark" (I say rude, mean, ugly, and nasty) to so many women. Let's not play semantics. You can put sugar on shit and at the end of the day it's still shit! Although you might get likes and encouragement many members I've talked to look at you as hateful, and cruel. The behavior is not cute it's not becoming and it makes you look bad.
As far as the hollyer than thou comment. It was suggested I take a break and calm down since our argument got so heated. I did that and got back to being to my old self, Rainbows and butterflies. Now I knew what to expect and refused to let you guys bother me. What is wrong with being nice? Let's say I was evil and saw how my evil ways were not good and decided to change. Why does that upset you so much?? What's wrong with making a change for the better?
You say you don't hate me but your actions are hateful. Listen SWEETHEART sure you can do what you want but so can I. Now I am asking you woman to woman to not go to such great lengths to stir up trouble with me. Having someone repost your comments is harassment. You are the very person you hate so much. I don't care what you say your actions speak louder than anything you say. Don't be hateful, don't be cruel, let's coexist without communicating.
Dear I will continue on the bump. I can not see your posts. I won't give you much more of my energy. Your efforts to get under my skin will go in vain. Since you seem to be a miserable soul, I know that will bother you more than anything. Tootles!!!!!
kmartturtle You should definitely get Washington involved. This is absolutely ridiculous. I don't understand the whole "jump off a cliff" can just "roll of your tongue". Also, the "don't take them literally thing", how exactly are you supposed to take that. This whole mess is ridiculous, and she sees nothing wrong with what she did.
If I lived in an environment where phrases like that rolled off the tongue I'd fucking move. I'm glad you got Washington involved, that bitch is toxic.
her response....wow. her response proves how ignorant she is and exactly whats wrong with the world. No it is not ok that those phrases just roll off your tongue everyday where she lives. that's low class, immature and disrespectful. Those are fighting words. Those are words that bring cops to your house to question you in events of crime. so wrong on so many levels.
Glad you got in touch with Washington. That whole response is bitchy and nasty. And where the hell does she live that telling someone to jump off a cliff is a figure of speech??
Post by runningmommy519 on Jan 17, 2015 20:31:15 GMT -5
You should send one final message that says bye Kennedy. I'm pretty she she left a review on the bump ap. Someone named Kennedy did and it sounded like her. In the review she said that she was glad you could ignore but you should be able to block.
Post by kmartturtle on Jan 17, 2015 20:38:04 GMT -5
To further protect myself, I don't plan on responding anymore. I'm pretty sure she has last word syndrome and it's also clear that I am talking to a brick wall.
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