Post by Deleted on May 5, 2017 8:30:13 GMT -5
Yesterday Ryan texted me telling me he really needed to talk to me and meet him in the middle of our office building. Long story short, his bosses (the CFO and Controller) pulled him into an office and told him that the guy who had Ryan's job previously (the job he got the promotion to a little over a month ago) was coming back. They blew a bunch of smoke up his ass, saying it had nothing to do with his job performance, that he was doing a great job. They are still going to have him continue to learn this job. Basically, that was their way of telling him that not only is this guy coming back, but he is getting his old job back. He had been calling them for a month asking to come back, the CFO and Controller kept telling him no. So this asshole then started calling the CEO, who he had a very good relationship with when he was here, even though he quit. He caved. The rest of Ryan's department, 2 people in particular, said they wanted this guy to come back (they had all been here for several years together), and the decision was made, without even consulting Ryan. It was done behind closed doors, behind his back. The guy comes back TUESDAY.
And yes, he left knowing that they were giving the position to Ryan. He barely trained him, but he sat with him and showed him certain things before he left.
The guy has a lot of experience, I will give him that, but he sucked at his job. He was a jerk, and no one in my department even liked him. He messed up our budgets several times, and was rude and condescending. He used to talk to me like I was a 5 year old. When it was announced that Ryan was taking the position, many of my coworkers in my department were very excited. We have a new system and then a new young guy in that position, so it's like a fresh start. He already has a good rapport with the Project Teams. People like him. Ryan and I were excited because this meant AMAZING things for his career. He has worked so hard to get to this point, and this was huge for our family. He could see himself here long term. I could see myself here long term, especially with the big project I just got with my Project Manager, and how my immediate bosses (who I LOVE) have treated me. The CEO has been good to me, too. I like him. I respect him. But this, just feels like a gut punch. This is personal, this was my future, too and they ripped it away.
I am lost. I am at work literally unable to do anything and I have so much to do, I have to come in tomorrow morning for overtime, that's how busy I am, but I feel like I can't move. My husband is a mess, I have rarely seen him like this and it hurts to see him this way. We feel betrayed. I don't know how to move forward. I don't know how to put a smile on my face and act like everything is okay and that I even want to be here. I love my job, so feeling like this fucking sucks.
I'm lost.