Crazy posts over "there"

[Deleted]

Have you seen the thread "To leave or not to leave".

W.T.F? There is so much I want to say but I don't want to post it "there"

here it is:
"im really in a bad place in my marriage. Before getting married, DH and I always discussed having 4-5 children. After our first two sons were born, we found just how much time, money and energy was needed with our beautiful children. Unfortunately, my husband is completely satisfied with having just our two boys now and I am not. I love are adore our sons but I have always wanted and felt the desire to raise a little girl. My husband now says things like he's done and we are complete....but I don't feel as such. Actually he even agreed to try for another baby last month, he said he wouldn't mind. But now that aunt flow came he says, welp it didn't work and let's be done. I am contemplating possibly leaving him, I would rather have little girl on my own without him and raise my children just how I always wanted. I know it sounds selfish, but you only live once, right? I'm in a sad place."

What makes her think trying for another baby will get her a girl?? And she is just going to up and leave her husband just like that? Like it's no big deal? That has got to be either a mud post, or she's certifiably crazy!

[ghostmonkey]

Mud mud muddy mud mud

[ttcminicofer]

I agree with ghostmonkey that looks like MUD

[nuggetrn]

Don't even care. MUD or not. Anyone who can look at a wall full of silence posts and decide that they are more important than what's going on doesn't deserve my attention.

[kaliRN]

If it's real I feel so bad for her kids. Marriage shouldn't be dissolved like its nothing. HOPE it's mud!

[carolinaheart]

"What's up with all the negative comments? Don't worry Hun... He obviously knows that you may become pregnant, he's having sex with you and unless he's pulling out then the probability is high. My husband did the same with out second, I kinda pushed it on him and he wasn't quite so enthusiastic, but he is so happy and super close with our second son. Now that we are ready for number 3, he is never actually excited, just kinda okay with it. I think if you just involve him in some aspects and not every feeling of excitement you have, it'll grow on him. Good luck."

Post from the same girl on a different thread the other week.

[ttcminicofer]

Jan 17, 2015 15:04:26 GMT -5 nuggetrn said:

Don't even care. MUD or not. Anyone who can look at a wall full of silence posts and decide that they are more important than what's going on doesn't deserve my attention.

yes, seriously. How self involved are you that you skip right over the obvious silent posts and make your own? I was shocked when I was still active to see them posting like nothing was going on.

[kaliRN]

WOW. Why not trick him into a lifelong responsibility?! No biggie. Not like you should actually sit down and talk about it. It's just a baby after all. Good lord

[ghostmonkey]

Considering the number of people that posted shit that had just been posted or completely ignored the newbie thread, surprise really shouldn't be your first reaction.

[SheilaTheTank]

Even if its not MUD (which I hope it is) this is not a discussion you have on an internet forum. That's something you talk to your therapist about or your husband directly. WTF is wrong with people?!!!

[kawaiikitsune]

If it isn't mud, I wouldn't be surprised after the nugget of golden advice she dropped about a week ago. Essentially forcing her husband into their second kid. That to me is selfish.

[risscaboobs]

So, I made an AE to see if I can get into that group. And I'm going to say a bunch of the typical crazy shit. So hate on her as much as necessary haha. (edited out name due to spies)

[morwen]

Meh everything but her post is now silence on the first page. Troll are gonna troll.

eta and if she's not a troll I really do feel bad for her husband and kids, that's increadibly selfish behaviour

[Deleted]

I tried to get in as sangriapirate. Guess they don't like sangria!

[Sparkly]

I'm pretty sure this isn't mud... I recognize her SN and feel like she was talking about this recently... how she wanted another baby and her husband didn't.

[cateyes]

And so it begins. If it isn't mud and people see responses like this, well bring on the crazies. If it is mud and people see these responses, well bring on the crazies. Ether way-it is all just lame and ruining a place I loved.

[hydrangea1019]

Jan 17, 2015 15:40:27 GMT -5 @sangriapirate said:

I tried to get in as sangriapirate. Guess they don't like sangria!

They don't like hydrangeas either. 

[teenybenoit]

So glad you just posted this, I too read it and was going to say something and decided against it.
Are these people for real or are they fakes that have been set up by admin or the site owners just trying to get the rest of us stragglers that are still members over there to make final leap of leaving?
It's gross. I'd just like a take home baby.
Going over there reading this stuff is hurtful yet it feels like leaving altogether means they won?

[awkwardturtle]

I saw that.. I really wanted to respond, but I thought (1) I want this post off the first page and (2) if it's not MUD, nothing I say will change her mind, so not even worth my time to write a response. I'm just going to stop looking over there, it raises my blood pressure every time.

[longlivetheevilqueen]

Going on the bump just pisses me off now.

[notlindsrockies]

I'm going to buck the tide here. I really don't think it's mud. She's not obnoxious enough.

[thewickedfairy]

I saw this earlier and all that could come to mind was, "Holy fuck! BSC much?!"

[Ray]

Yeah I read this too. Lol perfect post for an "I feel sorry for your husband!" response LOL

[longlivetheevilqueen]

Jan 17, 2015 18:10:09 GMT -5 thewickedfairy said:

I saw this earlier and all that could come to mind was, "Holy fuck! BSC much?!"

Pretty much. I wanted to tell her to get a divorce only because the husband needs to get the fuck away from her. Take thoses babies and leave.

[3houlagirl]

Jan 17, 2015 15:58:16 GMT -5 hydrangea1019 said:

Jan 17, 2015 15:40:27 GMT -5 @sangriapirate said:

I tried to get in as sangriapirate. Guess they don't like sangria!

They don't like hydrangeas either. 

They caught on to our ruse. I got kicked out too, and who doesn't like catahoulas?!

[pismoduo]

Jan 17, 2015 18:17:10 GMT -5 Ray said:

Yeah I read this too. Lol perfect post for an "I feel sorry for your husband!" response LOL

Please, please say it!

[Ray]

Jan 17, 2015 19:31:12 GMT -5 pismoduo said:

Jan 17, 2015 18:17:10 GMT -5 Ray said:

Yeah I read this too. Lol perfect post for an "I feel sorry for your husband!" response LOL

Please, please say it!

I would but I don't want to bump it lol

[jawswife]

Jan 17, 2015 15:06:41 GMT -5 carolinaheart said:

"What's up with all the negative comments? Don't worry Hun... He obviously knows that you may become pregnant, he's having sex with you and unless he's pulling out then the probability is high. My husband did the same with out second, I kinda pushed it on him and he wasn't quite so enthusiastic, but he is so happy and super close with our second son. Now that we are ready for number 3, he is never actually excited, just kinda okay with it. I think if you just involve him in some aspects and not every feeling of excitement you have, it'll grow on him. Good luck."

Post from the same girl on a different thread the other week.

I remember that comment. She's gross.