Blueandred

[kaf7]

I may have missed it if you updated in another thread, but how did the trip go for you and LO? Are you still there? I hope it was easier than anticipated. Hugs.

[bellalou]

Wondering the same

[mg0202]

I have also been wondering how things have been for you and your family.

[blueinred]

Thanks for your concern ladies.  Honestly it was a very difficult and emotionally charged weekend.  Likely it will be the last time I see him alive.  I don't know whatbI was expecting but it upset me that he didn't seem at all pleased that I came from AZ to see him.

One positive is how empathic and comforting DH has been.  I am fortunate that he just gets it and I don't have to explain my conflicting feelings.

When I told LO that my dad was very, very sick she started to cry because she thought I was talking about FIL, who fortunately is very healthy and vigorous.  My dad has completely rejected LO because of religion and on one level it's a relief I won't have to explain that to her.

My mother is very cognizant of my father's imminent death but my sister is still in denial and became irate with me when I tried to broach the subject of death.  Can I just say that family relations are complicated.

[kmc84]

More love and hugs to you. I'm so glad that YH is supportive and understanding. I can't imagine how difficult this all is.... I'm so sorry.

[kaf7]

I'm sorry it's been so difficult. Hugs now and ongoing.

[mrsamyd]

Hugs, blueinred, I'm very sorry you and your family are hurting. I'm thinking about you.

[imoverit]

Ugh that sounds awful. So sorry for this situation. YH is a rockstar and so are you. Hugs.

[mg0202]

I am so sorry things are so difficult right now. I am glad YH is there for you and supportive.

[julie216]

Sending you lots of hugs. I'm so sorry you are dealing with the imminent death of your dad, but also dealing with the
fact that he never accepted your religious decisions. thinking of you....

[callmeal]

I'm so sorry blueinred. Big hugs to you. I'm so glad DH is being supportive.