Post by summer on Feb 21, 2015 16:12:55 GMT -5
Please tell me how.
I started using the TV during BFing to keep DS occupied. And it worked, but now it is causing problems. For one, now DS asks for TV at times other than BFing, and if I don't give in, he pitches a huge fit, usually culminating in hitting me or DD. Or, if we are BFing and it is on, but it's not one of the shows he wants or likes, he won't watch and demands Bob the Builder, which, if it's not on, I can't help it (well, okay, it's on On Demand, but I sort of balk at the idea that he can get Bob whenever he wants), and he throws the fit and usually hits DD.
Ideally, I would love for him to go back to independently playing, which he hardly does anymore (and which makes me sad; he was so good at it and he seemed to be really happy when he did it), because the TV causes so many problems. And I'm over being hit with the remote (when I forget to hide it) and him yelling "BEEBEE!" at me over and over. I try to convince him to bring me a book so I can read to him while I BF but he is having none of it.
How do/did the rest of you with more than one do it? Is this just a battle I shouldn't pick right now?
(As a funny aside, the other day he really wanted to watch Bob and I was holding DD, so he pushed me over the couch, pushed on me until I sat down, and then tried to shove my nursing pillow on me. It was kind of hilarious.)