Post by mirandah on Feb 24, 2015 13:44:42 GMT -5
What a hassle setting up summer camps/school release care. But, it beats staring out the window into the frozen tundra.
Background: DS is in first grade, ASD/ADHD/GAD. Mainstreamed with shared aide. Two years ago we sent him to a YMCA day camp for the first time and he loved it. Lots of outdoorsy stuff, horses, pool, canoes, etc. Low staff ratio (1:10). Last year the ratio shot up because of his age group and now he was in 1:15 and his counselor didn't seem to be as organized and DS complained about camp for the first time. They play a lot of dodgeball and archery, both of which he dislikes. The remainder of his summer was spent at his school's summer program, which he loves because it's all free time and field trips.
This year I'm thinking harder about where to send him. As he gets older his interests are becoming more limited, e.g. he has expressed that he does not want to go to YMCA camp or a new X'nex camp I found for him. He's caught on that if he just goes to the school care, he'll get to command his own schedule. SO- I'm going to push him. I signed him up for YMCA day camp but with the "horses" specialty, which he said he'd enjoy. I signed him up for a 4-day K'nex day camp over spring break. I'm nervous about that one, but there are only 20 kids in the class so I'm hoping it won't be too bad. I emailed staff about my concerns and am waiting to hear back. Then I bit the bullet financially speaking and signed him up for two different week long ASD day camps. They aren't social skills specific, but basically regular day camp activities with higher ratios (1:3). The remainder will be spent at his school program.
Thoughts? None of the registrations are firm, we won't know until March. His summer is only 8 weeks since they start pre-labor day. I tend to worry that I'm not exposing him to enough stuff so I'm trying to do this in the summer. He has expressed that he doesn't want to do swimming lessons again and he doesn't even want to try karate. When he was younger he was much more eager to try anything. I'm wondering if there came a time when you realized the "typical" camps aren't cutting it and you had to branch out? I thought we'd be reverse, that it would get easier as he got older, but instead, as the maturity gap widens, I'm more worried about where I send him.