*** Loss Mentioned ****

[doves654]

Hi ladies, we had an u/s at 7w5d last week and the baby was measuring small but had a great heartbeat. Unfortunately today's ultrasound didn't go well. The baby had grown 6-7 mm as we had hoped, but there was no longer a heartbeat. We have a D&C scheduled for tomorrow.

I am not sure what's next for us. We don't have any more embryos, and I'm not sure we have it in us to do another IVF. Time will tell, but for not I think we're going to take a break from all things IF.

It's been really amazing and special being part of this with all of you. I don't think I could have done it without you. I'll still be lurking from time to time, rooting you guys on.

[Deleted]

I am so very sorry. Hugs dear.

[IFinTN]

I am so sorry for your loss. Big hugs!

[nutmeg8484]

I am so sorry for your loss. Huge hugs sent your way.

[DrHooch]

I am so sorry for your loss.

[bunnybun]

I am so, so sorry. ((hugs))

[bluefairy5]

I'm so, so sorry to hear this, doves654. It feels so inadequate, but all I can offer from here is (((hugs))).

[hbanana18]

I'm so sorry. ((Hugs))

[chicory]

Infertility is so effing unfair. I'm so sorry. I pray that whatever comes next for you brings your peace. I wish I could say something that helps. Hugs.

[lolasky]

Gosh, I am so, so sorry! I'll keep you in my T&Ps. Taking some time off to take care of yourself makes sense. (Hugs)

[ginnyjones82]

I'm so sorry.

[lilyharper]

I'm so sorry. ((((((Hugs)))))

[Aimothy]

I'm so sorry for your loss. 

[Smootiepie]

Oh no, not another one! I'm so sorry sweetie. ((Huge hugs)) and many T&Ps for your upcoming D&C and recovery.

[sewfie2]

I'm so sorry, this is absolutely heartbreaking. I can't believe both and vball had losses today. You and YH are in my thoughts. (((hugs)))

[sunnyb]

I'm so so sorry for your loss thinking of you.

[kmc84]

I am so very sorry for your loss.  Giant hugs to you.

[jessimi06]

((Big Hugs)) I'm so sorry.

[aves0708]

I hate this. This is just so unfair and I'm heartbroken for you and your DH. You both are in my thoughts ((hugs))

[sunshinedaisies]

I am so very sorry for your loss. IF sucks and this is just so unfair. It took me quite a while to try again after my loss - so maybe time will give you a healthier perspective on what is right for you and YH. Take care of yourself right now.

[purpledaisy923]

I'm so sorry for your loss. ((hugs))

[beachbum913]

Im so, so sorry. sending hugs and prayers.

[mrswillie]

So sorry! Sending lots of thoughts and prayers.

[gsancho]

I'm so sorry for your loss

[amshark]

I'm so sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself, and tell your OH to do the same.

If you want some information on D&C, there is a thread talking about individual's D&C experiences on the "Pregnancy Loss" board here. You may find this useful: goodbyecb.proboards.com/thread/1120/experiences

Sending you huge ((hugs))

[ProfessorChaos]

Oh my, I'm so very sorry to read this. My first IVF was also a miscarriage, and I had nothing frozen. My heart goes out to you and your husband. ((Hugs))

[SweetieShellie]

I'm soo sorry to hear this. You guys take all the time you need to heal & to figure out what your next steps will be. (((hugs)))

[Deleted]

Oh no I'm so sorry to hear this ((hugs)). Make sure you and YH take care of yourselves.

[katemonster]

So sorry for your loss. ((Hugs))

[luchich]

I'm so sorry.