RE appointment canceled

[shemarie82]

B and I have been talking with my RE appointment coming up next week, and we have decided that I should cancel it. Lately it seems like there are a lot of statements like, I want a baby BUT, right now we can do... (fill in the blank).

I thought that I would have lots of feels about canceling the appointment. The fact that I don't tells me that it is the right thing for us right now. We will reevaluate in September (our 1st wedding ann) and talk about rescheduling then. We are still going to move forward with the foster license, just as we had planned, so we could still end up with a baby/toddler anyway. 

[karlamo]

I'm glad you feel good about your decision. I like it when I make decisons where my emotions validate that I did the right thing.

[healz413]

Like karlamo said, I'm glad that you two made a decision that feels good to you.

[megd893]

PP's nailed it. Sounds like you made the right decision for you two, and for your family to be. Glad you have peace with what you're doing, and that you're on the same page. So important.