I get jealous of baby. Last night dh took baby to bed and was hugging him and kissing. I joined and took some daddy & son pics. But I wanted some cuddling too. I moved baby over to the side and hugged dh abit.
I get jealous of baby. Last night dh took baby to bed and was hugging him and kissing. I joined and took some daddy & son pics. But I wanted some cuddling too. I moved baby over to the side and hugged dh abit.
Me too. I told DH that DS1 and DS2 probably get 10x the amount of affection that I do, and it hurts my feelings. Hopefully that will change now that I'm not pregnant and cleared for sex.
I've been back at work a week and a half, but today is the first day I've worn a bra. The other days I just wore a nursing tank under my clothes, and I had on a flowy top with a blazer, so I figured that was fine.
My kid has not seen his own fingers outside of changing clothes or a bath in weeks. I have mittens or the onesie cover thingies over his hands at all times. I then proceed to laugh whenever he whacks himself in the face with one; we call them "paddle hands"
Something nasty - I am sick, and I can't swallow phlegm (it's so gross to me), so I spit all the time. In trash cans, or my car door, into the toilet. I probably look so unladylike.
When LO has a hard time pooping he starts grunting and fussing...I'm sure most of you are familiar with those sounds. During the day, I'm like "Oh, poor baby." At night, I get irrationally angry, and I'm like "Fucking poop already." It makes me insane to know his pooping will wake him up within 5-30 minutes, and it will take me another hour to get him back to sleep. When day breaks, I'm immediately sympathetic mom again.
I get jealous of baby. Last night dh took baby to bed and was hugging him and kissing. I joined and took some daddy & son pics. But I wanted some cuddling too. I moved baby over to the side and hugged dh abit.
Me too. I told DH that DS1 and DS2 probably get 10x the amount of affection that I do, and it hurts my feelings. Hopefully that will change now that I'm not pregnant and cleared for sex.
Mine is the opposite of you ladies. With two kids I am annoyed that my h is always trying to touch me and be affectionate. I also find it weird that he comes to me first for affection instead of the kids who actually like it and are receptive. I always feel like saying "choose a kid if you want to cuddle and leave me alone". I don't but I think it and just find an excuse why I can't be affectionate right then. I am just not a physically affectionate person with anyone but my kids and his affection always feels like an attempt to have sex which I just don't have time for. I feel like we aren't a very good match because we are so very different in our needs...
llambrose this is our first baby buy I'd have to agree. He wants to ge cuddling all night long and I get so irritated having to ask him to move his arm off of me constantly. And same thing, it's usually because he wants sex and that just isn't happening much. Anyway, I'm with you. I like some space!
I brought the baby with me to my PP check up yesterday because I thought my OB would like to see him since he hasn't seen baby since we were discharged (he was glad I brought him and so were the nurses). As a reward, baby got full view of my pelvic exam and IUD insertion. Oops... Good thing he'll never remember?
I'm feeling lazy. Lo is sleeping so I should cook rice for my lunch but think I'll watch Netflix and either eat my leftovers without rice or with a microwave rice pouch because I don't want to get up twice
Here's one from just now. LO refuses to nap during the day. So, today, I had enough of the 20-30 minute catnaps and fussiness and was super tired myself. I laid him in bed with me moving all blankets and pillows, turned on the ceiling fan, and got him to start another catnap next to me so I could finally nap.
I hope FI never ever, ever gets tired of coming home to a woman with no bra on. I'm about 120 pounds but my ginormous triple d's make it impossible to get by or even feel/look remotely sexy (especially in the saggy post pregnancy stage). I've always been so self conscious about my large breasts that I will rarely wear anything but t-shirts and hoodies, even with a bra on. But today I'm letting them shamelessly hang free, and hoping he doesn't care.
llambrose I feel the same way. If I have to choose cuddling or sleeping (I can't do both, I get too hot), sleep wins every time. My husband doesn't get it. Last time he got pissy about it, I told him that we could cuddle, but then he has to get up with me and watch me nurse and pump when the baby gets up. I won. Also, my husband can't be affectionate without trying to get frisky, so I'm constantly swatting him away. I wouldn't if I ever thought he was just being sweet, but that's never the case.
I hope FI never ever, ever gets tired of coming home to a woman with no bra on. I'm about 120 pounds but my ginormous triple d's make it impossible to get by or even feel/look remotely sexy (especially in the saggy post pregnancy stage). I've always been so self conscious about my large breasts that I will rarely wear anything but t-shirts and hoodies, even with a bra on. But today I'm letting them shamelessly hang free, and hoping he doesn't care.
I'm pretty sure that most husbands would not disagree with you being topless, if I'm at all warm dh always says to just take off my shirt, ha ha!
llambrose I feel the same way. If I have to choose cuddling or sleeping (I can't do both, I get too hot), sleep wins every time. My husband doesn't get it. Last time he got pissy about it, I told him that we could cuddle, but then he has to get up with me and watch me nurse and pump when the baby gets up. I won. Also, my husband can't be affectionate without trying to get frisky, so I'm constantly swatting him away. I wouldn't if I ever thought he was just being sweet, but that's never the case.
Glad to know I am not the only one always swatting away advances! I always feel like a jerk but I get touched plenty throughout the day by the kids and since I am not a "touchy" person, that is enough. Plus it is way different knowing there is more of an intent behind it. Plus it drives me nuts how he feels like he can touch me wherever he wants, whenever he wants (which I don't feel he should be able to do) so it makes me mad that when I am doing something like washing my hair in the sink he feels it necessary to put him hand in my pants. It really pisses me off because I am just trying to do one little thing for myself and I end up having to deal with that. He does it because he thinks it is funny but I don't and after 13 years together you would think he might have caught on.
llambrose I feel the same way. If I have to choose cuddling or sleeping (I can't do both, I get too hot), sleep wins every time. My husband doesn't get it. Last time he got pissy about it, I told him that we could cuddle, but then he has to get up with me and watch me nurse and pump when the baby gets up. I won. Also, my husband can't be affectionate without trying to get frisky, so I'm constantly swatting him away. I wouldn't if I ever thought he was just being sweet, but that's never the case.
Glad to know I am not the only one always swatting away advances! I always feel like a jerk but I get touched plenty throughout the day by the kids and since I am not a "touchy" person, that is enough. Plus it is way different knowing there is more of an intent behind it. Plus it drives me nuts how he feels like he can touch me wherever he wants, whenever he wants (which I don't feel he should be able to do) so it makes me mad that when I am doing something like washing my hair in the sink he feels it necessary to put him hand in my pants. It really pisses me off because I am just trying to do one little thing for myself and I end up having to deal with that. He does it because he thinks it is funny but I don't and after 13 years together you would think he might have caught on.
llambrose I feel the same way. If I have to choose cuddling or sleeping (I can't do both, I get too hot), sleep wins every time. My husband doesn't get it. Last time he got pissy about it, I told him that we could cuddle, but then he has to get up with me and watch me nurse and pump when the baby gets up. I won. Also, my husband can't be affectionate without trying to get frisky, so I'm constantly swatting him away. I wouldn't if I ever thought he was just being sweet, but that's never the case.
Glad to know I am not the only one always swatting away advances! I always feel like a jerk but I get touched plenty throughout the day by the kids and since I am not a "touchy" person, that is enough. Plus it is way different knowing there is more of an intent behind it. Plus it drives me nuts how he feels like he can touch me wherever he wants, whenever he wants (which I don't feel he should be able to do) so it makes me mad that when I am doing something like washing my hair in the sink he feels it necessary to put him hand in my pants. It really pisses me off because I am just trying to do one little thing for myself and I end up having to deal with that. He does it because he thinks it is funny but I don't and after 13 years together you would think he might have caught on.
Yessssss! I get so annoyed. Sometimes I just wanna walk up the stairs without having my ass grabbed. He thinks I should be flattered, but it's fucking annoying. I feel like I spend half of my time dodging his advances. There's a time and a place, and the time is not anytime and the place is not anywhere.
llambrose I feel the same way. If I have to choose cuddling or sleeping (I can't do both, I get too hot), sleep wins every time. My husband doesn't get it. Last time he got pissy about it, I told him that we could cuddle, but then he has to get up with me and watch me nurse and pump when the baby gets up. I won. Also, my husband can't be affectionate without trying to get frisky, so I'm constantly swatting him away. I wouldn't if I ever thought he was just being sweet, but that's never the case.
Glad to know I am not the only one always swatting away advances! I always feel like a jerk but I get touched plenty throughout the day by the kids and since I am not a "touchy" person, that is enough. Plus it is way different knowing there is more of an intent behind it. Plus it drives me nuts how he feels like he can touch me wherever he wants, whenever he wants (which I don't feel he should be able to do) so it makes me mad that when I am doing something like washing my hair in the sink he feels it necessary to put him hand in my pants. It really pisses me off because I am just trying to do one little thing for myself and I end up having to deal with that. He does it because he thinks it is funny but I don't and after 13 years together you would think he might have caught on.
My DH is the exact same and I get mad at him every. single. time..... he still doesn't get it!
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