Show H some love

[diamondsndaisies]

I noticed last week that some ladies mentioned that sometimes we tend to rang on our H/SOs on here so I thought it would be fun to do a post of something awesome our H/SOs do.
Mine- the other day at work I had used a post it note for a file and when I pulled it off, I found this underneath. He must have snuck it in last time was up in my office getting ready to me out to lunch. Totally made my day.



What is something wonderful/sweet/thoughtful your H/SO has done lately?

Edit to add

[swivelchair5]

DH made me breakfast this morning!

[kellybenelly83]

H walks to the train station every evening with the dogs and meets me so that we can walk back together and the pups get their walk (and we dont have to leave the house again)
He also installed the old tv in our bedroom with a playstation so that I could watch Netflix while pregnant.

[moirin8]

I work third shift and him first. He wakes me up every night so I don't have to deal with alarm clock. He's really sweet about it.

[youdontsay]

H has been shoveling/snow blowing the driveway all winter and never complains. He also woke up early this morning just to warm up my car.

[teraiin]

My husband backs my truck in for me so I don't need to worry about hitting the garage.

I CAN back it in, but it's a little bit tight with two big vehicles so it makes me really nervous.

[mrsjene]

H always gives me a kiss on the head, even when he thinks I'm in a deep sleep, when he leaves the house before my alarm goes off.

[pinkcat]

I like this thread! It's so easy to get caught up in the negatives sometimes. Last weekend was my birthday and my husband made a 40 clue scavenger hunt all around the house with clues about some of our favorites dates and memories. It was so cute and it was great to look back on all the fun things we've done over the past 7 years!

[mainewifey]

H has been very perceptive recently about me not feeling all that great about myself since I stopped working out regularly and my skin is freaking out on me. He (the most frugal man I know) offered to buy my RX acne medication at $100 a pop and pay for my personal trainer. He really does pay attention, even when I think he isn't.

[ironbaby]

DH does so many sweet little things. He is always making sure I have everything I need: hanging my keys on the hook when I have left them wherever they fell when I walked in, put my money on my vanity, etc. He kisses my head every morning when he leaves, even if I am asleep. He fixes my water before bed. And most recently, he stayed up til midnight with me to keep me company while I baked cupcakes for my sister's birthday. He was exhausted the next day, but I loved not being downstairs alone all night.

[becwheat]

DH spent last night helping our friend's get ready to bring their NICU baby home. He de-iced and shoveled their driveway. Set up the crib, swing and other things for LO and also took them food. It just shows me what a great guy he is and how supportive he will be when we have a NB of our own.

[Deleted]

I am loving this thread!

DH always kisses me goodbye each morning, even though I am asleep (I normally wake up briefly when he does).

He does 100% of the dishes. I never have to clean or put away dishes. He does this since I cook so much for him.

[grahamcrackers]

If there's any snow on my car, he always brushes it off before he leaves for work. He also kisses me before he leaves in the morning even if he thinks I'm stil asleep.

Probably the biggest thing though is why I'm even here on this board... he really, really did not want to have a third child. I want it sooooo badly and he knows it. He has (obviously) agreed to it but I know how scared/nervous he is and is doing this out of pure love for me and wanting me to be happy. I *hope* in the future he'll be glad he listened to me.

[Sparkly]

Mar 6, 2015 9:19:43 GMT -5 becwheat said:

DH spent last night helping our friend's get ready to bring their NICU baby home. He de-iced and shoveled their driveway. Set up the crib, swing and other things for LO and also took them food. It just shows me what a great guy he is and how supportive he will be when we have a NB of our own.

This is really amazing, and I bet it means SO much to them!

[moutonrouge]

I bought myself a new mirror/storage cabinet that attaches to the closet door. When I got home, I took the dog for a walk, and when I came back he had assembled and installed it for me.

Every weekend when he goes to the gym, he stops to get something from Dunkin on his way home and he never forgets to bring me my favorite doughnut.

[moirin8]

Mar 6, 2015 9:34:20 GMT -5 moutonrouge said:

I bought myself a new mirror/storage cabinet that attaches to the closet door. When I got home, I took the dog for a walk, and when I came back he had assembled and installed it for me.

Every weekend when he goes to the gym, he stops to get something from Dunkin on his way home and he never forgets to bring me my favorite doughnut.

I read doughnut as dog nut.... Yummy.

[mrss44]

I showed DH a picture of the new Reese's Krispy Kreme donuts and said they looked awesome! And he brought me some this morning.

[bl1210]

My H is so thoughtful. I have been having a rough week and he surprised me with a new Kate Spade bag last night. He always kisses me bye in the mornings even if I'm asleep, and he sends me the sweetest texts to wake up to. He can't have his phone at work leaves our house about 3:30am and I dont have to leave until 7.

[Sparkly]

I've been in a funk most of the week, and my H made a point to write on this little "I love you because" board we have how much he loves & appreciates me and that I work hard. It's like this (a friend made it for us as a wedding gift):



He also got up an cleaned up the whole kitchen today, because I was mad he didn't before bed last night.

My favorite: He makes the coffee every morning and brings me a mug in bed after getting up with our DD so I can sleep a bit longer, since I do bedtime and am usually the one up with her most of the night when she's not into sleeping (which is often).

[thelittleredm]

DH rocks me, which sounds weird but when I'm struggling to relax enough to fall asleep, he spoons me and rocks me until I fall asleep.

[moirin8]

Mar 6, 2015 9:42:05 GMT -5 thelittleredm said:

DH rocks me, which sounds weird but when I'm struggling to relax enough to fall asleep, he spoons me and rocks me until I fall asleep.

It's not weird. My dh does too when I can't sleep due to anxiety.

[singingsea]

There's not one specific thing but he always picks me up when I'm feeling down. He keeps me grounded, motivated, loved and sane. Which you really need in a partner if you have issues.

[ohinvrtedworld]

H is just so cute. Even this morning in his sleep he heard me move around to grab my phone, and he rolled over and wrapped his arms around me and stuck on like a magnet to cuddle before I got up. Sometimes when I can't sleep, he will give me a full body massage without me asking or suggesting it to help me sleep. I married up!

[kariann12]

MH agreed to jizz in a cup for me today. If that's not love, then I don't know what is.

[joy]

Last night, I went up to bed around midnight and Jay stayed downstairs to finish watching a show. We say "I love you" about a billion times a day so going to bed was no different.

"Love you!" I said and gave him a kiss.
He looked at for a second and then said "I love you so much."

The look and added "so much" took my breath away. It's not our usual conversation and I can't think of when he's ever said that phrase before.

I'll keep him.

[requiressnacks]

Love all the love in this thread! DH does a lot of sweet stuff....but I particularly like that he always kisses me goodbye/hello no matter what time of day it is. (He works a rotating 12 hour shift). And he takes care of all the snow. A keeper in my book!

[Deleted]

Earlier in the week I had really bad stomach cramps but I also had a long list of house work to do. Dh told me to rest and just do it whenever I felt better. So I read on the couch for a bit while he sneakily cleaned the bathroom for me, without me asking. I'm pretty particular about how things get cleaned, but I was very grateful he did it anyways.

[heatherj9603]

The day I had my u/s two months ago and found out about my fibroid and surgery, dh was at work. I called to tell him what happened. He ended up leaving work two hours early just to beat me home. I came home from work with dinner on the table, the kitchen cleaned, and a beautiful bouquet of flowers in the center. 

Hes also good about helping me with the dishes on the weekends (we don't have a dishwasher) he takes care of putting up his own laundry, and he takes care of all the cars. 

[kellybenelly83]

Can I compliment H for being awesome in the sack? He blew my mind last night.

[SheilaTheTank]

This is giving me all the feels




H always helps out around the house without me having to ask. He cleans, does laundry, takes out the trash, shovels and works on multiple side projects to keep us afloat. He's my best friend and I love him more than anything.