Post by llm100811 on Mar 10, 2015 14:04:18 GMT -5
So I am a teacher in a Catholic school which I absolutely LOVE. The kids are awesome, my boss is so supportive of my pregnancy and due date (9-13-15......uh, not the best due date for a teacher......but she was AWESOME about it and said, "I don't care about your due date, I'm just happy that you are having a blessing of a baby! She knew about our struggles), and I have a nice group of friends here. My co-teacher is looking to move back to her home state next year, which would mean I would have a new teaching partner and a maternity leave right at the beginning of the school year. I'm not worried about it at all. I know the due date is not that great, but you know what, there have been greater tragedies in the world.
A different co-worker of mine was asking me today about my co-teacher's plans, and then what my plans were. The group of students before my grade have a teacher on maternity leave right now, and co-worker kept talking about how we better have a plan in place for that group of students because parents are going to be mad about having to deal with 2 maternity leaves. She THEN proceeded to tell me about how when she had her first child, the group of parents she was dealing with were awful to her. They were so bad that our priest tailored a homily around what was happening and read it at our whole school mass in hopes that the parents would stop it. The whole conversation was just frustrating. I know my upcoming parents won't be thrilled about my due date. I don't need a constant reminder of it. I don't need a constant reminder that some students don't handle change well, and 2 years with a sub for a maternity leave may be really hard on some kids. I basically told her that change is inevitable. I tried for a June baby, it clearly didn't work. What should I do, not have my baby for the sake of the school? My boss was very supportive and said, "The school will function without you! If I could give you a whole year off to bond with your baby, I would in a heart beat." If my BOSS is this supportive, why can't my co-worker just keep her mouth shut? I already feel nervous for parents to find out, I don't need other stress added on top of it.
Sorry to vent......but you guys and my co-teacher are the only people that just get it.