Trip away from baby... Too soon?

[mommadozer]

Hi ladies,

I would like your thoughts on my hubby's idea. So, he got a last minute invite to a business conference in Washington DC in two weeks and he wants me to tag along. The trip would be for 4 days and we would only have to pay for my flight and food. LO will be 2 months old by then and would stay with each set of grandparents for 2 days.

I have never been to Washington DC and would love to go but, I just wish LO was a little bit older and got his sleep schedule together before sending him out for an overnight trip. Also, I am worried about his latch. We live in California and the distance away is already giving me some anxiety. But, at the same time it would be nice to have a break for a couple days and have some alone time with the hubby.

What are your thoughts ladies?

[dacora]

Personally, I think I would go. However, DD is formula fed so I wouldn't have to worry about how she was going to eat while I was gone.

In regards to your concern about his sleep, I think it's actually better that the trip is when he's only 2 months say versus four or five months when he's more likely to establish a more stable routine. I think with him being so young, the changes of sleeping locations will actually affect him less than if he were older. Disclaimer: This opinion isn't based on personal experience, just from what I've read about typical sleep for babies.

[miniwheat]

If I could swing 4 days away with my husband I would jump on the chance! I am not BFing though so I don't have those challenges.

[modernfairytale8709]

I'm in the minority here, but I probably wouldn't do it. I'm EBFing, and I just don't trust anyone with my baby for such a long period of time at this point. The distance would also make me squeamish.
That being said, I certainly wouldn't side-eye you for going. It's more of a situational choice.

[mands1125]

I am in agreement with the PP.

[JEMandtheHolograms]

Go and have fun, baby will love time with grandparents! I EFF, but I'm sure if you ask the breastfeeding boards they will have tons of advice!

Btw, I love the zoo and all the cute restaurants nearby!!!

[toadandbuggie]

I would go. I feel strongly about having quality time with SO and that seems like a good opportunity. I'm sure the grandparents will love the extra time they get too.

[dreemkin]

I personally wouldn't but if it works for you that's great. It may depend on the temperament of the baby (bc right now I would not be able to leave my "angry anna" with anyone)

[kcrosem]

I would consider going with baby or taking a grandparent along and buying them a room/plane ticket. Crazy expensive, I know but maybe something to consider.

I think if you think you will be ok emotionally than do it though.

[mommadozer]

Thanks for all of your inputs! DH decided to not attend the conference since its very last minute. Glad I don't have to worry about making this decision just yet and we can maybe start with just a one day overnighter.