BLUF: Typically, how is the decision made for category vs board vs sub? But initial thoughts...a Dads category.
I typed a rather lengthy post, because really...that's what I do. Lol. I can't help it.
But I deleted before posting to ask a question...what typically are the guidelines for creating a category versus a board within that category versus a sub-board?
After typing my initial response, I realized my first thought was to keep us where we are, but now am leaning toward our own category for a few reasons. The primary one being what is often discussed here which is inclusivity. Those without kids (TTC, CLNBC) wouldn't necessarily identify as parents. So our own category would be sensitive to that instead of being under the parenting umbrella. --though dads/dads to be also runs into that problem.
I had previous felt the category heading then implies multiple boards and really feel for the sake of traffic keeping this small and contained helps, as one board with more threads/posts gives the appearance of greater activity than one post weekly in a million different subs. With so few of us we use threads for what the ladies need boards just to organize things. But that isn't necessary. We don't need all that, now. It can simply be what we have in the Dad/Dad to be category and as the 3 become 3,000 we have the space to expand (ROFL...a guy can dream right? -maybe a first step would be 13?).
I'm thinking something nuetral but am not quite sure what. We discussed what to call our private board and agreed to not choose a sexiest name or something that implied exclusively men (we ruled out man cave in that discussion) We welcome lurkers and their opinions and those individuals who want to ask questions of us like..."so we are TTC and my H is...what's the deal?" We are as much a resource as we are a support for one another.
I know I'm thinking way too much about it, most people wouldn't care about man cave, but to me that implies men only and the typical sexist default is if the cave is where men belong, the kitchen is where women belong and I just can't get on board with that.
"Men's Interests"? I really am not sure. Any lurkers with a good category name suggestion out there?
Maybe eddiegotsole or sonofkrypton will have an idea. If it is left up to me it'll be called something similar to the folders on my computer..."Guy stuff". "Guys n Stuff" or "Guy things". If it's not a thing or stuff, it has no business being saved on my PC. Lol!
Not sure why men makes me think exclusivity, but guy doesn't. Like if it was "men" it would read "men only" in my head. But "guys" would seem more open; as in place to talk about guys, not a place for only guys to talk. Hmm...strange.
Guys seems more open because it's not uncommon for a person to look at a group of women and say, "You guys..."
True. :c/ (is that a "I'm not sure how I feel about that" face?). Cuz really what's the difference? Implication is the same, but connotation is different. Then again "You people" has a whole other meaning.
Lol! I read your "you guys" as "Yous Guys". I've only been at my in-laws 36 hours, but its already starting to creep in.
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If nothing else pans out I think I'm down with Guys. We can explain our desired function as support for other men and a resource/support for women with regard to men's issues and a male point of view in the description.
I want to like it. We all talk about team pink, team blue, or team green; being in your partner's corner; us (parents) vs them (kids), and every other sports analogy out there. It says team and calls to mind maleness.
I think my hesitation says more about my experiences and of those I grew up with in locker rooms than anything else. If you aren't an Alpha or happen to be good friends with the Alphas, locker rooms are not necessarily the most inviting, comfortable, or safest places to be.
That being said...I do realize I need to tone down my mission to civilize humanity on masculinity. The one locker room that seemed most welcoming and the BS was much less a factor was at away games. But I'd much prefer to be on the TCF team than in the "visitor's locker room".
This really shouldn't be that hard, yet essentially we are trying to think of a name for what TCF contains from a male perspective. Plus you have this asshole ::points to self like Blake Shelton on The Voice:: We (men) are the other half of this process, of growing a family in whatever form that takes. Thoughts on "The Other Halves" or something like it?
I'm down. sonofkrypton is around every couple of days, but I haven't seen eddiegotsole or chefbonez in quite awhile. Hopefully they might comment soon or else I'd say go for it.
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