Post by justbeth on Mar 28, 2015 21:45:56 GMT -5
I haven't been on birth control in 6 years. I recently started taking Kariva because the pain from my endometriosis was becoming unbearable and was effecting my daily life. It was birth control or surgery. We chose birth control and switched our TTC plan from TTC to foster-adopting.
I've been on Kariva for 6 weeks continuously now. It is making me crazy hormonal. I cry ALL the time at the drop of the hat. I am typically not a crier at all. Before getting on BC we wanted a baby, but I had come to terms with adoption and was seriously in a good place with that. Now I want to get pregnant with everything in me. I want it so bad it actually hurts. I cry at the sight of a newborn or the thought of never having another bio child.
I think it's just the hormones from the birth control. I know logically that even trying to get pregnant means having pretty intense surgery, then going through more infertility treatments. I KNOW that I just don't have this in me right now. Maybe one day, but not today. If it was guaranteed to work, guaranteed that I wouldn't miscarry again, I might be in. But it's not. And that's a big commitment for something that *might* work. I KNOW this. I am choosing not to do this. Yet I am not okay emotionally. I'm a mess. But I wasn't before the birth control. I'm not sure if it's making me emotional or if it's just sinking in that I'm on BC and can't get pregnant, that I'm giving that dream up.
All this to say, if you have been on birth control do the crazies stop once your body has adjusted to the hormones? Or is this life? Or do I need a different bc? Or an additional med? How long did it take you to adjust?
In case it's important: My endo pain is 90% gone now. Gone! It's amazing. I forgot what it was like to not be in almost constant pain. My boobs hurt like crazy though. (I keep hoping they are growing, but that doesn't seem to be happening...)
Wow. That got long. If you made it through please have some wine and cookies on me. Sorry for the mental breakdown.
I've been on Kariva for 6 weeks continuously now. It is making me crazy hormonal. I cry ALL the time at the drop of the hat. I am typically not a crier at all. Before getting on BC we wanted a baby, but I had come to terms with adoption and was seriously in a good place with that. Now I want to get pregnant with everything in me. I want it so bad it actually hurts. I cry at the sight of a newborn or the thought of never having another bio child.
I think it's just the hormones from the birth control. I know logically that even trying to get pregnant means having pretty intense surgery, then going through more infertility treatments. I KNOW that I just don't have this in me right now. Maybe one day, but not today. If it was guaranteed to work, guaranteed that I wouldn't miscarry again, I might be in. But it's not. And that's a big commitment for something that *might* work. I KNOW this. I am choosing not to do this. Yet I am not okay emotionally. I'm a mess. But I wasn't before the birth control. I'm not sure if it's making me emotional or if it's just sinking in that I'm on BC and can't get pregnant, that I'm giving that dream up.
All this to say, if you have been on birth control do the crazies stop once your body has adjusted to the hormones? Or is this life? Or do I need a different bc? Or an additional med? How long did it take you to adjust?
In case it's important: My endo pain is 90% gone now. Gone! It's amazing. I forgot what it was like to not be in almost constant pain. My boobs hurt like crazy though. (I keep hoping they are growing, but that doesn't seem to be happening...)
Wow. That got long. If you made it through please have some wine and cookies on me. Sorry for the mental breakdown.