*TWW Monday*
Mar 30, 2015 14:03:04 GMT -5
Post by Deleted on Mar 30, 2015 14:03:04 GMT -5
Mar 30, 2015 14:01:05 GMT -5 @emilie818 said:
Mar 30, 2015 13:06:24 GMT -5 @debthelibrarian said:
I'm one of the ones who has stopped posting in GKU. And it's because of the pee sticks, the making people who are trying to GKU feel unwelcome if they don't want to see someone's baby ticker (ie board culture discussion), and general group hug/back scratching/love fest nonsense that we didn't see at TTGP.And now, since I'm avoiding for medical reasons, I feel like I'm even less welcome here. I get people wanting to chat. But isn't that what a chit chat/BOTB board is for?
I also have to say I agree with this and is a reason why I'm posting less. While I love all the pregglies, I kind of liked the whole thing where GKU/TTGP was a place you moved on from after getting a BFP. Now I feel like most threads are chat threads, making the board more like Parenting. I get that most of us who have been here for a while feel a little BTDT about discussing TTC, but let's not forget that there are a lot of newbs here who are excited about TTC and who probably give zero fucks about the old board culture at TB. This is their board too and making them feel unwelcome or like things are too cliquey or insular isn't a good thing.