For all of you saying sex has been very infrequent, do you still try and keep up with hand jobs or blow jobs? Or is DH pretty much on his own for a while? I've been trying, but it's getting more uncomfortable to even do that.
Basically nothing for H over here... I haven't given him a BJ in a while, like a long while. And HJ's are just awkward right now. He is on his own. We cuddle on the couch or in bed some, but that's as intimate as we are right now. Sadly, I know it will be like this likely all summer... so although it sucks to be him, he'll be ok.
We had similar non-sex with our 1st too, but after awhile it finally resolved itself... it did take awhile though because sex was really uncomfortable for me for a long time and we had to take it super slow and frequently stopped before we got anywhere because it hurt so much.
I wasn't meaning it to come across as boasting, it was meant to be lighthearted.. Hence why I spoke about more important matters of my day like SO's little sister.
ETA:- maybe I took my joke too far. Sorry I didn't mean to come across like an ahole
Sometimes I get pain during it too. It can feel like a sharp stinging sensation.. One time I got what I think was a BH contraction. That was pretty uncomfortable.
I wasn't meaning it to come across as boasting, it was meant to be lighthearted.. Hence why I spoke about more important matters of my day like SO's little sister.
ETA:- maybe I took my joke too far. Sorry I didn't mean to come across like an ahole
That's fine. It did come off very braggy. Maybe I'm just jealous because I could have sex every day too if my DH and I could be together on the couch on a Tuesday and we weren't soooo old.
Pregnancy "O"s are my favorite. It is probably the only time I feel remotely good while pregnant. Hubby works two jobs so sometimes it is hard to find the time. We are an old horny couple over here!
I don't think we've had sex since around his birthday in February and maybe it's been three times since being pregnant. It's just so uncomfortable to me and H really only likes two positions (I can't be on my back and I just feel like I'm flopping around on top) so...yeah.
I actually was kind of in the mood this morning but we just don't have time then.
Post by mrskblack11 on Mar 31, 2015 16:55:54 GMT -5
We have been having sex about twice a week. The more I give it to him, the more he wants it. He harasses me on the daily for it. When we do have sex it is because I initiate it, which he loves. Since he is working himself up so much, he normally only lasts a few minutes which is FINE BY ME. I do not give him extra BJs due to the lack of sex.
Eh. The only way he's really getting any is if he does down on me first. Which he does plenty of anyway so I scored there. Locked that tongue down. But now it's more of a necessity. Actual P in the V is not beneficial for me at all right now and kind of hurts. I'm blaming it on increased blood flow but it feels like my vagina shrunk. And I'm really sick of doggy style which is the only position we can comfortably get on in.
Our frequency is at about twice a week now. We've have a few long breaks from some post sex spotting that freaked him out but after about a week he can't hold out any more.
I'm just ready to be able to have great sex again. Right now it's just so much effort and Im just so sleepy.
I'm opposite. I was tighter before and frequently required a process to get P in V. Since PG I'm opening up like a
Post by carolyngrace on Apr 1, 2015 7:10:47 GMT -5
I'm with you, leenziepops, I'm way less tight now that I'm pg So the actual sex isn't uncomfortable for me, but it just doesn't feel like much. And no man wants to hear that!
erbear, LOL at "flopping around up there". Yeah, I can't really maneuver myself on top either.
cnumbers, Just enjoy it for the rest of us! You guys have only been together a couple of years, too, right? I'm not saying it will die down for sure, but the first few years are usually the hottest so have fun
Post by tinavonsparkle on Apr 1, 2015 10:22:16 GMT -5
My SO gets freaked out and eebie jeebied to the point where he can't carry on when we are getting freaky and then he feels the baby move. It's been weeks and weeks. I can't say I'm missing it very much and we are having lots of cuddles instead (whoo go us!) but I am looking forward to having my own body back and being able to get back into the groove minus the bump.
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