How do you react when a kid hurts your baby? *long vent*
Apr 5, 2015 18:27:02 GMT -5
Post by mels823 on Apr 5, 2015 18:27:02 GMT -5
Alright. We had some Easter drama today.
I have 4 nieces and nephews that I love. One of my nephews, who is 3, has down syndrome He is such a sweet boy and is so funny and adorable! He does have problems with throwing things. He throws anything he can get his hands on. He throws his bottle at his grandma all the time Toys, silverware, plates... anything. He hits when he is upset. He just can't help it. And I totally understand that. I stand up for him all the time when my DH complains about his behavior.
My LO is 11 weeks old and has a full head of hair. Lots of hair. We brush it into a mohawk because there is so much of it! She was in her bouncer today when he came over and nicely pat her head (we were watching him like a hawk because he has hit her (lightly) a few times). All of a sudden I see him keep his hand on the top of her head and clench his fist. My husband and I jumped up and shouted "NO!" but it was too late. He had a huge chunk of hair in his hands and yanked SO hard. If she hadn't of been buckled into the bouncer she might have come out of it. It was awful.
It took us a few seconds to get him to loosen his hand and let go of her hair. She was screaming like never before. Cried for well over 5 minutes. SO many tears. I have never seen her like this before. It was so heartbreaking
He hardly talks and I know he doesn't even know that what he did was wrong and that he hurt her, so of course he can't apologize, and I totally get that! I don't expect him to! His parents though, honest to god laughed it off. Were like "oh, well, in a year she will be able to fight back!". Really?!?!?! They didn't even try to tell him it was bad and that he hurt her. This wasn't a gentle tug. I'm not one to exaggerate. She's 11 weeks old. Not even 10 pounds. So small to have her head yanked like that. If she was a few years older I wouldn't be as upset I don't think.
All I expected, or really wanted, was his parents to apologize. If my dogs barks at a kid and scares them I apologize immediately because I know that they can't! Not to mention it's just the right thing to do. It was just so upsetting to see someone hurt her. I know she won't remember it, but hey, I'm a girl and I know that if someone grabbed a big chunk of my hair and pulled hard it would hurt! Bad! I'm just so annoyed with my BIL and his wife. Am I being over dramatic here?
I have 4 nieces and nephews that I love. One of my nephews, who is 3, has down syndrome He is such a sweet boy and is so funny and adorable! He does have problems with throwing things. He throws anything he can get his hands on. He throws his bottle at his grandma all the time Toys, silverware, plates... anything. He hits when he is upset. He just can't help it. And I totally understand that. I stand up for him all the time when my DH complains about his behavior.
My LO is 11 weeks old and has a full head of hair. Lots of hair. We brush it into a mohawk because there is so much of it! She was in her bouncer today when he came over and nicely pat her head (we were watching him like a hawk because he has hit her (lightly) a few times). All of a sudden I see him keep his hand on the top of her head and clench his fist. My husband and I jumped up and shouted "NO!" but it was too late. He had a huge chunk of hair in his hands and yanked SO hard. If she hadn't of been buckled into the bouncer she might have come out of it. It was awful.
It took us a few seconds to get him to loosen his hand and let go of her hair. She was screaming like never before. Cried for well over 5 minutes. SO many tears. I have never seen her like this before. It was so heartbreaking
He hardly talks and I know he doesn't even know that what he did was wrong and that he hurt her, so of course he can't apologize, and I totally get that! I don't expect him to! His parents though, honest to god laughed it off. Were like "oh, well, in a year she will be able to fight back!". Really?!?!?! They didn't even try to tell him it was bad and that he hurt her. This wasn't a gentle tug. I'm not one to exaggerate. She's 11 weeks old. Not even 10 pounds. So small to have her head yanked like that. If she was a few years older I wouldn't be as upset I don't think.
All I expected, or really wanted, was his parents to apologize. If my dogs barks at a kid and scares them I apologize immediately because I know that they can't! Not to mention it's just the right thing to do. It was just so upsetting to see someone hurt her. I know she won't remember it, but hey, I'm a girl and I know that if someone grabbed a big chunk of my hair and pulled hard it would hurt! Bad! I'm just so annoyed with my BIL and his wife. Am I being over dramatic here?