Re: tipping I tip anyone who has their wages based off of tips, or anyone who does me a cosmetic service (like hair, nails). I was once told by a sonic worker they get a lot of tips and don't even claim them because they make minimum wage. That made me ragey.
*Most* tipped employees I know [servers/bartenders] do not claim all tips. I definitely never did.
I was a waitress and I rounded to the nearest dollar. But the difference between the waitress and someone at sonic is the waitress does not make minimum wage, but half of it.
Re: tipping I tip anyone who has their wages based off of tips, or anyone who does me a cosmetic service (like hair, nails). I was once told by a sonic worker they get a lot of tips and don't even claim them because they make minimum wage. That made me ragey.
MH makes min. wage when he is behind the bar. He pours beers, fills growlers and any other bar related duties so patrons tip him for providing this service. I was just wondering now that i've informed you that there are some bartenders that make minimum wage how will you handle that. Just not tip at all or start asking their salary.
Tip for good service no matter what. Those extra couple bucks could help someone pay a bill.
Tipping the people behind the bar is just a good idea. I mean, they control the booze.
MH makes min. wage when he is behind the bar. He pours beers, fills growlers and any other bar related duties so patrons tip him for providing this service. I was just wondering now that i've informed you that there are some bartenders that make minimum wage how will you handle that. Just not tip at all or start asking their salary.
Tip for good service no matter what. Those extra couple bucks could help someone pay a bill.
Some people are not allowed to accept tips, even for good service, i.e. those in retail. In all honesty, I've never been to a bar and don't plan to so I don't have to worry about tipping someone to pour me a drink.
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MH makes min. wage when he is behind the bar. He pours beers, fills growlers and any other bar related duties so patrons tip him for providing this service. I was just wondering now that i've informed you that there are some bartenders that make minimum wage how will you handle that. Just not tip at all or start asking their salary.
Tip for good service no matter what. Those extra couple bucks could help someone pay a bill.
Some people are not allowed to accept tips, even for good service, i.e. those in retail. In all honesty, I've never been to a bar and don't plan to so I don't have to worry about tipping someone to pour me a drink.
Never been to a bar?! That's just a bad life choice.
Now, above when you say you rounded to the nearest dollar, you're saying someone tips you $6.42, you claimed $6? Or you rounded up to $7?
I'm just an asshole, I definitely claimed less than that.
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Some people are not allowed to accept tips, even for good service, i.e. those in retail. In all honesty, I've never been to a bar and don't plan to so I don't have to worry about tipping someone to pour me a drink.
Never been to a bar?! That's just a bad life choice.
Now, above when you say you rounded to the nearest dollar, you're saying someone tips you $6.42, you claimed $6? Or you rounded up to $7?
I'm just an asshole, I definitely claimed less than that.
Well I just worked at measly Pizza Hut when I was a waitress but I would count my tips at the end of the night and I would mathematically round, if it's less than .5 I round down and .5 or higher I round up.
Never been to a bar?! That's just a bad life choice.
Now, above when you say you rounded to the nearest dollar, you're saying someone tips you $6.42, you claimed $6? Or you rounded up to $7?
I'm just an asshole, I definitely claimed less than that.
Well I just worked at measly Pizza Hut when I was a waitress but I would count my tips at the end of the night and I would mathematically round, if it's less than .5 I round down and .5 or higher I round up.
I think you are more honest than 97% of the waitstaff out there. I would claim all my credit card tips and an "undisclosed %" of my cash tips.
Never been to a bar?! That's just a bad life choice.
Now, above when you say you rounded to the nearest dollar, you're saying someone tips you $6.42, you claimed $6? Or you rounded up to $7?
I'm just an asshole, I definitely claimed less than that.
Well I just worked at measly Pizza Hut when I was a waitress but I would count my tips at the end of the night and I would mathematically round, if it's less than .5 I round down and .5 or higher I round up.
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MH makes min. wage when he is behind the bar. He pours beers, fills growlers and any other bar related duties so patrons tip him for providing this service. I was just wondering now that i've informed you that there are some bartenders that make minimum wage how will you handle that. Just not tip at all or start asking their salary.
Tip for good service no matter what. Those extra couple bucks could help someone pay a bill.
Some people are not allowed to accept tips, even for good service, i.e. those in retail. In all honesty, I've never been to a bar and don't plan to so I don't have to worry about tipping someone to pour me a drink.
You've never been to a bar? Not even the bar in a restaurant?
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Some people are not allowed to accept tips, even for good service, i.e. those in retail. In all honesty, I've never been to a bar and don't plan to so I don't have to worry about tipping someone to pour me a drink.
You've never been to a bar? Not even the bar in a restaurant?
Do you drink or just not at bars?
Just not at bars. I might have a drink at dinner or otherwise I drink at home. Just not my scene is all.
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Just not at bars. I might have a drink at dinner or otherwise I drink at home. Just not my scene is all.
Have you ever sat at the bar at a restaurant, or do you include that in the like "bar scene"?
I'm thinking like the bar at Applebee's or Olive Garden.
I haven't ever sat at the bar in a restaurant. I think I would include that in the bar scene. I personally don't use drinking as my main goal in having fun. I normally have it as a treat with dinner or relaxation in the evening. But I'm not a full-blown fuddy duddy. I have been to parties and such when I was younger, just kind of drifted away from those things.
Have you ever sat at the bar at a restaurant, or do you include that in the like "bar scene"?
I'm thinking like the bar at Applebee's or Olive Garden.
I haven't ever sat at the bar in a restaurant. I think I would include that in the bar scene. I personally don't use drinking as my main goal in having fun. I normally have it as a treat with dinner or relaxation in the evening. But I'm not a full-blown fuddy duddy. I have been to parties and such when I was younger, just kind of drifted away from those things.
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Have you ever sat at the bar at a restaurant, or do you include that in the like "bar scene"?
I'm thinking like the bar at Applebee's or Olive Garden.
I haven't ever sat at the bar in a restaurant. I think I would include that in the bar scene. I personally don't use drinking as my main goal in having fun. I normally have it as a treat with dinner or relaxation in the evening. But I'm not a full-blown fuddy duddy. I have been to parties and such when I was younger, just kind of drifted away from those things.
Judgmental much? Sitting at the bar at a restaurant has nothing to do with "drinking to have fun". Sometimes DH and I have sat at the bar to eat dinner because there's less wait.
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I haven't ever sat at the bar in a restaurant. I think I would include that in the bar scene. I personally don't use drinking as my main goal in having fun. I normally have it as a treat with dinner or relaxation in the evening. But I'm not a full-blown fuddy duddy. I have been to parties and such when I was younger, just kind of drifted away from those things.
Judgmental much? Sitting at the bar at a restaurant has nothing to do with "drinking to have fun". Sometimes DH and I have sat at the bar to eat dinner because there's less wait.
You're shocked at her judgemental attitude? EL-OH-EL.
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Have you ever sat at the bar at a restaurant, or do you include that in the like "bar scene"?
I'm thinking like the bar at Applebee's or Olive Garden.
I haven't ever sat at the bar in a restaurant. I think I would include that in the bar scene. I personally don't use drinking as my main goal in having fun. I normally have it as a treat with dinner or relaxation in the evening. But I'm not a full-blown fuddy duddy. I have been to parties and such when I was younger, just kind of drifted away from those things.
I haven't ever sat at the bar in a restaurant. I think I would include that in the bar scene. I personally don't use drinking as my main goal in having fun. I normally have it as a treat with dinner or relaxation in the evening. But I'm not a full-blown fuddy duddy. I have been to parties and such when I was younger, just kind of drifted away from those things.
Judgmental much? Sitting at the bar at a restaurant has nothing to do with "drinking to have fun". Sometimes DH and I have sat at the bar to eat dinner because there's less wait.
I don't care what anyone else does. I don't sit at dinner and just stare judgingly at the people at the bar. I just have made a choice to not drink as my main form of entertainment. That was the only statement I was making.
Judgmental much? Sitting at the bar at a restaurant has nothing to do with "drinking to have fun". Sometimes DH and I have sat at the bar to eat dinner because there's less wait.
You're shocked at her judgemental attitude? EL-OH-EL.
Sadly, no. This is just another notch in her judgmental belt.
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Judgmental much? Sitting at the bar at a restaurant has nothing to do with "drinking to have fun". Sometimes DH and I have sat at the bar to eat dinner because there's less wait.
I don't care what anyone else does. I don't sit at dinner and just stare judgingly at the people at the bar. I just have made a choice to not drink as my main form of entertainment. That was the only statement I was making.
But if someone is at a bar, drinking is their main form of entertainment? I have many forms of entertainment. I also enjoy drinking. I somehow manage to find entertainment without drinking as well.
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Judgmental much? Sitting at the bar at a restaurant has nothing to do with "drinking to have fun". Sometimes DH and I have sat at the bar to eat dinner because there's less wait.
I don't care what anyone else does. I don't sit at dinner and just stare judgingly at the people at the bar. I just have made a choice to not drink as my main form of entertainment. That was the only statement I was making.
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I haven't ever sat at the bar in a restaurant. I think I would include that in the bar scene. I personally don't use drinking as my main goal in having fun. I normally have it as a treat with dinner or relaxation in the evening. But I'm not a full-blown fuddy duddy. I have been to parties and such when I was younger, just kind of drifted away from those things.
Judgmental much? Sitting at the bar at a restaurant has nothing to do with "drinking to have fun". Sometimes DH and I have sat at the bar to eat dinner because there's less wait.
Even if sitting at a bar was 100% directly correlated with "drinking to have fun", it still wouldn't be worthy of judgment. What is wrong with drinking for fun?
I don't care what anyone else does. I don't sit at dinner and just stare judgingly at the people at the bar. I just have made a choice to not drink as my main form of entertainment. That was the only statement I was making.
But if someone is at a bar, drinking is their main form of entertainment? I have many forms of entertainment. I also enjoy drinking. I somehow manage to find entertainment without drinking as well.
That's good. Like I said, I don't sit and wonder what people are doing at the bar. I couldn't care less what others do with their free time.
But if someone is at a bar, drinking is their main form of entertainment? I have many forms of entertainment. I also enjoy drinking. I somehow manage to find entertainment without drinking as well.
That's good. Like I said, I don't sit and wonder what people are doing at the bar. I couldn't care less what others do with their free time.
You don't have to wonder what they're doing because you've already got your judgements that you won't be "one of them."
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But if someone is at a bar, drinking is their main form of entertainment? I have many forms of entertainment. I also enjoy drinking. I somehow manage to find entertainment without drinking as well.
That's good. Like I said, I don't sit and wonder what people are doing at the bar. I couldn't care less what others do with their free time.
Fuck you.
Equating sitting at a bar to drinking as someone's main form of entertainment is JUDGING you idiot. You clearly do care because your posts reek of "holier than thou" attitude. Get off your fucking high horse.
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I haven't ever sat at the bar in a restaurant. I think I would include that in the bar scene. I personally don't use drinking as my main goal in having fun. I normally have it as a treat with dinner or relaxation in the evening. But I'm not a full-blown fuddy duddy. I have been to parties and such when I was younger, just kind of drifted away from those things.
Judgmental much? Sitting at the bar at a restaurant has nothing to do with "drinking to have fun". Sometimes DH and I have sat at the bar to eat dinner because there's less wait.
That's me. I typically don't drink at restaurants (overpriced when I have an entire duty free liquor cabinet at home) but we sit at the bar probably 25% of the time when we go out to eat since there's usually not a wait.
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Have you ever sat at the bar at a restaurant, or do you include that in the like "bar scene"?
I'm thinking like the bar at Applebee's or Olive Garden.
I haven't ever sat at the bar in a restaurant. I think I would include that in the bar scene. I personally don't use drinking as my main goal in having fun. I normally have it as a treat with dinner or relaxation in the evening. But I'm not a full-blown fuddy duddy. I have been to parties and such when I was younger, just kind of drifted away from those things.
I hate brining age into things, but didn't you say you're 22? Or am I mistaken?
Post by icaughtfire on Apr 10, 2015 21:15:32 GMT -5
Personally, I find drinking wine in the bathtub while watching people on the board makes fools of themselves to be my main form of entertainment. Fuck, I'm drinking. @rutherily wins.
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Judgmental much? Sitting at the bar at a restaurant has nothing to do with "drinking to have fun". Sometimes DH and I have sat at the bar to eat dinner because there's less wait.
That's me. I typically don't drink at restaurants (overpriced when I have an entire duty free liquor cabinet at home) but we sit at the bar probably 25% of the time when we go out to eat since there's usually not a wait.
@rutherily, why did you love-tit this? I said the exact same thing earlier and yet you ignored it and went on about how drinking at bars is just some lame way to have fun that almighty you doesn't do.
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