Judgmental much? Sitting at the bar at a restaurant has nothing to do with "drinking to have fun". Sometimes DH and I have sat at the bar to eat dinner because there's less wait.
I don't care what anyone else does. I don't sit at dinner and just stare judgingly at the people at the bar. I just have made a choice to not drink as my main form of entertainment. That was the only statement I was making.
I've mostly kept my mouth shut when it comes to you, but it's like you just won't stop.
There's been many times where I've had a meal with a friend at the bar of a restaurant. Yes, there is drinking involved, but that's not the main entertainment. My main entertainment is that there's good conversation ALONG WITH a few drinks.
Do you think EVER before you post? Every single post of yours comes off as judgmental. How do you function in everyday life with the level of judgment you harbor?
There's nothing wrong with that. It's not everyone's scene. While i'm married to a brewer, my little brother (28) has never had a drink in his life. Sometimes he even brings a book when we drag him out with us. He's still my favorite sibling.
There's nothing wrong with that. It's not everyone's scene. While i'm married to a brewer, my little brother (28) has never had a drink in his life. Sometimes he even brings a book when we drag him out with us. He's still my favorite sibling.
I would enjoy them if they weren't so damn loud.
We also go out to dinner at like 4:45 PM before they turn up the TVs and shit.
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I haven't ever sat at the bar in a restaurant. I think I would include that in the bar scene. I personally don't use drinking as my main goal in having fun. I normally have it as a treat with dinner or relaxation in the evening. But I'm not a full-blown fuddy duddy. I have been to parties and such when I was younger, just kind of drifted away from those things.
I hate brining age into things, but didn't you say you're 22? Or am I mistaken?
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I used to pick her up from bars because she couldn't stop throwing up after only 2-3 drinks. She didn't figure it out for a LONG time. She just thought she had a really low tolerance.
I hate brining age into things, but didn't you say you're 22? Or am I mistaken?
I am 22. Not sure why that matters though.
Because you said you went to parties when you were younger. I was wondering how young you started partying. It sounds like there is potential to be impressed and/ or could also better explain why you've sworn off party at 22.
I used to pick her up from bars because she couldn't stop throwing up after only 2-3 drinks. She didn't figure it out for a LONG time. She just thought she had a really low tolerance.
I hate brining age into things, but didn't you say you're 22? Or am I mistaken?
I am 22. Not sure why that matters though.
I always forget that there are people here over a decade younger than me. It's ok @rutherily, your opinions on bars, people and entertainment will change like 10 times before you hit 30.
Has it been diagnosed by a doctor? I'm not sure how she could be allergic to all alcohol since they are made from different products and don't all have the same allergens.
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That's me. I typically don't drink at restaurants (overpriced when I have an entire duty free liquor cabinet at home) but we sit at the bar probably 25% of the time when we go out to eat since there's usually not a wait.
@rutherily, why did you love-tit this? I said the exact same thing earlier and yet you ignored it and went on about how drinking at bars is just some lame way to have fun that almighty you doesn't do.
I love titted it because I like what you said. I must have missed it earlier. And no I never said drinking at bars is a lame way to have fun. And I am not better than anyone because I don't drink at bars. I give no shits what other people do. Why does a different choice I make have to make me automatically judgmental? I realize some people sit at a restaurant bar to eat, I've seen them. My only statement was that I personally don't drink as my main entertainment so that's why I myself make the choice to not enter the bar scene. You do you, I do me. No one's better than the other.
I used to pick her up from bars because she couldn't stop throwing up after only 2-3 drinks. She didn't figure it out for a LONG time. She just thought she had a really low tolerance.
oh no! That is so awful! I've heard of people having stomach issues especially with wheat based alcohols but never projectile vomiting.
Has it been diagnosed by a doctor? I'm not sure how she could be allergic to all alcohol since they are made from different products and don't all have the same allergens.
Yes, I guess it's been diagnosed as an allergy. Something about the way her body breaks down alcohol. I forget the specifics because it was almost ten years ago.
She's tried all different kinds of alcohol and you can see her face start to turn red after a half a drink.
@rutherily, why did you love-tit this? I said the exact same thing earlier and yet you ignored it and went on about how drinking at bars is just some lame way to have fun that almighty you doesn't do.
I love titted it because I like what you said. I must have missed it earlier. And no I never said drinking at bars is a lame way to have fun. And I am not better than anyone because I don't drink at bars. I give no shits what other people do. Why does a different choice I make have to make me automatically judgmental? I realize some people sit at a restaurant bar to eat, I've seen them. My only statement was that I personally don't drink as my main entertainment so that's why I myself make the choice to not enter the bar scene. You do you, I do me. No one's better than the other.
Do you seriously not understand that the was you phrased it made it come across as judging? Just the automatic assumption that drinking at a bar = drinking is main form of entertainment is judging. You are being really fucking judgmental. It's one thing to say "I don't like bars" and another to say "Bars are where people go when they only know how to have fun while drinking". Good fucking grief. Grow a fucking brain!
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There's nothing wrong with that. It's not everyone's scene. While i'm married to a brewer, my little brother (28) has never had a drink in his life. Sometimes he even brings a book when we drag him out with us. He's still my favorite sibling.
I would enjoy them if they weren't so damn loud.
We also go out to dinner at like 4:45 PM before they turn up the TVs and shit.
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I only go to bar where I can sit down. I don't do standing room only. I also really only drink where MH works because I don't have to pay.
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Has it been diagnosed by a doctor? I'm not sure how she could be allergic to all alcohol since they are made from different products and don't all have the same allergens.
Yes, I guess it's been diagnosed as an allergy. Something about the way her body breaks down alcohol. I forget the specifics because it was almost ten years ago.
She's tried all different kinds of alcohol and you can see her face start to turn red after a half a drink.
Completely random question: does she have Asian heritage? It's been documented that several Asian populations (especially Japanese people) are lacking an enzyme that helps break down alcohol. That's what her issue sounds like. It's not technically an allergy though- just means her body can effectively clear alcohol, thus allowing small amounts to affect her more than other people.
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@rutherily, why did you love-tit this? I said the exact same thing earlier and yet you ignored it and went on about how drinking at bars is just some lame way to have fun that almighty you doesn't do.
I love titted it because I like what you said. I must have missed it earlier. And no I never said drinking at bars is a lame way to have fun. And I am not better than anyone because I don't drink at bars. I give no shits what other people do. Why does a different choice I make have to make me automatically judgmental? I realize some people sit at a restaurant bar to eat, I've seen them. My only statement was that I personally don't drink as my main entertainment so that's why I myself make the choice to not enter the bar scene. You do you, I do me. No one's better than the other.
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Yes, I guess it's been diagnosed as an allergy. Something about the way her body breaks down alcohol. I forget the specifics because it was almost ten years ago.
She's tried all different kinds of alcohol and you can see her face start to turn red after a half a drink.
Completely random question: does she have Asian heritage? It's been documented that several Asian populations (especially Japanese people) are lacking an enzyme that helps break down alcohol. That's what her issue sounds like. It's not technically an allergy though- just means her body can effectively clear alcohol, thus allowing small amounts to affect her more than other people.
No. That's actually the first question her doctor asked her. I've heard that before.
I love titted it because I like what you said. I must have missed it earlier. And no I never said drinking at bars is a lame way to have fun. And I am not better than anyone because I don't drink at bars. I give no shits what other people do. Why does a different choice I make have to make me automatically judgmental? I realize some people sit at a restaurant bar to eat, I've seen them. My only statement was that I personally don't drink as my main entertainment so that's why I myself make the choice to not enter the bar scene. You do you, I do me. No one's better than the other.
I love titted it because I like what you said. I must have missed it earlier. And no I never said drinking at bars is a lame way to have fun. And I am not better than anyone because I don't drink at bars. I give no shits what other people do. Why does a different choice I make have to make me automatically judgmental? I realize some people sit at a restaurant bar to eat, I've seen them. My only statement was that I personally don't drink as my main entertainment so that's why I myself make the choice to not enter the bar scene. You do you, I do me. No one's better than the other.
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I love titted it because I like what you said. I must have missed it earlier. And no I never said drinking at bars is a lame way to have fun. And I am not better than anyone because I don't drink at bars. I give no shits what other people do. Why does a different choice I make have to make me automatically judgmental? I realize some people sit at a restaurant bar to eat, I've seen them. My only statement was that I personally don't drink as my main entertainment so that's why I myself make the choice to not enter the bar scene. You do you, I do me. No one's better than the other.
Do you seriously not understand that the was you phrased it made it come across as judging? Just the automatic assumption that drinking at a bar = drinking is main form of entertainment is judging. You are being really fucking judgmental. It's one thing to say "I don't like bars" and another to say "Bars are where people go when they only know how to have fun while drinking". Good fucking grief. Grow a fucking brain!
I didn't say that either. See, you're really trying to put words in my mouth to make me judgmental. I'll say it again. I choose not to go to bars because I don't drink for entertainment. I equate bars with drinking because that's what I would do if I went there but I don't care if the whole fucking bar is eating sandwiches. I give not one single fuck what anyone else is doing at a bar. I choose to not go to bars because I don't want to drink.
Completely random question: does she have Asian heritage? It's been documented that several Asian populations (especially Japanese people) are lacking an enzyme that helps break down alcohol. That's what her issue sounds like. It's not technically an allergy though- just means her body can effectively clear alcohol, thus allowing small amounts to affect her more than other people.
No. That's actually the first question her doctor asked her. I've heard that before.
Hmm. Weird. Strange stuff.
Sorry for going all nerdy on ya. Sometimes the doctor within comes out and I can't control it.
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Because you said you went to parties when you were younger. I was wondering how young you started partying. It sounds like there is potential to be impressed and/ or could also better explain why you've sworn off party at 22.
I was in high school. It wasn't 30 years ago, but I say younger because I was younger. And it wasn't partying like snorting cocaine off of a naked stripped. Just the normal drinking teenagers. I haven't sworn off partying. I just don't do the bar scene. Maybe it's paying too much for alcohol, maybe it's drinking around strangers. I'm not sure, it's just not for me.
Do you seriously not understand that the was you phrased it made it come across as judging? Just the automatic assumption that drinking at a bar = drinking is main form of entertainment is judging. You are being really fucking judgmental. It's one thing to say "I don't like bars" and another to say "Bars are where people go when they only know how to have fun while drinking". Good fucking grief. Grow a fucking brain!
I didn't say that either. See, you're really trying to put words in my mouth to make me judgmental. I'll say it again. I choose not to go to bars because I don't drink for entertainment. I equate bars with drinking because that's what I would do if I went there but I don't care if the whole fucking bar is eating sandwiches. I give not one single fuck what anyone else is doing at a bar. I choose to not go to bars because I don't want to drink.
You really don't get it. Good fucking grief.
Equating going to a bar to drinking for entertainment is judging! Get that through your fucking head.
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Has it been diagnosed by a doctor? I'm not sure how she could be allergic to all alcohol since they are made from different products and don't all have the same allergens.
My grandmother can't drink at all, either. She doesn't have a diagnosis. But each time she has ever had a drink, anything more than a sip or two, she's gotten dizzy and ill.
Wine, beer, champagne...doesn't matter.
My husband coughs uncontrollably. I thought he was making it up at first but it happens even if noone tells him there is alcohol in it.
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