Working Mom/Preschool Blues
Apr 14, 2015 12:58:38 GMT -5
Post by xanthepants on Apr 14, 2015 12:58:38 GMT -5
I could put this in a whine- but I feel like starting threads so sue me.
I'm frustrated. I still don't like our daycare much. The latest is that the preschool teacher that I do like is now cutting her hours (she works 3 jobs) because she just can't do it anymore (who blames her!). So more than likely she's outta there. Word is an outside person from FL will start someday in the future. So again another new person and Coco does terrible with new people. Sigh. They've been trying to transition her in each day and it goes shitty. She cries most days for a while and hides in a corner or needs a ton of attention and reassurance because she is scared of the other kids. She doesn't really know many of the other kids (I checked and there are 2 boys that were once in her toddler class, most have moved away).
I have checked and checked other schools. Preschools situations suck. 2-3 hours 2-3 days a week. WTF. What do working parents do? I have to pay for preschool and then on top of that find a way to get her to and from and then before and after care and pay for that? So instead of my payments going down they skyrocket. Or I find places that do both (such as the lone place I'm at and it bites). I've found one other place and the director flaked out on the tour so that is a no-go (besides them having 17 kids per teacher). I'm now down to doing a second round of searches and expanding our ring and looking at parochial schools (with no ratings to be found - sigh!) or to adding a good 20-30 minutes onto my 1 hour commute. I live in a huge city. This shouldn't be a problem. How are you guys handling this or being creative with your schedules to deal with this? Finding daycare seemed simple compared to this.
I'm frustrated. I still don't like our daycare much. The latest is that the preschool teacher that I do like is now cutting her hours (she works 3 jobs) because she just can't do it anymore (who blames her!). So more than likely she's outta there. Word is an outside person from FL will start someday in the future. So again another new person and Coco does terrible with new people. Sigh. They've been trying to transition her in each day and it goes shitty. She cries most days for a while and hides in a corner or needs a ton of attention and reassurance because she is scared of the other kids. She doesn't really know many of the other kids (I checked and there are 2 boys that were once in her toddler class, most have moved away).
I have checked and checked other schools. Preschools situations suck. 2-3 hours 2-3 days a week. WTF. What do working parents do? I have to pay for preschool and then on top of that find a way to get her to and from and then before and after care and pay for that? So instead of my payments going down they skyrocket. Or I find places that do both (such as the lone place I'm at and it bites). I've found one other place and the director flaked out on the tour so that is a no-go (besides them having 17 kids per teacher). I'm now down to doing a second round of searches and expanding our ring and looking at parochial schools (with no ratings to be found - sigh!) or to adding a good 20-30 minutes onto my 1 hour commute. I live in a huge city. This shouldn't be a problem. How are you guys handling this or being creative with your schedules to deal with this? Finding daycare seemed simple compared to this.