Baby Elliott (technically) due 6.13.2015 but born via c-section on 4.12.2015 at 31w1d after 31d of hospital arrest (think house arrest) for monitoring.
I know I already said this but, I'm soooo glad you & Piper got to see each other today. I'm sure being able to see her now will make things much easier!
I'm still praying for you. You're so strong, mama. Hang in there! ❤
You have to be one of the strongest women I kind of? know. Reading your updates gives me strength to face things that aren't nearly as difficult as what you are facing. I cry every time I read your updates-sometimes when they just are not fair and sometimes when they are so hopeful. I left your blog up this evening while I was in the bath and I came out to my husband crying for the second time I've ever seen him cry in my life. You have another person praying for you tonight as we will both pray for you and your miracles. Sending lots of love and hugs!
So glad Piper was allowed to join you this evening. Your update was inspiring. Keep that strength of spirit and we will keep praying for you as always.
girpipley You are so strong. I'm glad they gave an exception for your little girl to be able to visit you!! You are in my thoughts and prayers as always.
Sorry I haven't really been on lately, been packing for my move. Just wanted to let you know I have kept up with your blog and I think and pray for you and your family everyday! I'm soo happy you got to see your little girl!
Good morning mama! So glad yesterday was a better day, YAY fluid! Hope today is a great day, too. And how wonderful they finally were wise enough to realize allowing Piper's visits would only help. She's such a cutie and I love the decor!
Are you able to bring in your own meals? Could you set up a meal train for even a couple nights a week to shake things up so you and R are not constantly on hospital food? People want to help and that is a great way to let them, especially since it was giving you intestinal issues last week. I'll stop with the unsolicited advice but hoping for another great day today!
I read your latest update, and although I'm disappointed for you, that you have to be back in that hospital bed. I'm so very glad that your beautiful girl has been allowed to visit you! I know it must be hard for Admin staff (for that floor) to allow it, but the joy and strength it will give you will be amazing. And for her to know you didn't just leave her, that you're trying to be strong, and that you miss her dearly, will help her understand better too.
I'm also glad to hear you are coming to terms with staying... Piper no doubt helped that with your family dinner last night. As hard as it must be for you, it seems like it's the right decision for you and your babies.
Stay strong mama, and know that I'm continuing to send you lots of positive thoughts and prayers.
You are handling this situation with such strength! You amaze me! I know being at the hospital sucks but its the best place for you to be right now. I am so happy to hear Piper was allowed to visit and have dinner with you. It looks like she loved it and I am sure she has an awesome time. Thinking of you every day and praying those babies!
I was so happy to read a positive update! And the pictures of piper drawing and eating her dinner were so heartwarming...I'm glad you have your girl with you while you fight for your boys. Thoughts and prayers for more good days to come!
So happy to hear that it was a better day for you and I am so excited you were able to get hospital admin to allow Piper to come in! Always thinking of you and praying for you.
I'm so glad to see that you're in such good spirits in your most recent update. I know that having Piper visit helped, and I'm so glad they could make that happen! I love your attitude about staying--you're so strong and doing such amazing things to take care of these babies. Keep going, momma
Post by beersandweirs on Feb 6, 2015 12:01:27 GMT -5
I'm so happy they let Piper come visit and you got to spend some time with her, that has got to make things just a little easier! I am also glad to hear you had a good day!
girpipley, I just read your latest update. I applaud you for wanting to make it your mission to educate people on 2nd trimester loss. When my nephew passed away from SIDS, I felt the same way, except I didn't know where to start. I found a non-profit called First Candle that gave me a ton of resources. They may be able to help you too. Just thought I'd share.
Also, 29 days left! That is nothing. You've already made it 3 weeks (21 days). You can do this. You are so strong and your babies are fighters.
Post by periwinkledaydreams on Feb 6, 2015 23:37:50 GMT -5
You are extraordinary! You put your thoughts into words so beautifully. I love your ability to focus on growing and learning and noticing and teaching. For all you are going through right now, the fact that you are actively brainstorming more ways to help other people is just beautiful and so encouraging. The world needs people like you my dear.
periwinkledaydreams is definitely right. The world does need more people like you. Your strength is astounding and your blog posts are so well written and inspiring. I struggle to read them without crying.
You've come so far, everything is crossed for you that you all get through the next four weeks.
Post by baileybaileybne on Feb 7, 2015 5:21:04 GMT -5
I really believe your experiences and willingness to express yourself so honestly will help others at risk of second trimester loss if you are able to direct energy towards that at some stage.
I love that you're already thinking about sharing your experiences with others and I hope it gives you something to think about and focus on during all of the waiting. Still sending thoughts and wishes for you and your family x
In such a tough time, you are selflessly thinking of others and their struggles. You are such an amazing woman and mother. I am thinking so many good thoughts for you and those babies and I hope with everything I have that you never have to experience a second tri loss, I have seen first hand how devastating it truly is.
Post by ombradellarosa on Feb 7, 2015 7:48:40 GMT -5
I loved reading your last updates. It's so good that Piper could come visit you. That must have brightened your day so much. It's good of them to let her come. So glad the babies are still fighting! May they continue to do so! I'm glad to be part of a group that is helping you get through this time. I think it's noble that you want to teach people about second trimester loss and raise awareness. Like others have said, I think it's very selfless of you to think if that now. Keep on keeping on, girl!
I really identified with your last post. I completely understand your need to be realistic and prepare for both outcomes.
That's exactly how I am.
3 weeks already... Good for you, I can't know how hard it must be day in & day out. But glad to hear you're a little happier in your new room. So thankful piper is allowed to visit, obviously they know it will have a great effect on you and your health. I wonder how your vitals will compare now that she is there visiting with you
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